Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 16

Originally posted by: asmitasb

What if she is asked to chose between love n ego??

Phir to uska project jal ke bhasm hone waala hai!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, I have been saying that a big part of this decision on both sides was because of Minnie, and not just for each other.

Yes. More than anything this decision, is like a compromise. It's like, all this is just being done for the sake of Mini. I feel,others have interfered a lot in their relationship. No one has ever given them a chance to take one on their own. And that would happen only if there is understanding....

Originally posted by: rr66

aur agar vo sach me mahaan hota toh he would have apologised khudse lonngg back... nope.. he is not mahaan... just a man with deep level of understanding nd experiences in life..

Exactly. To be honest, what makes someone mahaan is not that they don't make mistakes, but that they are conscious of them and strive to improve themselves.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Try as they may, HS can never be this stupid level flawed. The only flaw I see is his anger issues, if at all. He's matured and wise, unlike other people lol.

And no, he's not mahaan. Had he been mahaan, he would've not acknowledged his hurt. But he did, to Lala and there he is - the living human!

okay the word mahan was more of just for fun sake... but yeah I know... he's better than rest but still there have to be some shortcomings... Babita is the one who has ego issues, is selfish, is self-centred, is immature and a lot of other things... but why... she can't be that bad! she is not that bad...

Originally posted by: inlieu

Actually, we will see that he will neither become Devdas nor will he be so mahaan as to put up with these antics of hers every time. He will yell at her, fight with her, and make her see that she can't have her way every time. He will also end up making her confront her own ideas about her sense of entitlement, and that won't be pretty.

I look forward to that...

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

IMO, that expression was so point on, in the moment, that the introspection had begun. I could literally hear him saying ke mhaare se galti toh naa hogayi? Yeh ke hogaya? The way he's frustrated with it in Police Station, he does realise that there's a lot of unresolved things yet.

I think he's always known but when Babita gave him a sign he just couldn't remain patient any longer after hurting for so long. I also think he expected these issues to come up over time that they could resolve together, not on the very day he proposed to her!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, this is what Poonam was saying about compromises. Also, we should not punish our second partner for the mistakes of the first. It looks like HS will have to make a LOT of compromises.

Exactly Jean. I don't want him in any way to compromise more than her. No no way.

I don't want him adjusting to her whims for the rest of his life. Itll only increase the frustration and there's a limit after which he'll crack as you said. Bass inke gussa hone ki der hai phir khatam. Cause she'll be busy in her ego.

And he's understanding that only he will have to adjust forever. And is it worth? Like you said. EXACTLY. NOT WORTH AT ALL.

Originally posted by: annx

okay the word mahan was more of just for fun sake... but yeah I know... he's better than rest but still there have to be some shortcomings... Babita is the one who has ego issues, is selfish, is self-centred, is immature and a lot of other things... but why... she can't be that bad! she is not that bad...

Exactly. I hope they address his issues as well. But again, it's about Babita. The show's on her so we'll have to bear that.

Guys we all are saying that babes is still hanging to that harsh words of HS... Though her way was wrong but she opened up... But when HS was hurt then why don't he tell her... They are going to marry and if they won't say about their hurt to each other then what's there....

I am not supporting babes she is wrong in the way she got the topic and putting condition and all but she said it loud that she was hurt... But HS dint... He should. Also say that... HS never shows his hurt to babes his fears to her... He covers it with his anger or jokes or his love... And I am sorry u can be like this with any of ur relatives or fends but not with your wife or husband..

Every person has to accept their partners with their flaws... Neither babes is Devi nor HS is a god... They are humans...

I am sorry if I hurt anyone...

Originally posted by: annx

I look forward to that...

If that Imarti Imarti thi scene was anything to go by I am SURE he will sort her out. His self-respect is important to him, not ego, so he will always manage to maintain the delicate balance. What he saw today was one of the elements he was hinting to Minnie about when he said their relationship was complicated. He has observed her up close and knows exactly how he thinks. He has accepted her with all her flaws and chooses to let her good points outweigh the bad ones.