Slowly and steady: ajao saray - Page 53

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Makes me wonder will they ever have a baby? Or talk about having a baby? 😳

Abhi toh bohot time hai uss phase tak pohochne me

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Yep, Lord Shiva had swallowed poison in Amrit Manthan and here he is, being His form.

Hahaha no, Hanuman was a brahmachaari matlab he had no 'baliye'

But how could Lord Shiva incarnate on Earth without Mata Parvati? So Shiva's consort took the form of Hanuman's pooch and hence they weren't separated. And hence he had no love interest in that form.

Now this reminds me how I had refused to initially accept HS as Babita's love interest due to this very theory.🤣

Oh wow, I didn't know this!

Hanuman Ji's tail setting Lanka on fire has given me a whole new perspective now!

In terms of the show, I now wouldn't mind if HS had decided to never wed again. After all, Imarti had now become a part of him. With that kind of love by his side, why would he ever feel the need to fall in love again?

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

Like he's going forward with this just because he made a commitment and now it's his responsibility to drink that poison.

Maybe he's overly down in general so is feeling that that's the only way things would turn out, but it must be very gloomy in his headspace right now.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Makes me wonder will they ever have a baby? Or talk about having a baby? 😳

I've always wanted a baby track. It will add a whole lot of new dynamics and conflicts to the show. But given how things are right now, I want Hanita to be a single unit, who not only reciprocate each other's love but are on the same wavelength with one another. Otherwise, forget having a baby, I don't even want them to be near each other.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Usually we're able to pick up what they throw down, but I guess their approach failed this time. We all have our good and bad sides, but the way Babita reacted in that instant somehow clouded over all her positive qualities.

HS may have accepted her but it didn't feel right. Somehow, I didn't feel his love, it was more of a resignation to his fate.

Yep, resignation is the word. Aur ab to shaadi bhi nahi hui hai.

And for the person who has always talked about an individual's right to freedom, happiness and a second chance to feel that way is really horrible for me to watch.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

You said it. He like left it to destiny hopelessly. No HS you don't deserve this! And Mini's trust in him is all the more burdening him to make this work

AHHHHHH.

Minnie has the right to want a father who will keep Babes happy, but sometimes I feel like she puts all the burden on him. Why doesn't she make Babes keep similar promises? After all, it's also Babita's responsibility to keep her husband happy.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh wow, I didn't know this!

Hanuman Ji's tail setting Lanka on fire has given me a whole new perspective now!

In terms of the show, I now wouldn't mind if HS had decided to never wed again. After all, Imarti had now become a part of him. With that kind of love by his side, why would he ever feel the need to fall in love again?

He does. A different kind of love. A very long portion of life cannot pass through contentedly with the memories of past - that too a rather incomplete one. Imarti did shape him up as a person and resides in him. But he needs companionship waala love. Someone who can be his best friend, can share his dirty secrets and look after his vulnerable side. Hence, he was apprehensive if Babita had the capacity to manage his wild personality. But she did show her emotional capability by interpreting Imarti's letter. And that perhaps prompted him to take the action towards her.

But now it all seems so futile, ufff. Poor man's all stuck up in uncertainty.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh wow, I didn't know this!

Hanuman Ji's tail setting Lanka on fire has given me a whole new perspective now!

In terms of the show, I now wouldn't mind if HS had decided to never wed again. After all, Imarti had now become a part of him. With that kind of love by his side, why would he ever feel the need to fall in love again?

Because why shouldn't he. Yes, he loved Imarti a lot, but she is no more. He cannot forever go on like that. She isn't here but he is... living and breathing every day. Everyone in life needs a companion, so why shouldn't he get a second chance in life to love someone, to receive love and to be happy. Both Babita and HS deserve this.

I haven't commented on this a lot, but it has bothered me that people here think that Babita doesn't deserve HS. I think she absolutely does. She deserves to be loved by this great guy. I know we all are frustrated at Babita right now, but Babita does have a nurturing quality. I think she will come back to her old self..

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

That's so taxing to sound let alone live with that feeling. I could never have given myself a life long of compromise in the name of love and responsibility

I've been there, done that. Went into a marriage feeling uncomfortable the whole time but doing it for the happiness of my parents. I had that feeling of dread the entire time, ever since the date had been fixed.

Brides cry during the bidaai because they get emotional about leaving their parents, but I couldn't help shed tears because of the darkness I saw in front of me as if I was knowingly jumping into a bottomless pit. Seeing HS like this made me remember all those emotions, and I completely understand where he is at this moment.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

You said it. He like left it to destiny hopelessly. No HS you don't deserve this! And Mini's trust in him is all the more burdening him to make this work

AHHHHHH.

Yes, and the worst part is that he would never want Minnie to feel as if it were somehow her fault or that she was the reason for such a big compromise/sacrifice.