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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: .amigos.

Can we stop mocking the word rape? It is a word that carries a lot of gravity and tossing it around for brownie points is so wrong.

Anurag didn't rape Prerna. What happened involved mutual and active consent. And in no point in time did he tell her to sleep with him because he was going to marry her. It just happened and both sides are equally responsible, or culpable, whichever way you see it.

And I agree @TM. While Prerna isn't bound through law or a relationship to include Anurag in her decisions, she had a moral obligation to call things off with him before she stepped up to marry Bajaj. She was in a committed relationship and that made her accountable.

That doesn't mean she wasn't free to marry Bajaj. That decision, the decision of whom she chooses to marry, belongs solely to her. And that is what Bajaj commented on, too. She can choose to marry who she wants. That's her prerogative. Anurag has zero say in it. And since Anurag doesn't know about the child, and it was his dream, him saying her marriage is a mutual decision for them to take is just wrong.

Rape and blackmail leave life altering impressions on people. It shouldn’t be trivialized.

What transpired between AnuPre in the hut was consensual. He’s labeled a rapist but actual blackmail by RB swept under the rug. Hero or villain being honest about their behavior in a fictional situation is better than bias in favor of a character.

It wasn’t like AnuPre were just contemplating marriage when Pre decided to trade grooms. The activities had started and it was the eve of their wedding. After all that they have been through Anu deserved to know she wasn’t going through with it with him. Any reason would have been better than to run away like a coward and leave Anu, and Sharmas dealing with the shocking turn of events. Neither of them deserved this.

Pre has created more trouble for Sharmas and they are left reeling from it every time. Hope now that she’s made her choice she will let them live in peace. But before that they have to deal with another shocker, her pregnancy and Basus’ bashing.

Edited by MERARAI - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kalank

Having sex after promising marriage and then ditching her is rape, maybe you should gain some knowledge about the law before calling bajaj a criminal

blackmailing is crime and marrying any woman when she is crying and carrying and trapping her boyfriend in the crime which he never did and pushing and forcing any woman to a point where she is forced to accept the deal is crime in eyes of ppl who has humanity left in them.

Any human being who have little humanity left in heart will condemn this act of bajaj as crime only .. I am against bajaj as he forced innocent peegnant girl to enter into deal

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kalank

Having sex with a woman and insulting her and not marrying her is also a criminal offence hope you AWNNU fans know!

yes we know awnnu did wrong we have bashed awnnu to the level which anu fans can never do ... We aanu fans are proud we have bashed his act
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kalank

Let Prerna complain about bajaj until then it is consensual marriage!

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

blackmailing is crime and marrying any woman when she is crying and carrying and trapping her boyfriend in the crime which he never did and pushing and forcing any woman to a point where she is forced to accept the deal is crime in eyes of ppl who has humanity left in them.

Any human being who have little humanity left in heart will condemn this act of bajaj as crime only .. I am against bajaj as he forced innocent peegnant girl to enter into deal

A newbie invest_probe wrote a lovely post in my thread “Questions about Pre’s weddings, on page 19/20) explaining clearly why RB’s act of “offer” is indeed blackmail. it’s definitely worth a read. 👍🏼

We can’t ignore what is one of society’s ills simply bec one likes the actor portraying the role. We must call a spade a spade just to raise awareness among those who don’t get how serious and dangerous and lasting impression rape and blackmail can leave in one’s life for a lifetime and have a rippling effect beyond just the individual.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: MERARAI

A newbie invest_probe wrote a lovely post in my thread “Questions about Pre’s weddings, on page 19/20) explaining clearly why RB’s act of “offer” is indeed blackmail. it’s definitely worth a read. 👍🏼

We can’t ignore what is one of society’s ills simply bec one likes the actor portraying the role. We must call a spade a spade just to raise awareness among those who don’t get how serious and dangerous and lasting impression rape and blackmail can leave in one’s life for a lifetime and have a rippling effect beyond just the individual.

dont know dear it becomes depressing that our education system india has not reached to all in terms of indian constituency knowledge has to reach all it will be very difficult to ppl who dont know what laws indian constituency has written for us to uphold human rights.

But more than laws i believe humanity is the first thing which should be awake in ones heart.

If our heart is alive humanity is also alive, i am.very happy that i have heart in my body which is filled with positive emotions which knows what is right and what is wrong. I cant see any fellow human being suffer, i cant see.any human being suffer because of me as well.

I will not be able to enjoy others sufferings it will leave me in devasted status for hours.

I believe more than law its humanity in heart which makes us decide what is wrong what is right and what is crime.

I condemn from.my heart that bajajs act on prerna was crime.

Thanks for letting me know on the post, surely would like to read which as written by sensible forum wasis.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Yes I have no humanity! Because I am supporting an interesting grey character in a TV show! It is so immoral for me to like an interesting character that is being portrayed brilliantly! 😭 Morality toh anu pre fans se learn karni chahiye, that’s why they abuse so many people on SM 🤪and support dumb characters like Anurag! Keep quoting me by the way! It is hilarious!

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kalank

Yes I have no humanity! Because I am supporting an interesting grey character in a TV show! Who is acting brilliantly! 😭 Morality toh anu pre fans se learn karni chahiye, that’s why they abuse so many people on SM 🤪and support dumb characters like Anurag! Keep quoting me by the way! It is hilarious!

🤣we love you kalank
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: kalank

Yes I have no humanity! Because I am supporting an interesting grey character in a TV show! It is so immoral for me to like an interesting character that is being portrayed brilliantly! 😭 Morality toh anu pre fans se learn karni chahiye, that’s why they abuse so many people on SM 🤪and support dumb characters like Anurag! Keep quoting me by the way! It is hilarious!

Now the moral policing has gone too far.

Yeah we have no humanity left because every ounce of humanity is consumed by the people who make casual fun of pedophilia and human trafficking to support a forgettable daily soap character. smiley39

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Posted: 6 years ago

Pagal ho gaye ho kya sab.....

Senseless show ke peeche aise ladh rahe hain jaise apne hi charector hain.

Keep the peace maintained guys. Use report button wisely.

No need to exagerate everthing.... its a show.

Just appreciate the actors you love.

Seriously tjis fights will not go anywhere.

Itni problem hain cvs par dharna bolo.

Kya pata they show us some sensible thing 😆

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