PreRish/KaRica AT #38|Woh...Bahut Acchi Hai Na?| - Page 73

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

nothing can beat -- Prerna means Inspiration... Interesting ☺️

Originally posted by: saps.156

Meaning? How come?

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

Not equals, are they? That’s why I like Rishabh and Prerna. They are equals as partners but emotionally they aren’t. Their emotions make them different people.

Anger, hurt and betrayal has taught Bajaj to gather himself and think reasonably. He channels his emotions from his heart to brain and we see a sharp man with crisp action. Alert and agile.

Prerna on the hand, leaves her emotions to pull her not only into a deep quagmire but also often leads her to the sacrificial lamb. After turmoil, she is most often completely lost.

What I loved about their interaction today is how she needs to prioritise tasks at hand. Like instead of worrying about what happens on a day to day basis at Basu Badi, probably she should be more focussed to help her mother.

He also did point out to her the root cause of her problems-money-making. She needs to focus on that.

I just loved how Rishabh did not jump to offer money like he is portrayed to be doing most of the time. He gave her perspective. He gave her a way. That’s Rishabh and not Bajaj for you. The word Bajaj has a baggage of ruthlessness but Rishabh is emotional yet curt.

Clarity, perspective and focus- currently he has those. He walks on thin ice which looks plane yet has a depth of water beneath it. I believe, of all things Rishabh will learn from Prerna- being his original self will be one of them. He will have to change, so will she.

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

There’s something called balance in life. There comes a point of time in life, you accept things, come to a neutral point and stop grieving and moping. Doesn’t mean the pain, hurt, hatred and anger isn’t there anymore. There’s a period to grief. And, situational grieving eventually paves way to passive acceptance and coexistence.

Her normal behaviour is simply a human existence. Prolonged grieving and aggravated anger either exists in TV shows or people with mental health issues that needs to be addressed with compassion and professional healthcare.

Even after grave tragedies like death, people gather themselves and carry on with the thing called life.

Does that mean they aren’t grieving- they do but have different forms.

Has Prerna moved on- No. Her emotions are still there like her love for Anurag and her hatred for Bajaj. But can she express both these emotions freely to both the men-No. Different reasons but both her extreme emotions for both the people start showing up every now and then. Her love for Anurag in the form of silent tears and her hatred for Bajaj in the form of rebuke and snubbing.

But, we often forget, extreme emotions burn you out. Prerna is burnt yet has a sense of acceptance and quiet. Just because she isn’t lamenting and slapping around Bajaj doesn’t mean she isn’t grieving or hating. She is simply existing. That’s what humans do. We somehow find a reason for existence despite being in tragic or suffocating situations.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

I will TRY to keep it short 😆

I shd stop posting reviews.. these are becoming too long blame the episode for this

#DilSeDilKaRishta : Prerna finds solace and sukoon with Kuki, #dilsedilkarishta ❤️ his heart warms each time he sees the unadulterated , unconditional love between the kid and the mom . Prerna so easily apologizes to Kuki and promises to take care of her,

#KashmakashMoment : he struggles with right words, stammers and avoids eye contact when it's remotely anything to do with emotions barring sharing his emotions with kuki ... we have seen it during Thanks You .. also he struggled.. she noticed the same stammering now ... while on the other side he slays in business meetings with oozing confidence and looking straight into eyes .. ...
he wanted to say sorry but says why he reacted that way ...as kuki's dard is will hurt him ...
main poori koshish karoongi ki aapka dil na dhuke ...kyunki Kuki ab mere bhi dil se jhud gayi hai ❤️ this was FEEELS kids always form the bond between parents , they are now connected ... with Kuki,
Dil se dil ka rishta... when she says GN .. he stammers again.. he wanted to apologize but ends up with a Good night, anyways she got what he was trying to say ... the unspoken words, the unworded apology


#HisSasuralKiBaateinBiwiKiZubaan : she talks to her sister and her mother, the concern and worry in her tone is not missed by him, like in every instance he notices her slightest reaction, now he was listening to each word carefully with concentration, he can see her helplessness ... the moment she said she would give her money .. his reaction was worth... he was like .. khuladi pe pair rakhi biwi ne... no parent would accept money from married daughters and that too when Pre is married in such an unconventional way .. where her mom is not even talking to her, here she wants to give her money ... Bajaj might have thought that she needs lot of life lessons .. one being that you don't offer money directly to anyone ... as it hurts their self respect ... but Pre was pre... she notices him listening to all that convo .. he points out to the jacket on which madam was sitting 🤣

#MaaKiPareshaani : Bajaj expresses how people change with Maa ki pareshani uska dard aur akrosh changed him .. it made him a successful businessman but at the same time changed him as a person that he cannot go back to his previous self .. this man is absolutely broken and desolate .. his voice, tone and eyes tugs you .. he tells her to solve that financial problem .. before it affects her and she changes as a person .. his words are profound , deep and poignant .. yesterday he said about the bhook ... insaan ki andhar ki bhook usse kaisi badalti hai .. that too at the age of 12, his past seems traumatic .. he vengeance on Basus for whatever reason seems right .. it might look like he took over Basu business but then he said all his business deals are personal .. it was personal to take over Basus . he requests or asks her to focus on solving her mom's problems .. he doesn't want Prerna to be another Bajaj ,. he tells her to help her mom "directly/indirectly" I doubt if she got the hint here.. woh toh seedha maa ko paise dene wali

#Prerna'sMonologue : she for the first time saw gehrai in him , the depth which he hid from everyone, but showing her .. he is sharing with her, I doubt if he shared these deep rooted feelings with anyone till date, two people who are connected by pain/dard grow stronger and the relation will be profound and deep on many levels as they both know what the other feels and connect to it .. broken but beautiful ... this monologue was much needed .. Prerna never tried to understand or bothered to know but now she is introspecting and is thoughtful .. may be she can unearth little by little ..

#SettingPriotiesForHer : when he walked into the room , his exasperation because of her was shown so well .. he is like .. this girl needs to sort her priorities ... she goes on with her you are wrong .. Basu family is like my family kaka babu is like father ...

given her age and inexperience she is losing the priorities in life ..she judges him .. the moment she get's a chance.. she is impulsive that way .. she doesn't take a moment to judge him, like he said ..she always finds fault in whatever he does .. and when she says she doesn't expect anything from him.. he didn't like it.. he doesn't like when she thinks wrong about him .. it affects him ,.. her allegations, accusations and his explanations with a softened tone and back to Mrs.Bajaj .. from Prerna.. the soft underlying feels he has when she finds him wrong are so subtly portrayed ..

She goes on with Basu family is like my family and he has to give it back the Bajaj style .. that she needs to prioritize her mom who needs her over Basus .. she becomes defensive .. not to get her mom in this .. his stance softens but tells her about how painful it will be to work for someone at this age and stage in life .. and he believes if there is god on Earth it's a mother... mann whatever happened it looks painful and traumatic ... his connection with maa ka dard is soo heart tugging and painful , she says she gives up as her mom is stubborn and won't listen to her ..he, once again in a very gentle tone explains to her .. to make relations , she shd listen , talk, understand, take care of her mother .. only then she will stand by her, accept their marriage, forgive them and she might get back her mother's love which she has been missing ...

he is aware of her missing her mom's love, he is asking her to work on her strained relation with her mom, on one hand she is giving mother's love with all her heart to kuki and on the other hand she herself is deprived of mother's love , he holds himself for it .. he wants her to work .. while he will be her guiding light, he makes her hopeful, he gives her the much needed push she needs to mend her relation with her mom he is advising her out of his experiences .


Kuki running towards Prerna was .. without sparing a glance to maasi tanvi was 🤣

overall the episode was beautiful on many levels .. there was an endearing convo for the unsaid apology, then there is a deep, profound conversation with poignancy about maa ka dard ,. then the last their usual fight.. her accusitions, allegations, judging him .. him listening listening and then giving it back..and the last part where he is being her guiding light .

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Ammu I am giving her the benefit of doubt.

In this conversation they were both wrong is what I am trying to say. They are telling each other stuff but not listening to each other. He snapped at her,”He is not your father,” irked me a lot.

Both were right from their / individual pov.

Originally posted by: Wistfulness

Independence Day ke din cringefest se mukti.

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

coffee bana rahi thi garam boiling pani gir gaya as i was pouring. 😭 Abhi tak jal raha hai

Ayyo.. Take care..🤗

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

#KHOONSELATPATBAJAJ OS CHAHIYE