कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 12 Jun 2019 - Page 19

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

DG, if just for 10 minutes they had shown AnuPre discussing what went wrong and how if they had communicated, and spoken to each other before taking their decision without consulting the other , all this komo fiasco and marraige would never have happened.

This is the only issue ppl are having with AnuPre, atleast as per my knowledge.

Nobody doubts their love for each other. But because of shoddy dialogues and when viewers see them just brushing things under carpet and not "communicating about the real issues" , we are unable to relate much to them because that's not how relationships work. See, everyone when they state their opinion, it's mostly based on their belief and their own experience. For some, Anu-Pre must be perfect and for some, it may look like two teenagers obsessed with each other, madly in love but not able to communicate properly.

That doesn't make it right or wrong. It's just that opinions differ and we can agree to disagree :)

And respecting everyone's priorities.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

DG, if just for 10 minutes they had shown AnuPre discussing what went wrong and how if they had communicated, and spoken to each other before taking their decision without consulting the other , all this komo fiasco and marraige would never have happened.

This is the only issue ppl are having with AnuPre, atleast as per my knowledge.

Nobody doubts their love for each other. But because of shoddy dialogues and when viewers see them just brushing things under carpet and not "communicating about the real issues" , we are unable to relate much to them because that's not how relationships work. See, everyone when they state their opinion, it's mostly based on their belief and their own experience. For some, Anu-Pre must be perfect and for some, it may look like two teenagers obsessed with each other, madly in love but not able to communicate properly.

That doesn't make it right or wrong. It's just that opinions differ and we can agree to disagree :)

Sneha.. Aa gale lag for this post..🤗

Originally posted by: Zaalima_5

Sneha.. Aa gale lag for this post..🤗

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Originally posted by: mily_mathew

You have expressed it so beautifully.

And respecting everyone's priorities.

Thank you Milly🤗 Like I always in season 1 forum , if I had not loved AnuPre so deeply and felt for Pre, I would never have loved PRB after the leap .

So when we give our opinions, it's not like we don't like them or want the other fandom to win. Our opinions are simply based on the storyline at the moment and can change. Nothing is right or wrong, it's just that opinions differ.

It's not like we want Perfect Anurag or everything perfect. Relationships are flawed. Yes Anurag made mistakes. But instead of brushing things under carpet, if they had talked to each other, it would have made more sense.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Something I disliked about the inital portrayal (and I was in a real minority at the time in the forum) was the need to portray anurag as perfect. And the desire to bash Prerna just because she was portrayed as most of us are - with some things where she is an absolute angel and others where she is acts foolishly and emotionally. Some of my favourite characters in my favourite TV series or movies (albeit English) are imperfect. Some grow through their imperfections, some don’t. I like to pat myself on the back and say that some of my rants at the star plus insta ladies had a role to play in them stopping their ridiculous promos of anurag as the perfect boyfriend and the perfect son and the perfect friend.

So I for one don’t mind that we have an anurag who made a huge mistake. That he misjudged the situation, that he become incapacitated against Komolika and prerna has to be the one taking action..... I can be upset at him for his actions, but they add layers to the character. I dislike and am disappointed with the inability of the writers to draw a proper line under it and give him proper dialogues of contrition. He has lots of indirect dialogues like saying he wants to ask veena for forgiveness etc but not direct lines. Instead the boy is given situation after situation in which he shows he never ending love and care for prerna. Since Komolika he has been mconstantly putting her first and taking care her. He admitted in the Saturday Maha episode his thought process and how much he admires prerna for her actions. Even the way he speaks to her is with so much care - like he did on the phone saying “bolo prerna”. And how he expressed his constant fear of losing her today....

And finally my prerna. I love anupre but I have always and will always have a slightly softer corner for my prerna. How she tugs at my heart. With her initial desire to have a happy life while also helping her parents and believing in love. How she has always shown her honest feelings - even her dislike for Naveen while also being ready to make a stupid sacrifice. Everything people love to bash about her - I love. Her confusion in the hospital scene with anurag - of loving and hating him for what he did to her. Her need to make anurag suffer but also make him tell her why he didn’t love her any more. And now the way she is willing to accept to forgive anurag and stand up with him in front of Komolika, but is also always afraid and not scared to express it to Nivi or anurag. This is me and so many people I see around me. We don’t always resolve our issues perfectly- they are often scars on our heart that we carry around with us for ever.

Haaaa.. 🤗 Enjoyed reading your post.. 👍🏼

The real UK girl is back.. that I always admired for expressing her honest opinions on the characters, without holding back your personal preferences for actors playing it😉.. no matter whether it's for Anu or against Anu or for Pre or against Pre (I know against Pre from you is very less and now I know why - your extra soft teddy heart for her😳) you are bang on.. And no pricking and picking on their shortcomings instead projecting them as something where they sure have room for improvements.. And that's where I would personally want the CVs to focus on for Anu-Pre to work through it all through their Kasautti.. Let's keep fingers crossed.. 👍🏼

I can be angry and upset and disappointed with them but can never hate them and will always want them to find ways to get back to what they love about each other❤️.. And build themselves both as individual and as couple using their own emotions as strengths..

Originally posted by: reeyacute

because after every kasauti they r placed from where they begun

Yeah.. One way you are right.. And like Parth said, if they start talking then the show will end.. 😆 So the Kasautti is running on keeping the leads from communicating openly with each other.. If only Anu had told about Kom.. Now again if only Pre is gonna tell about Mr. B.. No they won't.. And that's where the makers enjoy our Kasautti of going mad at them.. 🤣

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Yeah.. One way you are right.. And like Parth said, if they start talking then the show will end.. 😆 So the Kasautti is running on keeping the leads from communicating openly with each other.. If only Anu had told about Kom.. Now again if only Pre is gonna tell about Mr. B.. No they won't.. And that's where the makers enjoy our Kasautti of going mad at them.. 🤣

I was banging my head thinking why these two characters don't communicate, but yes this could be the reason😆

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Mujhe bol rhi ho ya bajaj ki beti ko😆

Don't worry Moni. We all know pre is going to get married to Bajaj. But somehow I feel this time Pre will end up with Anurag

Prerna will not get married to bajaj

But will go with him to swiss. Anupre will again meet there after leap and anurag will come to know about prerna s sacrifice and about bajaj

Anupre engagement day bajaj will enter their lives not as bajaj but someone else.

Just my feeling

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Thank you Milly🤗 Like I always in season 1 forum , if I had not loved AnuPre so deeply and felt for Pre, I would never have loved PRB after the leap .

So when we give our opinions, it's not like we don't like them or want the other fandom to win. Our opinions are simply based on the storyline at the moment and can change. Nothing is right or wrong, it's just that opinions differ.

It's not like we want Perfect Anurag or everything perfect. Relationships are flawed. Yes Anurag made mistakes. But instead of brushing things under carpet, if they had talked to each other, it would have made more sense.

If they talk and sort out things kasauti wouldn't arise

We live in real world but ekta maiyaa in mythological world

Ram sita n ravaan

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

I was banging my head thinking why these two characters don't communicate, but yes this could be the reason😆

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Instead of making them communicate and close all channels for misunderstanding, the CVs are exploring on how much misunderstanding can happen if couples don't communicate making that as their Kasautti😉.. The dont's in relationship..

And with this Anu-Pre can get connected back once the misunderstanding clears i.e. Kasautti clears, but emotions will remain the same.. 😉