Slowly and steady: ajao saray - Page 57

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh gosh, something like this would excruciating to watch.

As a viewer and even for the characters. I want Hanita's intimate moments to be filled with nothing but unfiltered and unconditional love for each other. I don't want either of them to hold back.

I cannot bear this at all.

And I honestly don't think it'll fall to the level of negativity. It took one episode to spoil it. It'll take just one another to sort it out :)

Originally posted by: inlieu

I hope so. I don't want her accusing him of anything, rather I want her to talk to Babita about considering her father's happiness.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I thought he didn't know the extent of her ego.

He knew it all along. He knows her inside out by now. He saw the signs when she refused to accept his reason for his harsh words or the fact that he had also overlooked hers in the past. That's why he went through with the second apology too because he understood her mindset and knew what he had to do and why she was demanding that and putting conditions.

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

I strongly feel that the makers failed to concey the original concept. Babita having ego is not that big deal but the way they brought it up has backfired. For me this situation is complete mess. As HS said " mere andar kuch mar gya" i also feel the same.

Yep they miscalculated it and it all fired off haphazardly. But I also know they can make up for it in ways known only to them. I'm sure they will do something about it now which might be visible later, after 2 weeks.

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

I strongly feel that the makers failed to concey the original concept. Babita having ego is not that big deal but the way they brought it up has backfired. For me this situation is complete mess. As HS said " mere andar kuch mar gya" i also feel the same.

I think we would have just gone away thinking HS was upset if it weren't for what he said to Lala at the police station and expressed such a huge degree of misery. His words and his assessment of the situation and the future of the marriage put us all in this gloomy mood. The point is not whether we think he is right or not to believe that, the point is that he is feeling this way at the moment, and his total lack of interest in going to see Babita as she picked her outfits did not help at all.

Originally posted by: inlieu

He knew it all along. He knows her inside out by now. He saw the signs when she refused to accept his reason for his harsh words or the fact that he had also overlooked hers in the past. That's why he went through with the second apology too because he understood her mindset and knew what he had to do and why she was demanding that and putting conditions.

If he understood her this well before the proposal itself, then why is he so shocked, startled and confused? Was his reaction itself a wrong move in the storyline?

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Because why shouldn't he. Yes, he loved Imarti a lot, but she is no more. He cannot forever go on like that. She isn't here but he is... living and breathing every day. Everyone in life needs a companion, so why shouldn't he get a second chance in life to love someone, to receive love and to be happy. Both Babita and HS deserve this.

I haven't commented on this a lot, but it has bothered me that people here think that Babita doesn't deserve HS. I think she absolutely does. She deserves to be loved by this great guy. I know we all are frustrated at Babita right now, but Babita does have a nurturing quality. I think she will come back to her old self..

Thank you! This is what I have been trying to say too... This negativity about Babita is understandable and yet depressing me... I don't think Hanuman will sulk over it for too long... I personally believe Babita will do one good/romantic act towards him and he'll get over it... Maybe if she stands up for their relationship in front of Khatri he might soften...

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

If he understood her this well before the proposal itself, then why is he so shocked, startled and confused? Was his reaction itself a wrong move in the storyline?

No, he's not shocked, startled or confused. Just terribly dejected because one of his deep-seated fears came true, something that he had chosen not to look in the face earlier. Don't you remember what he was telling NB about not making the first move and that this was not how a relationship between lovers should be? He knew exactly what space she was in.

Originally posted by: inlieu

No, he's not shocked, startled or confused. Just terribly dejected because one of his deep-seated fears came true, something that he had chosen not to look in the face earlier. Don't you remember what he was telling NB about not making the first move and that this was not how a relationship between lovers should be? He knew exactly what space she was in.

Oh. So the ignored overlooked thing comes back to bite him. Yikesss.

Thankyou Jean for answering all my questions so patiently. I think I understand it now. And it's a little better than what I'd thought. Means be had his reservations and hints about it - that is in his face now.

I am sorry to say this but I just can't find it in me to support Babita at this point. It started from her behavior the night she took on the challenge to stop him from drinking and for me it has gone downhill.

She doesn't take the time to introspect and continues to play the victim card. If she took even an hour to remember every single thing he has done for her since they met, she would never be this way.

Fine, she has insecurities and resentment from her past life, but she has always spoken about them to him in the past. It's not like he never listened or helped her. He always has. When she indirectly proposed to him, I thought she had genuinely meant all that about jagah. But now I understand that she is nowhere close to being there.

I am expecting her insane jealousy regarding Imarti to come to the fore, and I think part of that propelled her to put that condition in front of him. The whole court case and events around it were because of Imarti anyway, and she finally saw a glimpse of the depth of his emotion for his dead wife.