कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 29 May 2019 - Page 27

Originally posted by: _charu_

@rnegi ..buddy, i dont expect him to go against mohini..that will be unlike anurag. But if mohini is slapping prerna , he can feel bad for prerna? He can show some reaction ? of hurt ? Of pain?

Yes I agree and I am sure he felt that.. the scene was not shot well and it’s the directors fault there..( that’s another topic for a rant 😆)

Knowing anurag, who sat outside the jail whole night, how can he not feel pain for prerna’s humiliation?

That is why he followed it up so much earnestness on clearing her name..so all the wronged her could feel ashamed.

Moh prejudices are too deep rooted and he will see that in time if they keep that characterisation..

Originally posted by: _charu_

Of course not . Its extremely important to assert yourself , at the same point understand the perspective of the other person and learn to let go of their mistakes. Its important to forgive but not become a doormat . Not let anyone take you for granted.

Thats what i am trying to say mily. When one lets go of their self respect , the other should respect it ..if the other person doesnt respect , then its unhealthy and leads to a very toxic relationship..it implies for both the partners..both have to be flexible ..... i am not implying anurag is a bad person ..he is all messed up. Both are acting impulsive according to the situations thrown at them . Both are weak. Both are capable of loving each other but there is not 1% growth ..infact they went downhill.

My basic complaint with prerna is that if she loved anurag so much , which she now says , tum meri hi anurag ho, tum nafrat ka natak kar rahe the mujhe pata tha etc , if she had slightest of doubt , it should have come to her mind or in her actions. It never did..this is actually insensitive writing , its not the character fault also..she knew anurag since childhood..how did she believe that he can takr advantage of a girl like this ? Use and throw ?

anurag wants to build up that trust between them , its ok..they are starting from scratch..lets not say they are madly in love or theirs is the biggest and best love story ever . They didnt even start with love so lets see .

@rnegi ..buddy, i dont expect him to go against mohini..that will be unlike anurag. But if mohini is slapping prerna , he can feel bad for prerna? He can show some reaction ? of hurt ? Of pain?

Originally posted by: rnegi

Yes I agree and I am sure he felt that.. the scene was not shot well and it’s the directors fault there..( that’s another topic for a rant 😆)

Knowing anurag, who sat outside the jail whole night, how can he not feel pain for prerna’s humiliation?

That is why he followed it up so much earnestness on clearing her name..so all the wronged her could feel ashamed.

Moh prejudices are too deep rooted and he will see that in time if they keep that characterisation..

I am talking about the scene wherr mohini slapped prerna . And many others which happened before the jail scene . He cleared her name in the end ..yeah..he is the hero 😆

Anyhow my grudge against him is not being able to do anything to get rid of komo

Originally posted by: _charu_

No way , ur abs right . Fighting for your love is by no means weak or obsessive . But prerna was NOT fighting for love . She was fighting for a "failed" relationship . She never showed any kind of hope ..of love from anurag. Its just by chance that komo was exposed. She or anurag didnt do anything for it..neither fight nor try . So their fight or kasauti is an eye wash . They won bec of cannes 😆

😀 it is not a great love story by any means ( shoddy writing, direction etc) but I am looking a bigger picture here than the nitigritties..

I do believe she came to B.B. to fight for her relationship and rights...she was feeling scorned but she did believe in him..else all her claims to the wedding would mean nothing without his support.

Also, not every woman needs to have big career ambitions...some don’t.. Prema did not come to Anurag for the money...if he had rejected her, she would have built her life . I have no doubt about that.

The story has plenty of loopholes but we watch it for the relationship between anu and pre and them being together is what we want to see.. why?? Because they have managed to convince us of their love...it may not be great ( not sure what great love btw) but still good enough to keep us hooked.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I am talking about the scene wherr mohini slapped prerna . And many others which happened before the jail scene . He cleared her name in the end ..yeah..he is the hero 😆

Yes, I am talking about the scene where moh slapped p at tapurs engagaement. He did feel that pain..and yes he supported her as that was the need of the hour and not because he is a hero😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

No way , ur abs right . Fighting for your love is by no means weak or obsessive . But prerna was NOT fighting for love . She was fighting for a "failed" relationship . She never showed any kind of hope ..of love from anurag. Its just by chance that komo was exposed. She or anurag didnt do anything for it..neither fight nor try . So their fight or kasauti is an eye wash . They won bec of cannes 😆

Originally posted by: rnegi

😀 it is not a great love story by any means ( shoddy writing, direction etc) but I am looking a bigger picture here than the nitigritties..

I do believe she came to B.B. to fight for her relationship and rights...she was feeling scorned but she did believe in him..else all her claims to the wedding would mean nothing without his support.

Also, not every woman needs to have big career ambitions...some don’t.. Prema did not come to Anurag for the money...if he had rejected her, she would have built her life . I have no doubt about that.

The story has plenty of loopholes but we watch it for the relationship between anu and pre and them being together is what we want to see.. why?? Because they have managed to convince us of their love...it may not be great ( not sure what great love btw) but still good enough to keep us hooked.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

what ur saying is a different scenario, people nowadays divorce for the most trivial reasons, like I have heard someone divorced someone cos they just asked them to brush their teeth. It's the unwillingness to compromise that making relationships fail nowadays.

But Madam Pres case is different, her total indifference to others and the total lack of other pursuits in her life irks me. That's cvs obsessive love for Anurag so that she always stays mesmerised with him.

Mily, like charu said it’s bad writing and not a character flaw. Her journey with Vikrant on becoming a businesswoman would have been interesting to see. However, one or two dialogues here and there shows us that she is becoming that businesswoman. She is not indifferent to others either because I have always seen her caring nature, even to people like Mohini.

Again, we will never agree but I don’t think she is totally mesmerized by him. They have their issues and need time to sort it out.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I am talking about the scene wherr mohini slapped prerna . And many others which happened before the jail scene . He cleared her name in the end ..yeah..he is the hero 😆

Anyhow my grudge against him is not being able to do anything to get rid of komo

Are you taking about his role during the exposure? If so this was Prerna’s time to shine like Anurag did during Naveen’s track.

no one can convinced mily that pre is strong woman who fight for her right & during the course she come to know that her anu is innocent.