It's not that she isn't thinking about Malhar. She isn't thinking about herself. She did that in the past as well. But in the past, Malhar wasn't affected by her life. And how long will KalMa be there to support Anupriya? I also think Anupriya is ruining Kalyani's life by not taking a stand for herself. Why is she putting up with the Deshmukhs' bs when she has KalMa to support her? Kalyani is bending over backwards for Anu and she can't be bothered to fight for herself.
U r absolutely right