Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 33

Originally posted by: riti4u

I don't know I felt so bad for him today..feeling like where are his wings in all this...when we talk about giving wings to Babita ..her desires and needs..

I also agree with the fact that our society have conditioned men to be strong..to be responsible more that they will handle things but what if they need help too ..why do we regard crying for men to be their weakness. Babita needs to be his emotional support too ..for seven years he has piled up so much hurt .. yes he said few things but as all it happened .. babita's daughter could see his hurt while she couldn't..she indeed has long way in understanding him and for that to happen it's important for HS to let his guards down... To expose his insecurities.. his fear regarding their relationship and yes now I too believe his fear for Minnie also has a role in it ..

On one hand he is dreaming big for his daughter, talking about her having wings and soaring, while he himself is fluttering on the ground.

You already know how I feel about his insecurities regarding Minnie. His chat with her about her future confirmed this for me. Look out for my post on Wednesday's episode tonight or tomorrow. Will talk about this in detail.

Originally posted by: sanam912

I think we all felt bad because he has been transparent, sincere and all-giving in to this and when he was manipulated into bending down to her demand (ego) .. why because he loved her genuinely .. it truly made him realize the gravity of having to deal with a woman-child, total opposite of his imarti ..

he has always had his wings .. they are something that he has acquired at his own merit .. with his hard work .. unlike her who got her wings through her daughter .. I feel this should be a lesson for him to demand/verbalize his desires & needs .. not just fulfill others'

Its a sad truth .. but a truth that now parents/men are willing to address ..

True .. she has a long way to grow up to being his equal .. but I feel in all of this there will be some collateral damage .. Don't know what ..

If you remember what he had told Minnie about doing penance, well I think that feeling is holding him back to an extent.

He needs to stop punishing himself for what happened in his childhood with his mother. That part of him has yet to be addressed as it has left him immense trauma. His tendency to over-compensate because of that makes him give others too much leeway, which is then misunderstood or taken for granted.

Also, I don't think he got over Imarti, it was just silenced for a bit but at least he can handle it a little better because having mother-daughter in his life is like a balm. I don't think he has stopped grieving, just that he has started focusing elsewhere. Those things will come back again.

Originally posted by: inlieu

On one hand he is dreaming big for his daughter, talking about her having wings and soaring, while he himself is fluttering on the ground.

You already know how I feel about his insecurities regarding Minnie. His chat with her about her future confirmed this for me.

Yeah you were correct and I was hoping you were wrong😊 but now with last episode and yes his talks with Minnie on her future I feel too it's Minnie the reason may be he will try to hold on in a relationship which will clearly unhealthy for him in real sense. Good job in seeing that👍🏼

Not that I am having anything against Babita .I am just trying to say he deserves someone who can have his back too. Someone who can be his emotional support where he can fall upon..

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

No human being is perfect. Hanuman is not perfect. He too has flaws (which is yet to come out) like Babita does. Babita’s are more evident right now because writers are taking us to that direction, but Hanuman’s flaws will also come forward at the right time.

They aren’t perfect, but they are perfect for each other. They both need to realize and acknowledge each other’s flaws, and accept each other despite it. They also need to realize each other’s values and importance in their life. And most importantly to not let ego come in between their love.

Pyar toh dono ne karliya ab yeh pyar nibhana bhi in dono ko sikhna padega.

@bold I am not so sure about this anymore, to be honest.

After yesterdays episode i don't think they are perfect for each other. It looked like one sided relationship. She was not concerned about his feelings. Itna selfish pyar?? HS should not compromise only for sake of Minnie. Not fair.

Originally posted by: riti4u

Yeah you were correct and I was hoping you were wrong😊 but now with last episode and yes his talks with Minnie on her future I feel too it's Minnie the reason may be he will try to hold on in a relationship which will clearly unhealthy for him in real sense. Good job in seeing that👍🏼

Not that I am having anything against Babita .I am just trying to say he deserves someone who can have his back too. Someone who can be his emotional support where he can fall upon..

I myself was hoping I would be wrong, but alas!

I have nothing against Babita, I just think they are mismatched in terms of emotional maturity. As long as she shows us that she is willing to try that would be ok.

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

After yesterdays episode i don't think they are perfect for each other. It looked like one sided relationship. She was not concerned about his feelings. Itna selfish pyar?? HS should not compromise only for sake of Minnie. Not fair.

Sorry if I sound harsh but love and selfishness, of this kind at least, don't go together.

I was expecting that after seeing HS in tears she would hug him or atleast hold his hand and say its okay hath jodkar maafi mangane ki jarurat nhi hai. But yha to sab ulta pulta hi ho gya. Track hi change ho gya.

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

I was expecting that after seeing HS in tears she would hug him or atleast hold his hand and say its okay hath jodkar maafi mangane ki jarurat nhi hai. But yha to sab ulta pulta hi ho gya. Track hi change ho gya.

Yeh to kuch bhi nahin hai. She saw him go through hell in recent days. Did she even once approach him to ask about how he was doing?

Actually there were 2 apologies today. First when babita said she was hurt and remembered what he said. HS immediately said 'woh meri galti thi muhje maaf kar do" then babita was like i dont want sorry as an ehsaan choose between your love and your ego & then HS said sorry again with folded hands. For me Actually the 1st sorry was said from heart. the 2nd one was more of an ehsaan that Babita was talking about. I wonder how Babita fails to see this.

The important part in any relation more than a sorry is understanding that one is wrong, that one has hurt the other person. Extracting a sorry forcibly with folded hands without this realization is of no use. And once the mistake is understood there is a need not to repeat it again than extracting a sorry with folded hands.

I actually would have liked if babita had asked HS why he dint really trust her with his issues than telling her those hurtful words to send her away from him. I would be okay if she was hurt because HS dint think her to be capable enough to emotionally support him.

But here its all ulta. Im finding her so vile & immature without any depth of understanding situations.