Originally posted by: .IamShonali.
LOVE LOVE LOVE TO YOUR POST!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING WHAT I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO SAY!!
See both Kunal and Kuhu are spoiled brats. And as a result they take no responsibility of their own actions or decisions. They are built in a way that they put the blame of their own actions on others. Their character is such that they let their ego come in between everything. They are not totally black. They are grey. They do feel guilt too but not for long because they are way too blinded right now with their own theories and their version of truth. Especially with Kunal, everyone has made a big deal of his first rejection by Shweta and hence Mishti's rejection added more misery to his male ego. Makers are just showing them the way they are. He and Kuhu aren't going to have an overnight change with their characters. Something big has to happen for both of them to realize how wrong they have been and how for the longest time they have been blaming the wrong person. And lets not forget whatever misunderstandings have started, has been started by Meenu. And Kunal unfortunately is her carbon copy whether he is her son or not.
And with Mishti!!! I am not able to understand why people are calling her weak. I mean no disrespect and its their assessment. But I would like to disagree respectfully there. If Mishti were that weak, she would have paid hid to Varsha's and Menu's warning and would have stayed away from Abir. The fact that she isn't letting them get to her and she is still prioritizing Abir over them says a lot. Just because she doesn't speak in front of them, doesn't make her weak. If you are strong, doesn't mean you are gonna scream, shout and fight every time. You are going to pick your battles wisely and speak up when you have to. Especially with Kuhu, she has been speaking up every chance she gets. But she makes sure that it is one on one. She is mature enough to not create a scene in front of everyone. Yah, whatever she does afterwards or behind the scenes for Kuhu is because she still cares for her. And whether it was her fault or not, she does feel guilty of revealing the truth of their relationship and Kuhu's truth of being illegitimate daughter. She might not show that guilt to Kuhu or might not try to prove it. But she is someone who doesn't want to be responsible for any type of issues in the family.
With Jasmeet, she has been this way since the start. And whatever happened during the haldi ceremony, she thinks she got the license to insult Mishti whenever she can. There is no change in her. But thats how she is. I dont like her too but does that mean I won't watch the show? No. Varsha? Again, I am not liking the way even she is treating Mishti. But for her, Kuhu is her daughter. And every mother will get more protective for her daughter than anything. No, it doesn't give her the right to do what she is doing. But she will be selfish for Kuhu and hence until and unless the entire truth doesn't come out, she is gonna be uncomfortable having Mishti around because she thinks that Mishti could be a threat to Kuhu and her happiness.
All I want to say is we need to remember that there are dramatic elements that runs a show. Not just romance. Dramatic elements does become essential to carry forward a story. And there always has to be a balance. Makers just can't show 24/7 romance or 24/7 drama.
Thank you so much! I thought I was alone :).
I totally agree, Kuhu and Kunal are brats but I feel like brats like this exist in real life. Maybe not as exaggerated but I can say that I have definitely seen people jealous like kuhu and male chauvinistic and egoistic like Kunal. But I would love to see them grow.
And once again, could not agree with you more on Mishti's case. I agree, she did not fight back to Meenu, but honestly for someone who has fought throughout and for someone that young, it is understandable to be vulnerable. I don't feel what she did was right, but she was under so much pressure and fear that it was hard for her to think clearly. One thing for sure is that she is not weak. The way say back answered kuhu and asked Kunal to go to school had my heart. Somewhere I feel the way she is reacting to Jasmeet and Varsha is acceptable because it gives the message that "ignorance is bliss" . Sometimes I wish she can ask them to shut up but however bold she is, she is kind and respectful to elders. What she does is in a way not bad, as actions speak more than words. She just doesn't listen to them. And yes, I love how she strongly gave it to Kuhu saying that Kuhu does not mean anything to her. But like you said, her making kuhu happy is out of guilt and maturity to satisfy that immature kid that causes a ruckus if she doesn't get what she wants.
What you said is true. Every character has somewhat of an reason for dislike. Yes, I don't like it or approve of it, but as you said, I can not always complain about the negatives and must also appreciate the positives. There are other reasons to watch the show.
It is so true that we can't have romance all the time and I feel we need to cherish the comedy and other good stuff too.
Glad to know someone agrees tho
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