reason for abir always cracking jokes

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

actually i could connect to this somewhat because i have sometime with somebody do this

we crack jokes even in normal situation or even a serious situation because we want to be noticed there and want to put our opinion but we know that noone will take it seriously as you are having no importance and everyone consider you careless

today the way kunal dominated abir and gave him gyaan and abir just joking and laughing sorry it was not about brother bond it was more like abir feel bad when kunal does so but he dont want to take it serious and not even show others that what he actually feel so he let it look like he is jokig and funny and careless

i know kunal loves abir and vice versa but i feel more than that both brother pity each other abir feel kunal is robotic and kunal feel his brother feel abir is careless and jst argue with mother

like today kunal said he dont like poetry and get bored with his brother poetry and abir said that his brother is uptight or robot but the truth is both brother are not happy themselves try to just cover it by saying the other is less happy it is human personality that when we dont get what we want we start thinking the other person is miserable even if he has that thing which we want

like abir somewhat want the same love kunal get from his mother but he doesnt get so h etry to find cons of it to satisfy himsself likewise kunal like abir freedom but find the cons of it

so actually both brother have different personality and both thing=k the others one as inferior or painful life and inspite of all these diffrences they love each other alot

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Arshi

@-Arishi-

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

I don't think what kunal did 2day was dominating abir its his steyl , and from day one he is always like this while taking to abir.

Coming to abir

Look, sometime the pain reach to a a satge where the person either he cries and go to depression or he starts creaking joke in everything and take life as a silly journey.. and that what abir doing.. because he have tolerated a lot of pain that makes him in this way.

This is my opinion u can disagree with it

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: -Arishi-
I don't think what kunal did 2day was dominating abir its his steyl , and from day one he is always like this while taking to abir.

Coming to abir
Look, sometime the pain reach to a a satge where the person either he cries and go to depression or he starts creaking joke in everything and take life as a silly journey.. and that what abir doing.. because he have tolerated a lot of pain that makes him in this way.
This is my opinion u can disagree with it

i agree with you on abir part

i am not saying that kunal want to dominate or is dominating type

its just abir always feel no importance as all not give any care to his speech

i even used to do this with my younger brother but later when i actually read psychology(i am not a psychologist it was just a humanity subject for particular semester)and understood how my brother lost his self confidence and is hiding it so i started to not interfere much even when it was wrong and slowly he started to feel confident i even love my brother and was just overprotective toward him unaware how my love protectivemess ia actually destroying his confindence even when a small decision he took i used to interfere to make it totally correct and thus he develop a point that he cant take decision on his own or used to hide problem

i came to know how human brain work and how a small thing affect the other

and the person is even unaware that which part of his life or which person in his life is affecting in which way

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

Sparkler

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Posted: 6 years ago

I agree with gaushiv13.I felt the same and I felt relieved on seeing this post. I don't mean Kunal is dominating but I didn't like the way he conveyed his feeling asking Abir not to interfere ..he himself will tackle the issue...I felt uncomfortable. It's ok if others found me wrong..this is my feeling.

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Rope_of_Hope

@Rope_of_Hope

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
I agree with gaushiv13.I felt the same and I felt relieved on seeing this post. I don't mean Kunal is dominating but I didn't like the way he conveyed his feeling asking Abir not to interfere ..he himself will tackle the issue...I felt uncomfortable. It's ok if others found me wrong..this is my feeling.

@bold same here

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clarity

@clarity

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

Yes, Abir uses humour to deal with his problems.

Different people have different styles of coping with stress. Like Kunal tries his best to avoid conflict and do what is expected of him while Abir laughs most things off to avoid feeling the sadness.

A side-effect of that is a lot of people don't take Abir's problems seriously or don't notice when he is sad.

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