Ruhaan - Jise zindagi ki samaj hai duniyadaari se zyaada

From the time, Ruhaan became PG in Mishti's house, we can see that he is the guy "Jise Zindagi ki samaj hai duniyadari se zyaada. The way he comforted Pari when she is feeling low about disappointing Mishti on terrace is commendable. When he motivated her to be herself and to evolve in her own self, it shows that he is a self-assured man. He tries to be in peace with his own self. That is what makes him realize and understand his own failings and at the same time be empathetic towards others flaws. Ruhaan takes time and analyzes the reason behind a person's behavior before reacting to it.

People in the forum were like he has no self-respect as he stayed back after so much humiliation. I have a different take on this. Earlier Ruhaan used to give it back to Mishti as he thought her behavior sometimes wasn't appropriate. But during the flower incident on road, he could see that he affects Mishti in a certain way. The myriad of emotions that Mishti conveyed through her eyes spoke enough to Ruhaan. During his stay as PG, he saw how over-protective Mishti is for her siblings. When she lashed out at him, he was calm coz he knew he was not wrong and didn't give it back coz he knew she was in pain due to the incidents happened and frustrated over her helplessness about Ruhaan's existence and its effect on her.

Why should Ruhaan leave? To prove what? Everybody out there knows that he is not at fault and Mishti will also realise it once she is calm. His self-respect didn't get tarnished, but it was Mishti's not so perfect self that emerged out. For me, he is a man who carries himself with dignity, who follows his heart, a heart that is guided by his strong moral conscience.

Originally posted by: Nandy141

Finally ..an amazing post for the selfless soul Ruhaan.. 👏👏👏

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

Everyone calls him selfish but I want to know what did ever expect anything from anyone? he does something to someone but never expect anything on return and by the way selfish ho hota hai jho sirf kud ka soche but he is thinking about everyone can't he think about himself for little? He wants to be there for her when she was lonely and down but he didn't because he doesn't have that right. He knows where to draw the line and people calls him pervert who lust after friend's would be wife 😆 people can think only about love and lust nothing else agar pyaar nahi hai tho paaka lust hi hogya, lust wale emotion kab dekhya yeh batado it's not like he can't emote that emotion 🤣

Someone was saying that Veer is giver and he is taker but no one answer me ke what did veer actually gave to ruhaan and Ruhaan took from him? friendship tho mujhe dono taraf se nahi dekhti

I was mad with him when he choose not to leave to be honest. I was like yeh bande ke andar self respect naam ki cheez ke ki nahi? but not anymore, It's not like he don't have any but he choose others specially mishti over his selfrespect. Agar Ruhaan chala jata tho kya prove hota ke uske pass kitna self respect hai but Veer and Mishti ke relation ka kya hota? Abhi tak veer ko time chahiye but agar Ruhaan uske insult ke karan ghar chod ke chala jata tho Veer kya usko maaf kardeta? and what about mishti she is feeling already gulity and uske ghar chod ke jane ke baad she wouldn't have forgive herself. and today too he said to dadi that he didn't felt bad at first because he understand her and knew why she behave like that tho agar usko itna bura hi nahi laga tho woh ghar chod ke kyu jaye?😆

But this is the last time I am giving him benefit of doubt agle baar if he compromise with his self respect iski baad me kud bajaugi😡

I hope abhi sab thik hogya hai and he will get the respect he deserves from mishti😆 Madam bahut hogya hai aap ka bhi yeh time maaf kardiya agle baar hua na tho ruhaan ke shaat shaat aap ko bhi nahi chod ne wali 😆

Originally posted by: Mumoos

I just live ruhaan after todays episode..

Earlier I felt what an ordinary looking lead. Emotionless acting..

But he reminds me of ishaan now..