Can't describe it... Ajao saray! - Page 5

Hanita's current situation reminds me of a song I was listening to, especially these lines:

Teri shikayat bhi sahi
Par ghalat hum bhi nahi.
Jayaz hai tera roothna.
Manaoon kaise ke maan ja
Nahi bure bhi ke chod ja.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I hate this. I can’t understand where the makers are trying to take the story? Just like that Imarti’s death track is over... now what? Where are HS and Babita headed after this?

From the sbs segment, it seems babita is already back to HS’s Haveli.

Uggggh I am really annoyed with how the story is going. I am annoyed that Babita is not taking a stand. I am annoyed that HS says to Lala Babita has to accept him with Imarti’s memories... fine but why the hell did Babita needed to free herself of Ashok’s memories before she could let HS in to her heart, but now HS expects Babita to accept him when he’s so insanely in love with his ex wife 🙄.

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Because of the type of memories. I don't have the heart to go into details but what he is saying makes sense.

I frankly don't want confession for another few months, not until this mess in their heads and hearts is sorted out. These two need a reset, go back to the basics and build their relationship up one by one. Then decide if they really want to be life partners. Not do things on a whim.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The only justification I can give is that there was nothing good about Ashok. His actions would have left a lot of insecurities and paranoia in Babes, and to bring that kind of baggage into a relationship wouldn't be good. She had to release herself of that vicious hold he had on her.

With HS, he needs to do the same. Even though he has nothing but good memories and immense love for Imarti, he needs to release himself from her.

They both need to accept each other's past, good and bad, and move on. If they can't, then they'll just make each other suffer.

Totally agree with you. That’s what I am trying to say. HS says he wants Babita puri ki puri, not adhi adhuri. Doesn’t that mean that Babita needed to free herself from Ashok completely before she could let HS in to her heart.

Shouldn’t Babita expect the same from HS? Of course, he will never be able to forget Imarti, but he needs to move past her memories in order to fully move on with Babita. So why would he say that Babita needs to accept him with Imarti?

The main thing is that they both are afraid of relationship... As one had loveless relationship and one lost the love... As they said on earlier episode to jaise chal raha hai waise chalne do... This means they are afraid to go further.... It's quite visible...

So this track is mainly to get that fear out of them if loosing the relationship...

i will say hanuman is misundestanding babita.babita never told him that he should forget imarti.babita respects hanuman's love towards imarti.she still uses imarti things.whenever he tell about imarti she always listens silently witjout asking any question.

she just affected from hanuman.idk why he don't want to share his pain with babita.

i love hanuman character.but this time i will say hanuman fault at too.why he can't give equal importance to babita whuch he gave to imarti like sharab na peene vali baat pe.

both need to talk to each other about their relations & what they actually want from other.both have complaint but both never trying to find the solution.

dono khud mein hi uljhe hain.

both are not trying to understand each other.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

The main thing is that they both are afraid of relationship... As one had loveless relationship and one lost the love... As they said on earlier episode to jaise chal raha hai waise chalne do... This means they are afraid to go further.... It's quite visible...

So this track is mainly to get that fear out of them if loosing the relationship...

pehle babita free hui now its time to hanuman

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Totally agree with you. That’s what I am trying to say. HS says he wants Babita puri ki puri, not adhi adhuri. Doesn’t that mean that Babita needed to free herself from Ashok completely before she could let HS in to her heart.

Shouldn’t Babita expect the same from HS? Of course, he will never be able to forget Imarti, but he needs to move past her memories in order to fully move on with Babita. So why would he say that Babita needs to accept him with Imarti?

HS didn't ask Babita for anything. He accepted Babita as she was, and even dealt with Ashok.

From where HS is standing, by leaving the house at such a time, Babita in a way rejected Imarti and HS' love for her. It's part of his soul, so not accepting his love for Imarti will mean she can't accept him whole.

From today's episode, my suspicions were confirmed that Babita is not just doing this because she was hurt by HS' words. She is insanely jealous of Imarti and can't reconcile this feeling, even though she knows Imarti won't ever be back in their lives.

She wants HS to be hers only, but is not willing to demand his undivided attention and love, again because of her ego. Round and round it goes.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Totally agree with you. That’s what I am trying to say. HS says he wants Babita puri ki puri, not adhi adhuri. Doesn’t that mean that Babita needed to free herself from Ashok completely before she could let HS in to her heart.

Shouldn’t Babita expect the same from HS? Of course, he will never be able to forget Imarti, but he needs to move past her memories in order to fully move on with Babita. So why would he say that Babita needs to accept him with Imarti?

Maybe he feels that Babes want him to forget Imarti completely?? Am not really sure.

While Babes has put Ashok behind her, the fact that he was a major part of her life will always be on the forefront because of Minnie. But HS doesn't even have any tangible memories of Imarti like that. Yeah, there's the diya, kharchi, jewelry etc. but they're not on the same level as flesh and blood.

I don't get one thing... How we can expect HS to forget or move out of imarti's memories?

What I have observed in life is agar koi couple 1 dosre ko bauhaut chahtay Hoon and 1 ki death hojayay... The other person can never forget his/her first partner... Likh Kar lelo.. we think it's only for reel and HS should give another place to babes as babes forgot Ashok..both are different situation.. as minni said... Maray huay insaan s muqabla ho nahi Sakta... Imarti is and will be his first love and he is 100% justified in saying k babita has to accept him with imarti....

For babes and Ashok , again HS was for me atleast justified saying k usay babita Puri chahay because woh negative ya painful aspects the shadi k lye Jo agay ja Kar unke relation par effect hi kartay.. yes imarti will effect there relationship but, she is a beautiful aspect and that's what babita has to accept.

P.s sorry for putting that in mixed language

Hum saare yha guess krte rhte hn ki aisa hua hoga waisa hua hoga ya aisa hona chahiye waisa hona chahiye. But hota kuchh aur hai. Do you all remember the precap when Babita says to Naaem Bi that mujhe lgta hai main unke layak hi nhi hoon. But it was actually about confession of Babita. And i really liked that episode. So just hope for the best and wait for tomorrow's episode. Ab sach achcha hi hoga.