Originally posted by: shin-chan
Also it takes time longer than required for them to fall in love officially which is very natural. In the process they learn about each other so well that there will be no place for any misunderstanding.
yess that's the beauty of arranged marriages or these unconventional / deal/ contract marriage .. it goes back to the pyramid theory I have
Understanding and respect at the bottom, trust above it, friendship and admiration next, on top of it love, the foundation will be strong as they take time to build their relation and alongside those fleeting moments of inhibitions , awkwardness and kashmakash ...
and then there is another pyramid where love is at the base ... they try to top it with trust understanding but the base is shaky without these as foundation ..
the dynamics which a relation goes through these unconventional age difference marriages is something else