Explaination Please.. - Page 4

Point to be noted -

In the entire duration of this show Abhi has at some pointed regretted not being a better brother, better friend, better grandson and a a good father but has he ever regretted or even acknowledged not being a good husband to a Pragaya? Never

Originally posted by: misfit007

Point to be noted -

In the entire duration of this show Abhi has at some pointed regretted not being a better brother, better friend, better grandson and a a good father but has he ever regretted or even acknowledged not being a good husband to a Pragaya? Never

Never crossed his mind did it. 😆 Now we know who doesn't get best pati award.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Never crossed his mind did it. 😆 Now we know who doesn't get best pati award.

LOL 🤣

And best son award

And a best friend award

And a best father award

The only award he can get is being the best brother award ( if we see from the sister's aliya's, prespective ) I mean, if my parents had 1% of abhi's ignorance, I would just🥳

Originally posted by: Chashmish786

LOL 🤣

And best son award

And a best friend award

And a best father award

The only award he can get is being the best brother award ( if we see from the sister's aliya's, prespective ) I mean, if my parents had 1% of abhi's ignorance, I would just🥳

Yep! He's a good brother, friend and also to a great extent father too, but husband? Nah!

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yep! He's a good brother, friend and also to a great extent father too, but husband? Nah!

I think before trying to redeem his relationship he should try and seek help from a specialist. Find himself, accept his flaws and wrong doings, insecurties and everything else that could have a hand in shaping him as the person he is. If Abhi was someone I knew in real life, I would try my best to get them some help even if they're 50+

But this is expecting waaýyyy tooo much from an ITV show. Mental health issues are still a taboo in many asian societies. It's 3:30am here and I've started to become way too realistic for a fictional show. 😆

Originally posted by: Chashmish786

I think before trying to redeem his relationship he should try and seek help from a specialist. Find himself, accept his flaws and wrong doings, insecurties and everything else that could have a hand in shaping him as the person he is. If Abhi was someone I knew in real life, I would try my best to get them some help even if they're 50+

But this is expecting waaýyyy tooo much from an ITV show. Mental health issues are still a taboo in many asian societies. It's 3:30am here and I've started to become way too realistic for a fictional show. 😆

Yes! Unfortunately age doesn't make men mature always. Women tend to be even more mentally mature than men older than them and this is a strong quality in women that they tend to be more responsible and mature than men.

Originally posted by: Chashmish786

I think before trying to redeem his relationship he should try and seek help from a specialist. Find himself, accept his flaws and wrong doings, insecurties and everything else that could have a hand in shaping him as the person he is. If Abhi was someone I knew in real life, I would try my best to get them some help even if they're 50+

But this is expecting waaýyyy tooo much from an ITV show. Mental health issues are still a taboo in many asian societies. It's 3:30am here and I've started to become way too realistic for a fictional show. 😆

My old man is nearly 60 and i’m trying to drag him to a therapist (it’s a battle but i will win it) so yeah i get it. The number of friends i’ve pushed towards therapy is unreal too. It’s astonishing how many people need it and they don’t even need to be mentally ill to benefit from a therapist. Sometime we just need someone to help see things more clearly, someone who isn’t related to us and therapists know how yo do it in a sustainable and healthy way.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yes! Unfortunately age doesn't make men mature always. Women tend to be even more mentally mature than men older than them and this is a strong quality in women that they tend to be more responsible and mature than men.

Thanks to the way our society treats woman. Women are by default forced to grow up faster and mature mentally beyond their age because of social constructs and how they are treated at home and society at large.

Originally posted by: Chashmish786

I think before trying to redeem his relationship he should try and seek help from a specialist. Find himself, accept his flaws and wrong doings, insecurties and everything else that could have a hand in shaping him as the person he is. If Abhi was someone I knew in real life, I would try my best to get them some help even if they're 50+

But this is expecting waaýyyy tooo much from an ITV show. Mental health issues are still a taboo in many asian societies. It's 3:30am here and I've started to become way too realistic for a fictional show. 😆

😆I don't think the writers are even in that zone. even if they are personally, this is all too realistic and real world for the show.

Originally posted by: misfit007

My old man is nearly 60 and i’m trying to drag him to a therapist (it’s a battle but i will win it) so yeah i get it. The number of friends i’ve pushed towards therapy is unreal too. It’s astonishing how many people need it and they don’t even need to be mentally ill to benefit from a therapist. Sometime we just need someone to help see things more clearly, someone who isn’t related to us and therapists know how yo do it in a sustainable and healthy way.

I’m experiencing a similar problem. After me and my mother and other siblings feeling for years that our dad is different from other dads and people in general i realised three years back that my father is most likely on the autistic spectrum. All the symptoms matched up. I tried convincing him since then numerous times to go to doctors so we can get an appropriate referral for him, he went only last year after putting up quite a fight with us only for our GP and mental health doctor to not take it seriously because my father sat at the appointments the whole time quietly looking like he doesn’t understand why he’s there and I had to do all the talking which the doctors want the actual patient to talk. If the actual patient is in denial and not taking things seriously then these lazy mental health doctors themselves won’t take the case seriously. In the end the doctor brushed it off as mere depression and said to me that the symptoms I see in my dad are all of depression. I was annoyed because I was like, how on earth can someone be non-stop depressed since they were an infant? I was so infuriated by their attitude, the doctor’s and my dad’s.