My POV on 20th may episode :- Guddu is indeed in Vanvas

Today's Akshan scenes somewhat reminded me of the movie movie "Bhagban" where Amitabh & Hema get separated by their kids for 1st time in their life after their marriage of 40 years.

Coming to the episode,

There is no shaq Jindal saab is a gem.

I have no words to praise him.

How many men in real do what he wanted to do today ?

But unlike just any men, Guddu's husband isn't just her husband, he is a father too & has huge reputation in the society. How could she let the society question & point finger at his parvarish like, "Jindal saab ke beton ne Jindal saab ko ghar se nikaal diya !!" ?

For her, Jindal saab is her crown that she wears with pride but she can't take away just the crown removing all the jewels adorned on it. She takes pride in being wife of mahan Akshat Jindal & can't hear his name or reputation being tainted.

But yes I can see very clearly that, had the son & bahus disrespected him in place of her, then she herself would have taken the authority & kicked them out without any hesitance. Just like how, Hema Malini disowns her sons in "Bhagban" for hurting her husband.

And in that case, I believe, Guddu won't have let herself or her Jindal saab leave his own house.

About Guddu coming back in such a short time period, I would say Guddu is "selfish" .

"Selfish" for him. Selfish to be with her Jindal saab.

Aur honi bhi chaiye !

He is everything she has craved all her life. How can she leave him for long when he looks at her like that,

Her dialogue says it all,

"Jaldi aa jayenge Jindal saab, aapne dost se dur hum bhi nahi reh sakte...."

I love how she keeps coming back to him as that proves, how difficult it is for her to stay far from him. Even though I knew due to spoilers that Guddu is coming back, but still I can feel AJ's pain of having to let her go...

It looked like his life is draining out of him...

I would say nothing is worth leaving him especially after the immense support he gives her. He doesn't deserve any of these.

At least I don't have the strength to watch him like this when there is zero fault of his & maybe so does Guddu. She too can't bear to leave him like that. Especially after yesterday's bedroom scene when she saw how miserable he was,

Why to punish him ? Her heart won't allow that. He who always has been her pillar of strength, she can't see him broken. Her heart aches to heal him in anyway she can. She is the one who always listens to her heart rather than her mind & her heart won't let her leave her Jindal saab in this miserable state for long.

When AJ goes to pool side & recalls the memories of their date reminded me of, the scene in Bhagban when Amitabh doesn't get the chance to use phone as his son was busy, so he goes out to PCO to call his wife as she waits for his call cause she can't sleep & then he sings on phone,

Main yaha tu wahan, Zindagi hai kaha.....

Main yaha tu wahan, Zindagi hai kaha.....

Tu hi tu hai sanam dekhta hoon jaha...

Neend aati nahi, yaad jati nahi.....

Neend aati nahi, yaad jati nahi.....

Bin tere ab jiya jaye naaa......

Main yaha tu wahan, Zindagi hai kaha.....

Then says these lines,

Waqt Jaise Thehar Gaya Hai Yehi,

Har Taraf Ek Ajab Udaasi Hai

Bekarari Kaa Aisa Aalam Hai,

Jism Tanhaa Hai Ruhh Pyaasi Hai...

And it seems like Guddu understood his state. She knew he will be bothered & restless for her, given the circumstances in which she left the house. So she decided to give him an idea of how far she is i.e. 42.9 km to assure him she is alright & since the watch is powered by heart beat, he knows she is ok.

That gave him a relief to some extent as reflected by the smile on his face. And this gave the same sort of relief to her as well as she was able to give him some of that to calm his restlessness,

But this wasn't enough, cause at this moment, more than anything, both of them just wanted to be with each other,

She has become his "aadat" & so has he for her. Both have become like oxygen for each other. The simple thought of having to stay away from each other, suffocates them. How long can one bear suffocation ?

Now coming to the title of the topic,

Yes according to me, Guddan is in vanvas !

Leaving one's actual self behind & adopting some other personality that doesn't come naturally & isn't one's real self, can be taken as similar to vanvaas. Cause the Lalita Pawar avtar she has taken isn't her own true self.

That isn't her soul, her soul is in vanvas. She is confining her real self in "van".

Doing something against one true nature that one herself doesn't support of, is not easy the least.

Just like vanvaas was filled with hardship, for someone as pure as her, as innocent as her, who can't think of hurting a cockroach, taking up a completely different personality that is completely opposite of her own & intentionally hurting people even if its for a day or two, is no less of hardship for her but very much equivalent to "vanvas".

But difference here is, her husband isn't that Ram, her husband is with her in her vanvaas. As can be seen from the precap, she is in her actual self in front her husband, her Jindal saab.

& the terrace is her "van" now, where she is in her real & true self.

Today when she returned, she called herself, "AJ ki patni" not "Jindal saab ki patni" cause "Jindal saab ki patni" along with her Jindal saab is in vanvas i.e. terrace pe on the pool kinara.

A free ka advice to all :-

If any of you haven't watched this movie "Bhagban", please don't watch it with your parents. 😒 Bohat comparisons sehen karne padte hai !

1st your parents will start looking out for similarities that you have with Aman & other 3 useless sons. Later, they will express their disappointment on how, you can never be Salman... 😔

But yes the movie is definitely worth the watch ⭐️👍🏼

P.s. Pervy ko dher sari duwayein for his lambi zindagi taki aur flop "foolproof" plans bana sake. Beton ke liye dher sari lollipops ki kamna taki wo chup hi rahe ! & most important,

Lakh di lanat tere mu tay Durga Jindal !

Originally posted by: captainplus

Today Akshan scenes somewhat reminded me of the movie movie "Bhagban" where Amitabh & Hema get separated by their kids for 1st time in their life after their marriage of 40 years.

😲OMG Captain I had the same feeling, I am like this Bhagbahn, I remembered where Pooja & Raj characters were separating. 😭

There is no shaq Jindal saab is a gem. AJ is the Black Opal the darker his past & background is brighter his inclusion is.

I have no words to praise him.

Me either

How many men in real do what he wanted to do today ? .0001% Jindal Saab is rare to find in the real world😭

But unlike just any men, Guddu's husband isn't just her husband, he is a father too & has huge reputation in the society. How could she let the society question & point finger at his parvarish like, "Jindal saab ke beton ne Jindal saab ko ghar se nikaal diya !!" ?

Exactly, in Friday she, indirectly told him your sons come before me, when she said they are leaving here first.

For her, Jindal saab is her crown that she wears with pride but she can't take away just the crown removing all the jewels adorned on it. She takes pride in being wife of mahan Akshat Jindal & can't hear his name or reputation being tainted. She is very proud she told him he is her Garv, n like you said her Crown. Since the card party & after the restaurant Kand, she wanted to become actress so she can earn back Jindal Saabs reputation that was lost because of her mistake.

But yes I can very clearly see, had the son & bahus disrespected him in place of her, she herself would have taken the authority & kicked them out without any hesitance. Just like Hema Malini disowns her sons in "Bhagban" for hurting her husband. Ditto I feel the same, because she is the same person, even though she was cordial in her relationship where she threw Dirty water on Pervy, n she said dont interfere in her relationship with my husband. In the card party she warned Dutta that she will not give any of her husbands hard earn money when he threatened her

And in that case, I believe, Guddu won't have let herself or her Jindal saab leave his own house. She would have been let n go earn their own money and fame. Jindal Saab this is your hard earn money and she would have been his biggest supporter.

About Guddu coming back in such a short time period, I would say Guddu is "selfish" . "Selfish" for him. Selfish to be with her Jindal saab. Aur honi bhi chaiye ! Of course she should be selfish, her husband and she are innocent, her confidence, her support and her pillar of strength. He is her guiding light.

He is everything she has craved all her life. How can she leave him for long when he looks at her like that, Very well said 👏Her Bahus & Sons dont want her, but she is his wife & dost, he is her world she cannot leave him.

Her dialogue says it all,

"Jaldi aa jayenge Jindal saab, aapne dost se dur hum bhi nahi reh sakte...."

I love how she keeps coming back to him as that proves, how difficult it is for her to stay far from him. Even though I knew due to spoilers that Guddu is coming back, but still I can feel AJ's pain of having to let her go... Me to, he was just breaking down, each steps she took was like someone was piercing his heart with an arrow.

It looked like his life is draining out of him... His oxygen, his light, his sunshine was going away from him. 😭

I would say nothing is worth leaving him especially after the immense support he gives her. He doesn't deserve any of these. I agree he never deserves it, he and she have both equally suffered, but Guddan had her sister & dad to share things with but not her deep pain but AJ was killing himself being locked in solitude and keeping himself in a shell.

At least I don't have the strength to watch him like this when there is zero fault of his & maybe so does Guddu. She too can't bear to leave him like that. Especially after yesterday's bedroom scene when she saw how miserable he was,It was very hard for her Captain, she didn’t wanted to but she had to do it for him and her, and their family.

Why to punish him ? Her heart won't allow that. He who always has been her pillar of strength, she can't see him broken. Her heart aches to heal him in anyway she can. She is the one who always listens to her heart rather than her mind & her heart won't let her leave her Jindal saab in this miserable state for long. Exactly cannot never punish or hurt her Jindal Saab, she cannot bear to be away from him, because if she is heart he is her beat, heart cannot survive without the beat.

When AJ goes to pool side & recalls of the date reminded me of, the scene in Bhagban when Amitabh doesn't get the chance to use phone as his son was busy, so he goes out to PCO to call his wife as she waits for his call cause she can't sleep & then he sings on phone, I also remembered this song and its perfect for Akshan situation

Main yaha tu waha,

Zindagi hai kaha.....

Main yaha tu waha,

Zindagi hai kaha.....

Tu hi tu hai sanam dekhta hoon jaha...

Neend aati nahi, yaad jati nahi.....

Neend aati nahi, yaad jati nahi.....

Bin tere ab jiya jaye naaa......

And it seems like Guddu understood his state. She knew he will be bothered & restless for her, given the circumstances in which she left the house. So she decided to give him an idea of how far she is i.e. 42.9 km to assure him she is alright & since the watch is powered by heart beat, he knows she is ok. Thank you for explaining this scene to me, now it makes sense to me more. 🤗 So basically Guddan used the watch to give her Jindal Saab sukoon & Heart & mind a rest that she is fine because she knows he is always worried for her safety. 😳

That gave him a relief to some extent as reflected by the smile on his face. And this gave the same sort of relief to her as well as she was able to give him some of that to calm his restlessness,Very well said

But this wasn't enough, cause at this moment, more than anything, both of them just wanted to be with each other,exactly both of them are restless with each other, both are in pain because both of them promised to be with each other. both of their eyes, mind and heart get sukoon when Akshan know that their better half, Pati/Patni is safe and sound away from all harms n pain.

She has become his "aadat" & so has he for her. Both have become like oxygen for each other. The simple thought of having to stay away from each other, suffocates them. How long can one bear suffocation ?Exactly they are going to be together Sang Hoon Tere Ab Haar Hal Mein, its not their individual problem is their Together problem

Now coming to the title of the topic,

Yes according to me, Guddan is in vanvas !To straighten her Sons and Bahus out she took the avatar but its torturing her from inside because she giver of love and spreading happines even in difficult times. We have seen Guddan thinking of ways to bring light in Jindal Family when all have lost open, even it means putting her self in trouble. The Dhanteras pooja where she burned her hand with the diya. After Saru’s Chori Kand where she was trying to make Khichdi

Leaving one's actual self behind & adopting some other personality that doesn't come naturally & isn't one's real self, can be taken as similar to vanvaas. I can relate to Guddan and i agree with you because when I was with my ex-finance I wasnt me I forgot my hobbies, myself, I was angry.Cause the Lalita Pawar avtar she has taken isn't her own true self. Exactly Guddan is not a Lalita Pawar she is Manju form Chaalbaaz Naughty & Drama Queen types who has matured over time but with her better half she can still do nautaki

That isn't her soul, her soul is in vanvas. She is confining her real self in "van".Great way to explain

Doing something against one true nature that one herself doesn't support of, is not easy the least.So true and couldn’t agree more.

Just like vanvaas was filled with hardship, for someone as pure as her, as innocent as her, who can't think of hurting a cockroach, taking up a completely different personality that is completely opposite of her own & intentionally hurting people even if its for a day or two, is no less of hardship for her but very much equivalent to "vanvas". Exactly Guddan can never play and hurt with sentiments of her Family, no matter how she is treated by them, Sons & Bahus are her family because they are part of her Jindal Saab

But difference here is, her husband isn't that Ram, her husband is with her in her vanvaas. As can be seen from the precap, she is in her actual self in front her husband, her Jindal saab. Guddan is lucky to have a Jeevan Saathi like AJ same goes for AJ he is lucky to have Guddan in his life. Who never gives up and always fights him to be with him no matter what the situation is.

& the terrace is her "van" now, where she is in her real & true self.

Today when she returned, she called herself, "AJ ki patni" not "Jindal saab ki patni" cause "Jindal saab ki patni" along with her Jindal saab is in vanvas i.e. terrace pe on the pool kinara. Nice observation, also Chorni, Dayan & 2 sons forgot the wrath of the Sher, just because Sher ki Sherni is his first priority doesnt mean that Sher doesnt know how to roar, and attack. I would love to see Sher and Sherni tagging teaming and straighting out the Sos & Bahu. It will be too much fun. 😈

A free ka advice to all :-

If any of you haven't watched this movie "Bhagban", please don't watch it with your parents. 😒 Bohat comparisons sehen karne padte hai ! I agree, when my grandparents saw it the first time, my Mamu got the bbb 🤣 but we were like Nani he is your Sharvan Kumar & your Alok. 1st your parents will start looking out for similarities that you have with Aman & other 2 useless sons. Later, they will express their disappointment on how, you can never be Salman... 😔Aww hugs same pinch🤗

But yes the movie is definitely worth the watch ⭐️👍🏼We need a knleex box its such a beautiful movie with a beautiful and realistic story.

Very beautiful analysis Captain you said everything I wanted to say 🤗 when I saw this scenes and promises I was like Bhagan. So 👋 Hi-Five

I loved readying your POV and it was really beautiful ♥️ 🤗

Beautiful analysis captain Saab🤗.

I just loved akshan's scenes yesterday

And yes Baghban is indeed a very good and emotional movie😭. I have cried alot while watching that movie with my parents,but when my parents were saying dekho aulaad eddan di Hundi hai,I was like don't worry asi eddan di aulaad nahi haan 😆

Well written...

Bot understand each other very well but can't they see the truth they are not#justfriend type. They went far away from this frndshp zone....

I just hope soon they also realize their love for each other😊

Maine dekha hai bagwaan movie aur vo v parents ke saath mri tarf se v yhi advice hai kv v ye movie parents ke sath movie mat dekhna movie khatam hone ke baad aisa ghoorte hai jaise movie khatam hote hi hum ghar se unhe bahar nikal denge aur comparision ke baare me na bolo to hi accha hai😒

Coming to the topic yes guddu is indeed in vanvaas as its not easy for someone like her who is pure and innocent who cant even think of harming anyone and cant harm a cockroch is intentionally doing badtamizi se baat according to her as we know chorni and dayan deserves it bt she consider them as her frnds and she is applying sakhti wala formulae on them more than them she is hurt for torturing them like this 😒bt hame sita ka vanvaas me hona pasand hai chorni aur dayan ka bbb dekhne ko milega...😈

When guddu was leaving Aj looked miserable bt agar guddu 1 din aur baad mein aati to Aj apna gussa bahuo par nikalta vo purana wala Aj ban kr sbko mast maza chakhata bt no worries mre ye dil ke armaan guddu the strict saas ke jariye poora ho jaega😈

Ps-Pervy ko dher sari duwayein for his lambi zindagi taki aur flop "foolproof" plans bana sake. Beton ke liye dher sari lollipops ki kamna taki wo chup hi rahe ! & most important,

Lakh di lanat tere mu tay Durga Jindal !

This episode have me deep AkshAn feels! It was like Guddan was telling AJ that Hum Dur Hoke Bhi Paas Hai... ❤️ And him to not worry...

Very well analysis captain

Kal ke episode mein Jindal Sahab ko dekhkr ek hi cheez aayi mann mein,

"Tere jaane ka asar kuch aisa hua mujhpar,

Tere jaane ka asar kuch aisa hua mujhpar,

Ki tujhko dhoondte dhoondte

Maine khudko paa liya....."

Originally posted by: captainplus

Today's Akshan scenes somewhat reminded me of the movie movie "Bhagban" where Amitabh & Hema get separated by their kids for 1st time in their life after their marriage of 40 years.

Yes I have watched this movie many times...n yesterday akshan scene gave me the same vibe....

Ham door ho k BHI sath hainn...

Coming to the episode,

There is no shaq Jindal saab is a gem.

Bilkul Jindal Sahab is indeed a gem n a man who has learnt from his experience that who is right n who is wrong n he has the ability to change the wrong into right one....

I have no words to praise him.

How many men in real do what he wanted to do today ?

But unlike just any men, Guddu's husband isn't just her husband, he is a father too & has huge reputation in the society. How could she let the society question & point finger at his parvarish like, "Jindal saab ke beton ne Jindal saab ko ghar se nikaal diya !!" ?

Thodi der k liye main wahi Soch Rahi thi ki guddan b yahi sochti hogi na ki ham chahe Kuch bhi bardaasht Kar lenge ....maga hamare Jindal Sahab k maan Samman par aanch b Nahi aane denge....

Haaye guddu you stole my heart....💗

For her, Jindal saab is her crown that she wears with pride but she can't take away just the crown removing all the jewels adorned on it. She takes pride in being wife of mahan Akshat Jindal & can't hear his name or reputation being tainted.

But yes I can see very clearly that, had the son & bahus disrespected him in place of her, then she herself would have taken the authority & kicked them out without any hesitance. Just like how, Hema Malini disowns her sons in "Bhagban" for hurting her husband.

Yup sherni will gonna eat them....

Genie Yaad hai shuru k episode me vardaan be AJ Ka Dil dukhaya tha ki papa Nahi h aap to banne ki zarurat Nahi hai....I just wanted this to happen once in front of guddu....phir Dekhna genie ....baby chamgadar k cerelac wala bhatija 😏 ki aisi ki taisi.....Kar degi guddan .......charas na Bo de wo to kahna .....

And in that case, I believe, Guddu won't have let herself or her Jindal saab leave his own house.

Arre last maar k Ghar se bahar nikalenge dono unko after all they can have their own na Jo in nalayako se behtar honge kyonki unme Sher or sherni Ka DNA hogaaa...💖💖💖

About Guddu coming back in such a short time period, I would say Guddu is "selfish" .

"Selfish" for him. Selfish to be with her Jindal saab. Here are many who r saying ki Baar Baar ha k wapis kyon aati h .....Bhai uska Ghar h ye....us k pati ko koi problem Nahi h to tumko kya hai......yes she is selfish she loves him...she wants to be with him so what's wrong in this.....there is nothing wrong in being selfish in love....💕💕

Aur honi bhi chaiye !

He is everything she has craved all her life. How can she leave him for long when he looks at her like that,

Guddan ki Zindagi me pahla aisa shakhs Jose usko hone na hone se bahut farq padta hai....hone se Khushi or muskurane k vajah ...or na hone se Akela hone Ka darr....haaye Jindal Sahab aisi ankhon se na Dekho bahut Kuch Hota hai ....phir to main hi BOL deti guddu khabardaar Jo Ghar k bahar madam rakhna hai .....😡

Her dialogue says it all,

"Jaldi aa jayenge Jindal saab, aapne dost se dur hum bhi nahi reh sakte...."

I love how she keeps coming back to him as that proves, how difficult it is for her to stay far from him. Even though I knew due to spoilers that Guddu is coming back, but still I can feel AJ's pain of having to let her go...

It looked like his life is draining out of him...

I would say nothing is worth leaving him especially after the immense support he gives her. He doesn't deserve any of these.

At least I don't have the strength to watch him like this when there is zero fault of his & maybe so does Guddu. She too can't bear to leave him like that. Especially after yesterday's bedroom scene when she saw how miserable he was,

Why to punish him ? Her heart won't allow that. He who always has been her pillar of strength, she can't see him broken. Her heart aches to heal him in anyway she can. She is the one who always listens to her heart rather than her mind & her heart won't let her leave her Jindal saab in this miserable state for long.

Indeed the GIFs r the proof that they both can't live without each other for a second but gadhe Hain na ....maante hi Nahi....

But ek min ...Jindal Sahab me Kaha na ki aadat laga k door Nahi Jana Chahiye...

Haaye MATLAB genie ...ghanti Baji ....😍😍😍😍

When AJ goes to pool side & recalls the memories of their date reminded me of, the scene in Bhagban when Amitabh doesn't get the chance to use phone as his son was busy, so he goes out to PCO to call his wife as she waits for his call cause she can't sleep & then he sings on phone,

Main yaha tu wahan, Zindagi hai kaha.....

Main yaha tu wahan, Zindagi hai kaha.....

Tu hi tu hai sanam dekhta hoon jaha...

Neend aati nahi, yaad jati nahi.....

Neend aati nahi, yaad jati nahi.....

Bin tere ab jiya jaye naaa......

Main yaha tu wahan, Zindagi hai kaha.....

Then says these lines,

Waqt Jaise Thehar Gaya Hai Yehi,

Har Taraf Ek Ajab Udaasi Hai

Bekarari Kaa Aisa Aalam Hai,

Jism Tanhaa Hai Ruhh Pyaasi Hai...

And it seems like Guddu understood his state. She knew he will be bothered & restless for her, given the circumstances in which she left the house. So she decided to give him an idea of how far she is i.e. 42.9 km to assure him she is alright & since the watch is powered by heart beat, he knows she is ok.

That gave him a relief to some extent as reflected by the smile on his face. And this gave the same sort of relief to her as well as she was able to give him some of that to calm his restlessness,

But this wasn't enough, cause at this moment, more than anything, both of them just wanted to be with each other,

She has become his "aadat" & so has he for her. Both have become like oxygen for each other. The simple thought of having to stay away from each other, suffocates them. How long can one bear suffocation ?

Now coming to the title of the topic,

Yes according to me, Guddan is in vanvas !

Leaving one's actual self behind & adopting some other personality that doesn't come naturally & isn't one's real self, can be taken as similar to vanvaas. Cause the Lalita Pawar avtar she has taken isn't her own true self.

That isn't her soul, her soul is in vanvas. She is confining her real self in "van".

Doing something against one true nature that one herself doesn't support of, is not easy the least.

Just like vanvaas was filled with hardship, for someone as pure as her, as innocent as her, who can't think of hurting a cockroach, taking up a completely different personality that is completely opposite of her own & intentionally hurting people even if its for a day or two, is no less of hardship for her but very much equivalent to "vanvas".

But difference here is, her husband isn't that Ram, her husband is with her in her vanvaas. As can be seen from the precap, she is in her actual self in front her husband, her Jindal saab. U know genie I have always believed in ram because he has n idol men.....but as a husband I could not connect through him...at all....I have read a book title Wass "seeta puni boli" the writress is just awesome the way she described sita situation in all the conditions I just loved it......but right guddan said na ki ham to phir b guddan h ....ha guddan seeta ko ram mile kyon ki wo seeta thi.......

Lekin Tu Jo guddan hai na.... isiliye tujhe Jindal Sahab mile ...hamesha tere sath rahne wale tujhe samajhne wale tujhe Yaad Karne wale.....idk hame kya milenge...🤔

& the terrace is her "van" now, where she is in her real & true self.

Today when she returned, she called herself, "AJ ki patni" not "Jindal saab ki patni" cause "Jindal saab ki patni" along with her Jindal saab is in vanvas i.e. terrace pe on the pool kinara.

A free ka advice to all :-

If any of you haven't watched this movie "Bhagban", please don't watch it with your parents. 😒 Bohat comparisons sehen karne padte hai ! u will laugh at the fact that my parents didn't allow us to watch it in front of them ....they love each other so much 💖💕

1st your parents will start looking out for similarities that you have with Aman & other 3 useless sons. Later, they will express their disappointment on how, you can never be Salman... 😔

But yes the movie is definitely worth the watch ⭐️👍🏼

Love you genie it was a great analysis...

Originally posted by: Piku_S

Very beautiful analysis Captain you said everything I wanted to say 🤗 when I saw this scenes and promises I was like Bhagan. So 👋 Hi-Five

I loved readying your POV and it was really beautiful ♥️ 🤗

Hi5 ! 🖐

Pooja & Raj separating scene was a very heart wrenching one 😭

But the whole movie is so beautiful & the emotions were so real. True, tissue ki puri lekar baithna padta hai !

Yet I would prefer to watch one of Emraan Hashmi's 2005-2007 movies in front of my parents as opposed to this 🤣

I won't dare to watch this movie with my parents 🤣

About Akshan, for all the things they have gone through in their life, they don't deserve to be separated. Especially AJ who got to see light after staying over a decade in complete darkness, he doesn't deserve,his new found ray of hope, his happiness, his heartbeat to be taken away from him like this so cruelly.

But at that moment while leaving, for Guddu it was choice between him & him. For her it was choice between his buniyaad & herself. She doesn't completely know what she truly means to him but she only felt, taking him away from his buniyaad (his years of dedication he spent on sons as their father) won't do him much good. He may not be fully happy.

On the other hand, I feel, AJ might have taken up the responsibilities of sons since he was very young, which might have lead to him growing up & maturing too early & not getting to enjoy his youth on its time. So that side of his comes up when he is with Guddu & he starts behaving like her while dealing with her. So he really won't need anything else when he is with her. With her, he will be completely happy & content.