Sept 4th: Balcony adventures - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

It's not live in- they're more like roommates. But I wouldn't mind live in either😳😉.

I hate it when people think if man and woman are living together something sinister is happening. And those who believe in gender segregation (like lovely) somehow have dirtiest minds- they think that only interaction between man and woman would be physical/sexual. Idea of platonic aspect of friendship (or even romance) is unknown to them.

This is what Babita had tried to address during her court case but because people weren't that open-minded in general, she relegated their relationship to tenant-landlord, just to give it a name that was acceptable.

It looks like more and more she will learn not to care about tags but will focus more on the emotions.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

And did Lovely forget that her own brother and Meeta were also in a live-in, where the entire family was a testimony to this, including lovely who lived in the same house. Tab live-in sin nahi hua. So, why this expectation to be pious and virtuous only from Babita?

You know, this is exactly what I was thinking!

Neither Beeji nor Lovely considered this point. Also, how come Beeji insisted that the rituals be done from NB's house when even Meeta's wedding happened while she stayed with the Khuranas? Double-standards indeed. I can't stand Beeji!

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know, this is exactly what I was thinking!

Neither Beeji nor Lovely considered this point. Also, how come Beeji insisted that the rituals be done from NB's house when even Meeta's wedding happened while she stayed with the Khuranas? Double-standards indeed. I can't stand Beeji!

LMAO, Imma add this to the already long list of reasons why I hate her.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMAO, Imma add this to the already long list of reasons why I hate her.

I feel ya!

I haven't forgiven Beeji yet, and her comment in the pre-cap cemented that feeling.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMAOO, they'll be just like this:

🤣🤣🤣

I really don't think Lovely will understand even then. I genuinely feel like she needs a child in her life. Only then will she be able to let go of all the bitterness that's inside of herself. Because right now her infertility is subconsciously haunting her and is making her seeking consolation in areas that aren't even that important.

I think writers have opportunity to explore areas of infertility treatment, adoption...or even might show that it's wasn't lovely who was infertile, but it was rather sukhi , or maybe both had some problem... whatever reason they show, they should touch the stigma with infertility and ways to get help in such situation. I remember in the episode where lovely was jealous of pregnant meeta, she mentioned that her position in her sasural would be higher if only she had a child. She has linked her self worth with having child. So maybe this is the time to talk about how women's value vastly depends on her ability to bear children ( taunting childless women, woman's age generally less than man in marriages)...

Awesome post on Micky - Mini relationship by you, Anu! 🤗

A big NO to Mickey and Mini romance. He is a creep, cheater and a blackmails to hand. How on Earth can you compare him to HS.

He is that typical Boy that dates more than 2 Girls at the same time for a laugh and has no respect at all for Girls. He chases Mini and when she says no takes up with Preeti knowing what she went through and is emotional and now hangs out with Mini and did not like the slight vulgar talk about HS and Babita etc. Mini should know better as she has seen her Mother go through it.

Shame on Mini and Mickey for nearly crossing the very line of decency between BF and GF in friends. This is all going to end in tears.

What will Mini do if Mickey blackmails her next time. So after all this Mini has not learned at all about cheating.

If it was that innocent than why did She not tell HS about Mickey's late night trip and balcony scene because she knows that it is wrong. End of this stupid Mickey and Mini nonsense.

Really spoiled the whole eposide yesterday.

She is so young and has many issues about life that she has to learn and also to study and do something about her future as well.

Mini should be studying and not getting into a cheat zone forget about the soulmate zone.

Otherwise Ashok and Mini both are cheaters, one in marriage and the other in friendship.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMAOO, they'll be just like this:

🤣🤣🤣

I really don't think Lovely will understand even then. I genuinely feel like she needs a child in her life. Only then will she be able to let go of all the bitterness that's inside of herself. Because right now her infertility is subconsciously haunting her and is making her seeking consolation in areas that aren't even that important.

I just love this scene.... Kal agar aisa kuch hua na haveli me jaane ke baad I won't be surprised... 🤣

Regarding lovely I donno why but I feel. She reacts too much for every thing...and now also. She is doing that.... I accept she has pain of infertility but it doesn'tean ki she take everyone for granted even HS as well she needs to know the limit... I hope babita will show her the....

Quite some strong words for Mickey. Am not sure if you saw him from the beginning. He always had his value system in place. Mickey blackmailing Minnie? That guy has an unconditional love for Minnie and is okay being in her friend zone. There are people like that who care a lot about you and Mickey is that friend for Minnie.

What line of decency did they cross? It is your thought process and how you are conditioned to think. I see nothing wrong in their friendship and even if it develops into something deeper later, I trust the writer to bring it out well.

I love their friendship. I love their banter. I am not thinking about later. Just enjoy the show. Let's not become moral police.

Err wow I didn’t realize people had such views about Micky 😕😆

He’s just a kid, a teenager and he is being judged so very harshly? Despite having been there for Mini so nicely?

This show does such a good job of exploring relationships but we are expected to draw the line at teenagers? Why? Do teenagers not develop feelings at that age? This is how they talk....it’s normal to joke about these things

Hmm I guess my understanding of this show is different then 🤷‍♀️....I thought people understood what the writers are trying to develop here....it’s not about token romance for Mini....she’s gone through so much in terms of seeing terrible men in her life, but at this stage when she’s blossoming into a woman, she needs other perspectives...yes she has HS but he’s a father figure...Micky brings something different to her life right now....a peer who understands you is also important. Nobody can control what remains platonic for how long...but their equation is worth watching for the sweet treatment.