I am going to state the facts of Akshat Jindal's relationship with his Past & Present Wife. This thread can be used as a reference for newcomers or Dajlit Kaur's uff Deepa fans who are not following the show Guddan Tumse Na Ho Payega😊
Humsafar: Do Musafirs= One Manzil= Togetherness with Akshat Jindal
Musafir #1 Antra Jindal Akshat Jindal's first Love His Past
Antra Jindal First Love: Past, His love for Antra was different at a young age assuming he was around 20, he was clueless & it was his first love, they had mutual understanding, & courtship before marriage, it was his Love Marriage. Antra was his Friend, close to the same age, no experience of the world, everything was black & white and rosy. He didn't experience pain or the harsh reality of the world. Expressing his love with her was different maybe Filmy Romantic Hero Way.
For Antra Jindal & her love Akshat Jindal isolated himself for 15 years, kept him away from a living, he was solely killing himself from the inside. Akshat Jindal had built a solid thick bubble around his heart that no one besides his mother was allowed to see his true self.
He had Khadus, Do Not Mess with Me Exterior with Menace but still ran his house with Dictatorship
Antra Jindal: Represented As Ideal Sophisticated Wife & Bahu
Knowing Antra Jindal via People Words Note: This Is A Fact No Analysis If You Followed Show From Begining You Will Know What I am talking and mentioning
The Spirt Antra Jindal: Facts Via AJ or 3rd Person: All the facts are from my Memory
- Birthday Party: Akshat Jindal loved his wife Antra Jindal dearly and after her death didn't believe in Saath of Dying & Living Together because his first wife left.
- During the Vachan Akshat Jindal made it clear to Prospective Wife & Guddan who was present that he only loves one and will love one woman his Late Wife Antra Jindal & next wife will be a showpiece.
- After Antra demise for the past 15 years, AJ isolated himself with her memories, didn't let anyone counsel him and he built a shield around him.
- After Antra died: AJ wore Antra's favorite color Black & dark shades. He disliked colorful shades.
- Akshat Jindal ran the house and kept everything according to Antra’s wish and taste.
- Akshat Jindal even didn't change his bedroom decor
- After her death, the next day after AJ's birthday for the past 15 years a letter was delivered to him via their mutual friend Paulomi.
- While reading the letter we saw that Akshat Jindal was feeling guilty of not saving Antra Jindal from a car accident,. we heard Akshat name screamed by Antra's voice
- Dadi mentioned to the Bahus, each year after his birthday he will impatiently wait for the letter, in this letter whether it will take AJ entire year he will fulfill the Wish or Zid of Antra.
- Antra's last and final letter asked or demanded and gave Akshat Jindal a condition, to get married within 15 days to give her Aatma Shanti.
- After announcing to get married, he was hurt & angry at Antra for playing with his emotions & love for her, he said very Well Done Mrs. Antra Akshat Jindal a Game Well Played.
- Antra Last Nishani: Akshat Jindal gave Guddan Gupta his future wife, a responsibility of safekeeping the ring, but due to Lakshmi & Saru's tricks she lost it but they took it. Because of their carelessness, the ring got lost in Engagement preparation of Akshat Jindal & Guddan Gupta.
- After the wedding, Guddan left the room, where she accused of him being Kidnapper & Mastermind, he asked Antra are you happy? Is this what you wanted? How can someone accuse him of something that he isn't? He was hurt of Guddan accusation!
- During the Diwali Festival: Dadi told Guddan that with Antra, AJ happily participated in all the festivities and did everything with Antra.
- After Saru's Restaurant Kand Blunder: in the room, Dadi informed Guddan the importance of Akshat Jindal Restaurant to her, it wasn't just a restaurant but AJ's memory with Antra. Dadi also mentioned to Guddan that Antra was not only AJ's Love or Wife, but she was his Dost & Companion.
- Dadi told Guddan Antra loved Aksaht's cooking, she insisted & it was her Zid which made Aksaht Jindal leave his job and open the restaurant. After Antra's death, he made it successful while having Jindal Holding.
- After yelling at Guddan, AJ entered, Guddan & AJ's first normal conversation AJ made somewhat amends for yelling saying Antra loved white flowers not yellow by revealing a hint of Antra.
- When Dutta called AJ gave him a condition to bring Restaurant Papers, for Guddan AJ was willing to sacrifice his memory of Antra and their beloved Restaurant.
- After Saru's Chorni Kand: AJ was devasted that Chor took Antra's painting, she asked AJ to keep the painting of hers because he painted it with his own hands and she loved it. AJ was hurt of not fulfilling and keeping the promise to Antra. Guddan learned the importance and the sentimental value that the painting holds in AJ eyes.
- Guddan's Mistake Wall Introduction: Guddan told AJ you are perfect and you don't make mistakes. Akshat Jindal wrote that he feels guilty of not saving his wife Antra Jindal from an accident. Guddan and Akshat learn they share Dard Ka Rishta
- Christmas Party was a tradition that Antra Jindal started
- Valentines Day Party: Even after her death, each year heartbroken & isolate AJ made sure Valentines Party was Celebrated Grandly another tradition started by Antra.
- Rawat Stay at Jindal Bhavan:Rawat reminded Guddan that what everything of her belonged to his sister Antra Jindal: Being Wife of Akshat Jindal, Saas & Bahu. Guddan firmly told Rawat that Antra Jindal was the past, she is the present & current wife of Akshat Jindal, now its her right. (something like that)
- Barsi time we learned Antra's favorite sabiz is Mattar which Guddan dislikes
- Angad Entry: Akshat Jindal hid his baby brother who became mentally unstable from the world due to his 1st love leaving or betraying him. Dadi mentioned or hinted that in the eyes of the Law that Angad Jindal is guilty & reason behind his First Bhabhi Antra Jindal's death. Aksat Jindal sacrificed 15 years of his life by hiding Angad Jindal from the World & Law, by making him disappear where Bahus assumed Angad died.
- Akshat Jindal who loved his 1st wife dearly clarified to his Mother, His wife Guddan & Everyone that Angad Jindal wasn't the reason that Antra Jindal died.
- AJ replaced Antra's picture and put Guddan picture, Guddan understood that she made a place in her Jindal Saab heart, and healed his wound. Guddan understand has a companion that Antra will always remain part of her husbands Akshat Jindal memories & Antra was his Past while Guddan his is future.
- Akshan's engagement morning: Akshat Jindal cleared to his wife that Antra was his Past and Guddan is his Future & it's her place to have her picture.
Antra's Presence & Entry Reference June 20th, June 21st, June 24th 2019 Go watch not going in detail June 25th
- Antra entered during the middle of Aksaht Jindal and Guddan Aksaht Jindal's engagement, she was Blast from AJ's Past.
- The entire Engagement venue turned dark, lights were flickering, haunting music was playing, Guests along with Akshan were covering their face with the force of the Storm (Antra) and at one point AJ had is arms around Guddan has shielded her away from the storm.
- Antra reminded & sort of blackmailed, Akshat Jindal of His Past Love for Her, because of his Love, Faith & Trust she is alive. Yada Yada
- Akshat Jindal said I am glad to see you alive Antra because I was feeling Guilty of not saving you.
- It was revealed that because of Angad's instability & Pagalpan led to Antra's illness.
- Akshat Jindal tried everything to save Antra, during night time they were shifting her in an ambulance to a hospital, when her accident happened she fell in the Kai, her body was not found, everyone assumed she was the death
- Antra Jindal went to Dadi n hugged her, also reminded Dadi of Akshat ka Pyar
- Aksaht Jindal didn't want to reminded or face the Night of Antra's Accident because he felt responsible and guilty of not saving her.
- Angad Jindal was scared and stammering, like his haunting bitter past fear with Antra was resurfacing
- Antra Jindal brought a doctor, with his team found her, treated her she had a deep head injury, some face injury and was in a deep coma for the past 15 years.
- Akshat asked her how, when Antra was giving her explanation after waking up from Neend, AJ said Neend Antra fainted in AJ's arm and stopping herself from getting further explanation.
- Akshat Jindal asked the guest room to be opened.
- The doctor was surprised that Guddan Akshat Jindal is the Present wife of Aksaht Jindal, told Akshat Jindal not to inform Antra about his 2nd marriage because she has woken up from the coma, any new Changes/ Badlav will put stress on her brain. He requested AJ to keep and due everything that was 15 years ago.
- Antra woke up, asked AJ why he wasn't sitting next to her, kept reminding him of his love for her and what he did for the past.
- Antra insecurity rose and she called out Guddan out of the crowd and asked her who she was and what she was doing in Jindal House.
- While talking to Guddan, Antra was extra clingy & forcing herself onto Akshat Jindal (who was uncomfortable) in the room full of strangers,
- Despite the fact that Akshat and Antra are in their 40s, society expects them to behave differently
- Also despite the fact 15 years ago 2003-2005 public display of husband-wife affection is considered a Taboo in Indian Society, romance was Private or In-Room away from Family Eyes. Because in Indian Society in front of Family, Strangers & Guest Married Couple around with Single Couples should be Maryada and be Respectful of Family or Sasural Image & Name.
- Also her conversation with Guddan who is Unkown Total Stranger, she called her Beautiful, inquired about her Finance then her husband, looked at Guddan's MS like seeing the pendant and the sparkling diamonds that Guddan is married into a wealthy family and she wanted to rip it from her neck.
- When everyone was leaving she made sure and called AJ to be with her, reminding him of the past and how he used to ceres her head while she was ill.
- With her sweet smile to Guddan gave her direct warning and threat to stay away from Akshat Jindal he is her husband & belong to her Antra Jindal and stay away.
- Antra Jindal warned Guddan not to tell her what and where to go because it's her house.
Analysis Based on the Facts Presented
The Spirit Antra
Akshat Jindal once upon a time a fun loving emotional down to earth man became detached, isolated and was slowly suffocating and killing himself and his insanity with his isolation.
The Spirit Antra memory haunted Akshat Jindal because he felt guilty of not saving his First Love, His Friend, Companion, His Wife Antra Jindal from the fatal accident where he assumed she lost her life. After his birthday September 4th, on September 5th he received a letter of Antra where it gave Akshat a specific wish or zid to full fill. Akshat Jindal was lost in his one isolation where he didn't let his Sons or Bahus become his Hamdard or Secret-Keeper of his heart. He didn't trust anyone besides his mother.
We saw through Antra's portrait AJ portrayed her as Sophisticated Mahaan Lady who was Savrngunn Sampan, she was the lady that taught him what love and how to be a companion.
With the guilt and demise of Antra Jindal, the fake nonsense strict Hilter Headmaster Akshat Jindal hid his real self behind his many masks and the depth of his heart where no one can discover and unravel him until a Toofan called Guddan Gupta his future wife.
What did AJ learn from Spirit Antra? This AJ is not what or who Akshat Jindal truly is from the interior but what exterior he built of him.
After 15 years of Antra's demise, Akshat Jindal wore black & dark clothes because she liked color black, the vortex of her death guilt & shadow caused him to accept darkness around him, with no hope of lightness to enter his life. His body was Aging, his brains were adapting to the Badlav around him through time whether its technology, cars or year changes but his heart and mind maybe because of Guilt and not ready to let go of the memories & wajood of his Companion.
Akshat Jindal learned how to display his Name, Fame, Power & Money show off the grandeur in society via parties. He learned that people could be brought with Money & Materialistic objects. He was under the misconception that relationship works where one partner is dominating and other is subordinate.
From Antra & The Spirit Antra, Akshat Jindal learned to safeguard his heart and not let anyone dominate, or use or hurt him.
The Living Antra: Letting Go of His Love
Akshat Jindal was happy to see Antra Rawat alive because he felt guilty of not saving her that Dark Night when the accident of her ambulance happened. He felt guilty of not saving her when Angad was unstable and from the ambulance accident when it felt in the Kai, they assumed she was dead.
Antra Rawat is not the woman that Aksaht Jindal portrayed or painted in his picture or his memory that he held on to.
When Antra Rawat entered, she told, reminded Akshat Jindal her husband Humara Pyar, tumhara Vishwas Jeet Gaya, she never inquired how he felt and how he was. She kept on reminding him as if making him Guilty for making him forget his first love, his first priority, his love Antra Jindal. When Akshat tried to question her regarding the Neend she fainted in his arms.
Antra Jindal is a multilayered woman who is hiding her true self behind the mask of her Goodness, Innocent and Sweetness face.
One thing we saw in Friday's episode is that when Angad Jindal was unstable he saw Guddan has his protector similar to his elder brother Akshat Bhai, he felt safe, secure, he was himself and healing until the interference of Durga Jindal and her manipulation. When Antra Jindal entered Angad was stammering and his facial expression show has he was scared of him while addressing her has Bhabhi Maa it wasn't out of love or respect, it was out of fear.
After waking up Antra's Jindal biggest insecurity was the beautiful strange woman in the orange saree Guddan, she questioned her relationship status, she felt insecure, while talking to Guddan she was holding to Akshat and saying Mera Patni, reminding Guddan that she has the support of her husband, and she is the guest in the house.
In Tuesday's episode, we saw the Naqab of Good Antra Jindal fading away when she started questioning Guddan position in the house and referring her to Ladkhiwala: The Outsider who is Guest till Marriage doesn't have right in Jindal Bhavan because only she has right has wife of Akshat Jinal Mrs. Antra Aksaht Jindal. She directly without blinking or batting her eyelashes told Guddan that this is my house, I have marked in every corner of my house, and I am Mrs. Antra Akshat Jindal, no one has the right to come between her and her husband. She told Guddan she doesnt like random girls being friendly or roaming around with her husband.
Even in the bedroom, Antra not once asked Akshat Jindal her husband how was he surviving without her and how he has been? Tum Teekho,
What did actual Antra show us & Guddan?
Antra Jindal showed us that even though she is in her 40s, the same age, same generation as AJ, she is an immature, insecure, selfish, possessive, show off woman who is acting like a Tart to claim her Eye Candy Akshat Jindal, emotional blackmail him remind him repeatedly that she is his First Love. Antra Jindal has arrived from the past because she has a deep sinking fear that the hold that she created on Akshat Jindal has slipped away, he has fallen in love and moved on with Guddan Akshat Jindal his second wife. Antra Jindal has the fear of her Eye Candy's Name, Fame, Property & Money slipping away from her grip.
After 15 years she is back, she wants to bring back the changes that were in the Jindal House around 2003-2004, put everything in her control, remove any Badlav that Guddan Gupta brought in the house and in the mind of Akshat Jindal. From Tuesday episode we can see that its actually Antra Jindal who hates Badlav and she installed that in her husband who was blindly in love with her Akshat Jindal.