Hanita - engagement pics? - Page 4

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

YASS YASS I would love this type of public confession after they have confessed to each other privately 🥰. Awww Babita running to hug HS in front of everyone hayeee 😆

Erm.. No I would want the hug to be in private, her way of expressing her love to him for the first time. Publicly doing it DDLJ style would be too filmy.

Unpopular opinion here: I loved the pottery episode but I don’t think that Hs should have apologised to her the next morning. I think in apologising he made his actions seem wrong however it was not and I DONT think he misbehaved with her. It was very much mutual. I think it should of stayed as is with the both of them remembering the incident and feeling awkward (in a good way) but with Hs apologising, babita next acted like she was violated by him or something with the way she behaved.... and this couldn’t be further from the truth because whatever happened was done so by mutual consent and no protest from babita. I understand from Hs part they’re trying to show him to be a gentleman but I think I’m him apologising it’s actually shown the opposite- as tho he did something wrong, that he needs to say sorry

Originally posted by: deefy89

Unpopular opinion here: I loved the pottery episode but I don’t think that Hs should have apologised to her the next morning. I think in apologising he made his actions seem wrong however it was not and I DONT think he misbehaved with her. It was very much mutual. I think it should of stayed as is with the both of them remembering the incident and feeling awkward (in a good way) but with Hs apologising, babita next acted like she was violated by him or something with the way she behaved.... and this couldn’t be further from the truth because whatever happened was done so by mutual consent and no protest from babita. I understand from Hs part they’re trying to show him to be a gentleman but I think I’m him apologising it’s actually shown the opposite- as tho he did something wrong, that he needs to say sorry

I have been on the fence here, not so much about the apology but about his reasons for pulling her by the hand. It was only when the bangle broke that he realized what he had been doing.

He did cross a line but not in an indecent way. I think so too that they were trying to show him being respectful to ladies and his guilt at perhaps overstepping boundaries and offending a lady, that he wasn't the type to take advantage of the situation.

I think he was saying sorry because he had lost control of himself, where had been able to handle his emotions well enough all this time. Also, because he was leaving for a couple of days and did not want to have this anger simmering between them across the miles. Sometimes saying sorry is a simple way to dissolve anger, and I do think it worked on her.

The fact is, I don't think she expected or wanted an apology. She did not stop him, and her discomfort was upon realizing that she had "lost control" alongside him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have been on the fence here, not so much about the apology but about his reasons for pulling her by the hand. It was only when the bangle broke that he realized what he had been doing.

He did cross a line but not in an indecent way. I think so too that they were trying to show him being respectful to ladies and his guilt at perhaps overstepping boundaries and offending a lady, that he wasn't the type to take advantage of the situation.

I think he was saying sorry because he had lost control of himself, where had been able to handle his emotions well enough all this time. Also, because he was leaving for a couple of days and did not want to have this anger simmering between them across the miles. Sometimes saying sorry is a simple way to dissolve anger, and I do think it worked on her.

The fact is, I don't think she expected or wanted an apology. She did not stop him, and her discomfort was upon realizing that she had "lost control" alongside him.

I guess I don’t see anything wrong here. He pulled her hand so she could do the pottery thing, and she offered some resistance. If she had indeed felt violated in that pull of the hand she would have got back up which she didn’t. I get what you said about them showing him being decent but I just think the apology created and anger that weren’t there. You’re right that I also don’t think she wanted an apology. Babita didn’t wake angry that morning till he apologised, she was more fantasising about the previous night. I think the apology made it into something bigger than it was. I would have loved to have him stay, not apologise and have the memory simmer between the two of them.

The broken bangle bit does kinda imply force used so would have preferred that not to happen