Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi
Sumbul was actually not ready for marriage. Ladki ko ladka pasand hai ladka accha hai Aliya marne wali hai so Sumbul ki shadi ho gayi. Their BGs are so different, everything must have seemed lovely when she was in love but shadi ki responsibility she was not ready for it. She is still not mature enough to be married and become a bahu bhabhi biwi.
Umair bhi na he does not understand women and kitchen politics. He knows Sumbul kitni chidti hai Sadia se but he thought Sadia mere beech sab theek hai sab theek ho gaya so Sadia please talk to her and put some sense into her. Aliya ne sambhal liya nahi toh I thought jaise clueless hubby bola bholi bhabhi chal degi nand ko samjhane. Aliya knows that if Sadia talks to Sumbul the latter will take it in the wrong sense and just to go against Sadia she would end up ruining her life.
You're absolutely right that she wasn't ready for marriage. I think she went along with the wedding because she didn't really have a reason to not get married but I suspected the guy liked her more than she liked him too.
And they absolutely didn't look at the practicalities of marriage. Both families are nice but there's a lot of difference between the lifestyles that Sumbul is too immature to understand. She's not very nice but I can see Sumbul's SIL's point of view sometimes. She works and now she has another person to take care. It's the little things like people leaving their used cups that are very annoying lol.
Aliyas attitude towards her illness drives me mad. She doesn't want to get treatment because she doesn't want to put her kids through that trauma. But from what the doctor said, she could have gotten better if she was serious about her treatment. She didn't think her kids could cope with her being ill but they'll manage when she dies? Sumbul calls her over every choti choti thing still and Umair and Saadia need her too lol.