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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_

Why would bajaj slap prerna? He has got everything and he is the coolest head around . Everything going as per his plan. Haan prerna cud have chepo ek do on him but she is too loyal. I dont mind that..anurag ko koi chutti do 🤢

Pre ka haq banta hain. Plz prerna do it.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: luvmayurarti

Pre ka haq banta hain. Plz prerna do it.

Then Bajaj shld also do it. Prerna hits anu. Anu hits prerna . Prerna hits bajaj. Bajaj hits prerna .

Hisaab barabar

And dont worry , jaise anurag defend ho gaya hai thappad ke liye, Bajaj bhi ho jaayega. 🤪

Why shld Bajaj miss on this Kasauti thappad ki🤣

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Then Bajaj shld also do it. Prerna hits anu. Anu hits prerna . Prerna hits bajaj. Bajaj hits prerna .

Hisaab barabar

And dont worry , jaise anurag defend ho gaya hai thappad ke liye, Bajaj bhi ho jaayega. 🤪

Why shld Bajaj miss on this Kasauti thappad ki🤣

btw who is defending Anu? I m not. I never support hurting or slapping women. But pre must slap bajju for destroying her life.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: luvmayurarti

btw who is defending Anu? I m not. I never support hurting or slapping women. But pre must slap bajju for destroying her life.

Did I say ur name. There have been many who have supported him . This was a deal and pre entered it knowing the full repurcussions.

U cannot have it both ways. Chit bhi meri pat bhi meri.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Do writers not feel anything? What are you guys showing?

Upar jakar kya bologe? Niche ye sab dikhake aaye hai? 😆🤣

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Posted: 6 years ago

I can see from where Anu is coming here. Sheer anger & extreme emotional vulnerability.

Prerna was terribly betrayed when it all came out in a slap. I saw a grieving woman in her back then who wanted to express how hurt & disgusted she was to the man who claimed to have loved her. No one saw misandry there. We have grown up believing that a man shouldn't hit a woman under any circumstance, even if woman pushes him to that extreme where next instinctive reaction is a slap. Of course there is a power dynamic at play since even in worst of situation, we slap only those who we believe won't attack us back. If a hurt woman's physically violent reaction is acceptable, then we should reconsider our instance on men as well. Anu doesn't have a record of being a physically abusive man from the past.

As for Anu not trying to understand the pattern on this event, I think right now he is too clouded with the heartbreak to think anything else at all. Just like how Prerna was too clouded by thought of saving Anu to not even try & escape Bajaj.

Question is- Did he really want to slap her or it came as an instinctive reaction to something Prerna said to hurt him more?

Should he have slapped her? No.

Was it justified? No. But moreover, it depends on an individual perception with everything in context. A huge grey area here.

As per the clip, did Prerna smile after getting slapped as if she was expecting this to happen? If that is so then this particular scene can be interpreted in two ways-

1. Prerna said things to push Anu off the edge & he reacted with a slap. She wanted Anu to do this because at deep level she thought it would make him feel better & she subconsciously thought that she deserved it. That is kind of masochistic trait which Prerna is doing right now since she is listening to all abuses without attempting reveal anything at all.

2. Prerna pushed Anu off the edge with her words because she knew Anu would react like that & she could use his reaction to keep him away from her further & prove her point on how he isn't good for her.

Since after this incident, Anu would try really really hard to make amends with her, stalk her to confirm if she was lying, saving her from goons, ensuring her safety & then watch her go away with Bajaj with no ability to do anything, while Prerna is still in guilt of betraying him in all this & not to forget the suicide attempt.

I know the peculiar similarity with Kabir Singh's premise & director's statement. But physical reaction in emotional situations comes when a relationship has turned very toxic, when there is total failure of communication, something AnuPre relationship is right now.

I reserve my final opinion until the episode is aired.

P.S- it's my opinion for this case. Not justifying physical violence but trying to understand human reaction & psyche behind them with context in mind. So, don't bash on me for this controversial opinion. A healthy debate is welcome.

Edited by arshi_asya - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago

Lmaaaooo at the title🤣..Thappad discussion pe 21 pages🤣

I m not justifying Physical violence here but I never found Prerna's slap to Anurag unjustified because Pre was badly hurt and Anu publicaly humiliated her..He deserved it that time..In this case i dont belive he should have done that but Anu is badly hurt and heart broken at the moment..He is shattered..The way he was talking and begging to Prerna clearly showed he is out of senses..That slap may have come from heat of the moment because he immediately regretted this the next moment..that's how human nature is,..We do things we are not supposed to do when we are angry..

On the other note I want to ask what that even a thappar?🤔..aisa laga k makhi maar raha hai😆

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Posted: 6 years ago

By seeing the segment it was visible it was in heat of moment and then soon he regreats may be hittinh his hand also. Its quite natural and happens.

i am not saying i am with hitting to women or physical violence but this is different thw way anurag charector very impulsive.

But sorry i am not able to relate with anurag begging for love this is not the anurag which i know in this season 😆 correct me if i am wrong.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I can see from where Anu is coming here. Sheer anger & extreme emotional vulnerability.

Prerna was terribly betrayed when it all came out in a slap. I saw a grieving woman in her back then who wanted to express how hurt & disgusted she was to the man who claimed to have loved her. No one saw misandry there. We have grown up believing that a man shouldn't hit a woman under any circumstance, even if woman pushes him to that extreme where next instinctive reaction is a slap. Of course there is a power dynamic at play since even in worst of situation, we slap only those who we believe won't attack us back. If a hurt woman's physically violent reaction is acceptable, then we should reconsider our instance on men as well. Anu doesn't have a record of being a physically abusive man from the past.

As for Anu not trying to understand the pattern on this event, I think right now he is too clouded with the heartbreak to think anything else at all. Just like how Prerna was too clouded by thought of saving Anu to not even try & escape Bajaj.

Question is- Did he really want to slap her or it came as an instinctive reaction to something Prerna said to hurt him more?

Should he have slapped her? No.

Was it justified? No. But moreover, it depends on an individual perception with everything in context. A huge grey area here.

As per the clip, did Prerna smile after getting slapped as if she was expecting this to happen? If that is so then this particular scene can be interpreted in two ways-

1. Prerna said things to push Anu off the edge & he reacted with a slap. She wanted Anu to do this because at deep level she thought it would make him feel better & she subconsciously thought that she deserved it. That is kind of masochistic trait which Prerna is doing right now since she is listening to all abuses without attempting reveal anything at all.

2. Prerna pushed Anu off the edge with her words because she knew Anu would react like that & she could use his reaction to keep him away from her further & prove her point on how he isn't good for her.

Since after this incident, Anu would try really really hard to make amends with her, stalk her to confirm if she was lying, saving her from goons, ensuring her safety & then watch her go away with Bajaj with no ability to do anything, while Prerna is still in guilt of betraying him in all this & not to forget the suicide attempt.

I know the peculiar similarity with Kabir Singh's premise & director's statement. But physical reaction in emotional situations comes when a relationship has turned very toxic, when there is total failure of communication, something AnuPre relationship is right now.

I reserve my final opinion until the episode is aired.

P.S- it's my opinion for this case. Not justifying physical violence but trying to understand human reaction & psyche behind them with context in mind. So, don't bash on me for this controversial opinion. A healthy debate is welcome.

Thank you so much 🤗


Its not a controversial but a rational and a balanced opinion . He wss not hitting her just for the heck of it..we still dont know what all pre said to him...still he shouldnt have lost control ,and stoop so low. But i just hated that part of falling on her feet..damn you cvs ..sick !

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

By seeing the segment it was visible it was in heat of moment and then soon he regreats may be hittinh his hand also. Its quite natural and happens.

i am not saying i am with hitting to women or physical violence but this is different thw way anurag charector very impulsive.

But sorry i am not able to relate with anurag begging for love this is not the anurag which i know in this season 😆 correct me if i am wrong.

I think Anu slaps her first in heat of the moment and immediately realizes what he has done. He immediately falls in her feet to ask for forgiveness & makes a desperate attempt to beg of her & it is then Prerna says she loves Mr. Bajaj to push him more farther.

I kind of understand Anu here because I have seen guys literally beg to their girlfriends who have betrayed them. They have tried hard keeping their ego aside, gone into severe depression & then heal from it but with a scar that remains at some corner of their heart.

Anu right now wants answers just like how Prerna wanted it when she was betrayed. This track is all about Anurag's 5 stages of grief. Once he acknowledges this in Swiss, he will plan his next move. And only then can Prerna move on to the next phase in discovering what fuelled Bajaj to do all this. Even Anu would do the same after this track.

It's time to show a flawed Anu & how he is a human who can't be upheld to the sainthood all the time. It's time to highlight Anu's grey, we know his white side & it's time to explore a darker Anu.

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