Slowly and steady: ajao saray - Page 56

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't know.... He's not much of a jo hoga dekha jaayega person when it comes to such serious things but I think he will voice his concerns to Minnie at some point, or she herself will realize that he is being wronged.

She realises that he's being wronged, yet dumps this thing on him. But I get Mini. This thing is beyond her scope. She doesn't know how to deal with it. She too is uncertain but then resigns to believing in HS that he will make everything all right for them. Again too much burden. I don't blame Mini though, she's only 17!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh gosh, something like this would excruciating to watch.

As a viewer and even for the characters. I want Hanita's intimate moments to be filled with nothing but unfiltered and unconditional love for each other. I don't want either of them to hold back.

Yes, but if they don't sort it out and HS still goes through with it I would consider it a point of no return for him. He can't do this to himself, please.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh gosh, something like this would excruciating to watch.

As a viewer and even for the characters. I want Hanita's intimate moments to be filled with nothing but unfiltered and unconditional love for each other. I don't want either of them to hold back.

I know same here. Hope they don't show anything like HS being forced to be intimate with Babita. Babita deserves these intimate moments in its pure form, not when HS is not happy... no I don't want them to ever have bad memories of their intimate moments.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

She realises that he's being wronged, yet dumps this thing on him. But I get Mini. This thing is beyond her scope. She doesn't know how to deal with it. She too is uncertain but then resigns to believing in HS that he will make everything all right for them. Again too much burden. I don't blame Mini though, she's only 17!

I don't blame her at all. She has an inkling but I don't think she realizes the extent. Also, if she finally gets it and releases him from the burden of fulfilling his promise to her, that would give him some respite from worrying sick about hurting her.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I know same here. Hope they don't show anything like HS being forced to be intimate with Babita. Babita deserves these intimate moments in its pure form, not when HS is not happy... no I don't want them to ever have bad memories of their intimate moments.

Completely agree. Her pride and self-esteem would take a huge blow if she ever felt that he was doing this out of a sense of obligation and not because he wanted her as a husband wants his wife.

Originally posted by: annx

Explain please!

Hindu mythology consists of The Trinity aka Brahma (God of Birth), Vishnu (God of Life) and Shiva (God of Death). Vishnu and Shiva take incarnations meaning - they are born on Earth as their avatars or forms have special purposes to achieve. So Hanuman, the monkey God was one such incarnation of Shiva on Earth, to assist Lord Ram, the avatar of Lord Vishnu.

I hope I'm clear 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Because she also feels entitled on behalf of her mother to demand happiness. I don't remember her thinking or talking about HS' happiness and what he wants out of this marriage.

I don't either. I don't really fault her there because as she told her grandparents, she has never seen Babes be that happy before. So she will undoubtedly want that happiness to stay with her. But I'm glad that she has bonded with HS to the extent that she has because she'll be considerate of HS' feelings now.

Originally posted by: inlieu

That's not how I read it at all. He had always known exactly what she was like but he was just trying to explain it to Lala. What he hadn't expected was that after being the one to make the first move, that she would be so oblivious to her surroundings and the effect of her words and actions.

When she told him you know exactly what I want, he knew and she knew that he knew what she was asking for. He knows her very well.

I thought he didn't know the extent of her ego.

I strongly feel that the makers failed to concey the original concept. Babita having ego is not that big deal but the way they brought it up has backfired. For me this situation is complete mess. As HS said " mere andar kuch mar gya" i also feel the same.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't either. I don't really fault her there because as she told her grandparents, she has never seen Babes be that happy before. So she will undoubtedly want that happiness to stay with her. But I'm glad that she has bonded with HS to the extent that she has because she'll be considerate of HS' feelings now.

I hope so. I don't want her accusing him of anything, rather I want her to talk to Babita about considering her father's happiness.