PearlVPuri/RaghbirMalhotra AT # 1 { BINDAASS hai yeh!} - Page 46

Originally posted by: urmita

Ofcourse she cannot declare things like this to public.... come on that's not what any of us meant I m sure....but u have to admit these are serious matters... falling in love, having relationship, unplanned pregnancy....she can't keep quiet either....I m saying if she had the guts to actually be in a relationship that way....she should have the guts to actually do something about it when things don't go as she imagined... keeping quiet or lieing is not gonna make it go away...like Sana suggested, pregnancy thing doesn't even come into picture yet.... when RM asked all she had to say was no I don't want this marriage...girls are allowed to say atleast that in our society....

And she could have confided in Pragati when she asked what's wrong, or told RM about it....in private of course.... taking care of sis would have kept RM away from drinks and suicide a little more time and given us some good episodes..but that's not the point sorry 😋.... point is desperate times call for desperate measures...u can't just have affair with someone, take such an important step then get afraid and just silently marry someone else.... that's cheating....and even after her lie last episode she will have to do something right? She won't be able to maintain this whole life....she can't marry another guy without saying anything if she is already pregnant for real....she has to do something....so why not take help when u got it.....does she have any better options now? Any idea how she will manage alone? I don't see it....now what? So wouldn't it be better if she told her truth to someone? Anyone....

Our society is what it is....u can't live out of it...so yeah if u do something u know society will feel wrong have the guts to fight for it...say yeah I did it so what, I m not wrong....and if u can't then u too deep inside feel u are wrong...so don't do it, control urself, u r human....ur private life is urs, but when it effects other lives big time...like Priya's would be husband who doesn't know anything....then as I see it, it's not ur private thing anymore and keeping quiet is wrong in our or any country....and the most wrong u would be doing is to that innocent baby who would either get killed coz u don't want it or would one day face humiliation for sure.....so yeah people should know what u did in this case....

P.S. we are still having a discussion about a topic right? U are not getting mad or anything? This has become a social topic now so AT is probably not the right place when we have a chat club....but oh well..🤪 don't take anything personally....

Thought same

🤔

It's pearl AT right?😆

Let's divert the topic.

Pls some one open discussion thread.

Originally posted by: urmita

uh....I get what you are saying about this skin shade and body shaming topic....And u are right....

but I don't get why u are saying these...😕😜..u trying to give example of hypocrisy? In that case u are right....our country is hypocrite....we talk about many things but don't apply them for ourselves....and instead of lecturing people we should start doing things right on our own first....if we do something we should own it and then say it out loud and if we can't say it then we better not do it....if each person could keep their words and actions (good or bad) in sync, world would be a less complicated place....is that what u were going for?🤔

That aside what I'm trying to say is not everything is so black and White that we got a manual on how to act and deal with something. Sometimes it is more complex than that; sometimes there are exceptional case. And sometimes it is easy to criticise especially when we do not experience it firsthand; or when we are bystander or third party observer.

Had the same thing happened to you, to me, to anybody else here or to somebody that we love and care about; then perhaps, we would act the same way as Priya does here.

Nobody wants an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy, most especially, if they are unmarried even in the west, which I can say with convictions is much more accepting and less judgmental about such a thing. Then how much more a girl will be afraid in a country like India, which frowned upon such an action and behaviour.

Originally posted by: mafaaza12

Thought same

🤔

It's pearl AT right?😆

Let's divert the topic.

Pls some one open discussion thread.

Other topic....What to say....

1. What's in the suitcase?

2. And does Bani know how to open lock without key? She always unlocks that door...🤪🤣 madhouse people should have installed biometric lock...🤣

3. RM gonna plan suicide by electrocuting himself...😱This guy I tell u.... Prags will save him but stop already....now I m so sure no matter what fbs say, RaghBani was not a healthy relationship coz RM was obsessed..

4. Pearl does so much hardwork and is so talented clearly. He deserves more fame and appreciation than his shows get... Isn't things are a little unfair for him🤔

There discuss any or all of these😜

P.S. RM looks hot in all black...😉

Originally posted by: urmita

Other topic....What to say....

1. What's in the suitcase?

2. And does Bani know how to open lock without key? She always unlocks that door...🤪🤣 madhouse people should have installed biometric lock...🤣

3. RM gonna plan suicide by electrocuting himself...😱This guy I tell u.... Prags will save him but stop already....now I m so sure no matter what fbs say, RaghBani was not a healthy relationship coz RM was obsessed..

4. Pearl does so much hardwork and is so talented clearly. He deserves more fame and appreciation than his shows get... Isn't things are a little unfair for him🤔

There discuss any or all of these😜

P.S. RM looks hot in all black...😉

Yeah, it seems Raghbir was obsessed with Bani from the beginning. He was interviewing and asking about personal life that had nothing to do with professional life. Then he lied to her that they have a business meeting in that hotel to spend time with Bani. Don't they have no harassment policy in their office. Like really? 😆

Originally posted by: urmita

Ofcourse she cannot declare things like this to public.... come on that's not what any of us meant I m sure....but u have to admit these are serious matters... falling in love, having relationship, unplanned pregnancy....she can't keep quiet either....I m saying if she had the guts to actually be in a relationship that way....she should have the guts to actually do something about it when things don't go as she imagined... keeping quiet or lieing is not gonna make it go away...like Sana suggested, pregnancy thing doesn't even come into picture yet.... when RM asked all she had to say was no I don't want this marriage...girls are allowed to say atleast that in our society....

And she could have confided in Pragati when she asked what's wrong, or told RM about it....in private of course.... taking care of sis would have kept RM away from drinks and suicide a little more time and given us some good episodes..but that's not the point sorry 😋.... point is desperate times call for desperate measures...u can't just have affair with someone, take such an important step then get afraid and just silently marry someone else.... that's cheating....and even after her lie last episode she will have to do something right? She won't be able to maintain this whole life....she can't marry another guy without saying anything if she is already pregnant for real....she has to do something....so why not take help when u got it.....does she have any better options now? Any idea how she will manage alone? I don't see it....now what? So wouldn't it be better if she told her truth to someone? Anyone....

Our society is what it is....u can't live out of it...so yeah if u do something u know society will feel wrong have the guts to fight for it...say yeah I did it so what, I m not wrong....and if u can't then u too deep inside feel u are wrong...so don't do it, control urself, u r human....ur private life is urs, but when it effects other lives big time...like Priya's would be husband who doesn't know anything....then as I see it, it's not ur private thing anymore and keeping quiet is wrong in our or any country....and the most wrong u would be doing is to that innocent baby who would either get killed coz u don't want it or would one day face humiliation for sure.....so yeah people should know what u did in this case....

P.S. we are still having a discussion about a topic right? U are not getting mad or anything? This has become a social topic now so AT is probably not the right place when we have a chat club....but oh well..🤪 don't take anything personally....

@bold yes, of course we are still talking about topic. No personal offense taken.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

That aside what I'm trying to say is not everything is so black and White that we got a manual on how to act and deal with something. Sometimes it is more complex than that; sometimes there are exceptional case. And sometimes it is easy to criticise especially when we do not experience it firsthand; or when we are bystander or third party observer.

Had the same thing happened to you, to me, to anybody else here or to somebody that we love and care about; then perhaps, we would act the same way as Priya does here.

Nobody wants an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy, most especially, if they are unmarried even in the west, which I can say with convictions is much more accepting and less judgmental about such a thing. Then how much more a girl will be afraid in a country like India, which frowned upon such an action and behaviour.

@ bold... No not at all. Atleast not in this 21'st century

If does then it would be cheat of her family, boyfriend, respective groom, specially herself & her unborn.

P.s why we discuss abt it, as abt her pregnancy is not yet clear😆

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

That aside what I'm trying to say is not everything is so black and White that we got a manual on how to act and deal with something. Sometimes it is more complex than that; sometimes there are exceptional case. And sometimes it is easy to criticise especially when we do not experience it firsthand; or when we are bystander or third party observer.

Had the same thing happened to you, to me, to anybody else here or to somebody that we love and care about; then perhaps, we would act the same way as Priya does here.

Nobody wants an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy, most especially, if they are unmarried even in the west, which I can say with convictions is much more accepting and less judgmental about such a thing. Then how much more a girl will be afraid in a country like India, which frowned upon such an action and behaviour.

Well ofcourse nothing is black and white....I get ur pov. Yeah fear, shame , distress, not able to say anything it's all natural.....and not just this, in any situation only the person facing it first-hand can know how it's like, bystanders can't begin to guess....I get all that....but u just have to ignore ur fear and take stand for urself...do something....coz u don't have any other options.... problems don't solve themselves in any country....and suicide like RM is not solution either....So no matter how cruel society is, how afraid u are u just have to face ur problems and fight.....coz u are out of options...u need to tell someone, try to get some help if u can't manage alone.... atleast try before giving up.... this world may look beautiful now and then but it's a very complicated and bad place.....u need to keep ur fears in check, and keep fighting...I m talking about everything.....we all fight daily for something or other in our lives.... nothing is free...so yeah I get ur pov of how she feels but nobody will care or solve it for her if dhe doesn't start fighting for herself....this is just hard truth....

P.S. I do know of someone... neighbor of someone I know....girl my age...u know how gossip spread.... apparently she had abortion once when we were in clg....and her mom knew..that girl is engineer like me now has good job, a steady bf I see pics of in Facebook now and then....so u see u have to tell someone who can help, just have to find that right person....Our one man army RM seems right....

P.P.S. we really should stop discussing this I guess...this is AT...😆 let's talk something else...

Originally posted by: mafaaza12

@ bold... No not at all. Atleast not in this 21'st century

If does then it would be cheat of her family, boyfriend, respective groom, specially herself & her unborn.

P.s why we discuss abt it, as abt her pregnancy is not yet clear😆

@bold I agree with you Mafaaza ji, this is the 21st century and we should be able to do all these things if that is our personal choice without being ridiculed. Sadly, in this 21st century there are still really conservative society and community. Like for example, a guy and a girl as much as holding hand in Iran could be condemned; a guy and a girl kissing in public in places like Aceh, Indonesia could get them jailed; a guy claiming to be gay could be persecuted in the Gambia.

Originally posted by: mafaaza12

@ bold... No not at all. Atleast not in this 21'st century

If does then it would be cheat of her family, boyfriend, respective groom, specially herself & her unborn.

P.s why we discuss abt it, as abt her pregnancy is not yet clear😆

because a girl throwing up before her marriage.....and not happy with her marriage its typical ITV sign that girl is pregnant😆🤣.....

and i really dont get it in all shows lead couple got married,stay togather in one room,spend day and nights with each other stil they take almost one and two years to take their relation to next level.....and other side characters do the DEED in one go....i mean HOW??????🤣🤣

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Yeah, it seems Raghbir was obsessed with Bani from the beginning. He was interviewing and asking about personal life that had nothing to do with professional life. Then he lied to her that they have a business meeting in that hotel to spend time with Bani. Don't they have no harassment policy in their office. Like really? 😆

We do in ours....and forums u can talk in about this if u don't have any proof but want action taken...but this is daily soap...so......😋