Re: Mini different upbringing

Mini has changed and is becoming a beautiful young Lady now under her HS Uncle and Nayeem Be as the wise Grandmother who are both teaching her that Life is not a bed if golden roses but what you make of it with wisdom and understanding going ahead in life be it Marriage or Friends.

Before when she was shown as being a Angry young Lady, spoiled and indulged by her Mother and Grandparents and Aunty and Uncle. Who had no answers to her questions on the lack of her Father when she was growing up listening to taunts from School kids and neighbours etc. that they choose the easy way out to spoil her and not to understand or correct her. Really she has had no Father love at all and when he came it was the typical expected Indian mentality way of respect me because I am your Father etc. attitude that Ashok had, hence they never bonded and she till today is still hurting and I hope that there is a closure to this chapter with respect and dignity as well.

When she meet HS for the 1st time he had a instant bond with her and warned her about her Anger issues and was glad that She beat up Khatri for disrespecting her Mother and he was touched by her so much that he offered to Rent them his upper floor of his Hawali.

Its taken her time and under HS guidance and telling off when she has been rude to turn herself into a beautiful young Lady that she is now. She has got undivided Love and understanding from HS as in a way they are united in there grief of having no Father in there early life to guide them properly, Ashok being in London and HS Father being a drunk and abusive Father and early death of his Mother and what little Love he had was from his Grandfather till his death and Nayeem Be as his Mother who has guided him and Imarti who shaped him today. Its amazing how he is portraying a Father in the serial despite not having a child with Imarti.

Hs has understood and guided her with wisdom like a Father does, punished and told her Off when she was rude and loved her as a Daughter otherwise and she is his Queen Victoria and most Gorgeous Girl as well, which Babita takes credit for today but has not no hand in turning her in the fine Lady that she us today but instead tried to blame her for her failed Marriage which is a heavy burden to carry on such young shoulders but was put right bt Nayeem be that it is her fault and not Mini's for staying in a loveless Marriage.

She has taken to Nayeem Be as her Dadi and is learning about life and relationships and that life is what you make of it and have to make it lwork be it love or friends etc. That there is no such thing as a happily ever after which is a myth that many who fall in love take for granted and that when they don't get that they struggle but its how you understand one another and deal with the issues is the most important part of a relationship and told Mini that looking at the Picture and seeing them smiling is not the true picture as they two had problems but is how they solved it with understanding is the true test if a true happy Marriage, which sadly many do not get. Here I think that she understood her Dadi was trying to tell her that don't expect them to be happy all the time as they will fight and its how they will handle it is up to them as it is there Marriages and with HS guidance and Babita understanding they eill make it work. Now Mini understood that if they fight its not the end if there love or Marriage but how they solve it is up to them.

I now wish that Mini does finish her education and gets her dream Job and fly and like HS always said follow your dreams as it is something that he could not do himself due to financial problems etc referred to in the Collage Admissions track as he lost his chance but does not want his Veer Balika too also but instead fly to the sky and get her dream.

There is so much parallel with HS and Mini lives that its sad but one of the reasons for the bonding that they share.

Also for Mini its Imarti that she wants to be like when she grows up after listening about her from HS and Nayeem Be and how she says that's there 4 of us in the Hawali and her idol that she strives to be like.

There is so much contrast in the Khuranas and Babita's upbringing of Mini and the Guidance and love from HS and Nayeem Be is so refreshing to see that its true to say that you don't have to be a blood relationship to be a true Father or Grandmother.

Who ever she settles with when she grows up with will be a lucky as he will be getting a jewel to treasure.

Agreed 100%

Just yesterday too i mentioned how she beams like a freshly bloomed flower now-a-days under the care & nurture of her daadi amma & Hanumaan ucl.

Gone the hot tempered yet handling 100 responsibilities simultaneously girl.

No more the I'm strong & I know it all acting persona.

Now she is a kid, she goofs around, she dances, makes puppy faces and annoys the hell out of her family with all her nonsensical demands and tantrums.

NOW she knows her limits.Now she doesn’t barge in somehere & demand things her way.Rather she observes,take a pause & have the sense whether to take action or remain aloof.

She has truly become most gorgeous girl with her newly achieved grace & calmness finally with her family. Family that she chose.

Mini has always had my heart. ❤️

I know many people have blamed her for being bratty, rude & not respecting elders. BUT when a mother cant stand up for herself & the daughter has to stand up for her against elders she has to become like that. ive always been able to connect to her because i understand where she comes from & what it takes from you to stand up for your elders when they themselves are meek & weak to help themselves.

Shes faced so many issues with her dad abandoning her & her mother that even smallest of issues & provocation make her angry & irritated. But she is changing now. With hanuman accepting her as his daughter she is feeling secure and i am seeing less of the anger issues in her

You have said everything that I have felt about Minnie's development of late. Often we focus on Babita getting/deserving a second chance in life, but Minnie too deserves one, especially in these prime years of her life. I think HS, NB, and Lala are the perfect role models for her and it is no wonder that she is lapping up all the love and generosity they show, not to mention the guidance and selfless emotions she experiences in their company.

She used to hate the concept of love but they have shown her what love and respect means in various forms, sirf pyaar karna hi nahin, pyaar nibhana bhi. Learning about Imarti just cemented that. The security and peace that she feels to an extent is because she knows this new family of hers will be there for her no matter how good or bad things are, and that she can also count on them to be honest and sincere. She has learned that strength does not mean show of power or violence, but that understanding human emotions and taking the right decisions at the right time can often achieve far more than one can imagine.

It's not that they have had to sit her down and give her daily lessons on philosophies of life, but just the fact that these people have actually taken the time to think about her and to spend time with her has enabled Minnie to learn so much from observation. She has seen that HS and NB are not perfect, and they do not strive to be either. What is perfect, however, is their non-stop attempts to always try and face challenges with courage and open-mindedness and to remain true to who they are. Minnie was right when she said that she had never previously met someone like HS, and now NB too, who could have influenced her positively before.

Beautifully penned post on Mini by you, @TM! 👏

very lovely points penned by all.......👏

& in last episode such a useful knowledge is shared by naeem bi , perfect grandmom & granddaughter moment.......😃