Rajma idli daily rantingz - Page 11

Thanks for your thoughts!!! Yes, YHM isn't the same atypical soap which it boasted of, the only point of congruence in our debate.

Gosh!!! Ishima and infidelity, a stark contrast and an improbable fetish which can't be conceived even in the darkest of my dreams 😲..!!! Ishita was, is and will be always AS PIOUS AS ANY WOMAN can be, no second thought, whatsoever!!!

Was Ishita's ephemeral trifle with Ashok qualify to be labelled as an act of infidelity, A BIG NO!!!. Infidelity is defined as a breach of loyalty to satiate his/her personal desires... Yes, Ishita was selfish, greedy and avaricious to rescue HER husband and his dream, the surrogate baby... She used Ashok as a means to accomplish her final goal of reaching out the implanted emissary. Neither she was after his machismo nor craved for his materialistic wealth...

And for the fact, in hindsight we could assert that Ishita feigned possession but initially, CVs wanted to establish that Ishita was capitulated by Shagun's soul. The best way to do that was a transformation, a metamorphosis from Raman's Ishita to Ashok's Shagun.. It exacted Ishita to stand in good stead with Ashok to beat him in his own game and though wasn't appropriate it involved sweet nothings and benign ministrations from the side of Ishita.. Furthermore, CVs retained the sanctity of Ishita by making her indulge only during her paranormal state, a giveaway to the audience that it was not the virtuous Ishita Raman Kumar Bhalla but the mercurial Shagun Arora...

Coming to Raman, did he support infidelity, certainly not!!! Let us take into consideration, Raman's POV.. He was flummoxed and perplexed at the sudden turn of events... On one hand, his children lost their biological mother and on the other HIS soul, elixir and WIFE, Ishita was going through the most precarious of times.. He was caught up in whirlpool of emotions, a gale-storm from the past, threatening to make a re-entry and so was the family!!!... However, did he let Ashok's Shagun to have her own way, never!!! Be it the mushroom scene or birthday party or the dinner episode, he chided her, reprimanded her dubious actions and was utterly disappointed!!! He implored Ashok to meet Ishita after believing the absurd story of Prateek for the sake of her well-being... If he did indulge in anything more, women rights would have come into play 😆 so neither Ishita nor Raman advocated any form of adultery!!!

Now was it right to assume that sobbing for your partner, who was in distress and going haywire with her imbecile acts, as a reinforcement to infidelity, again a big NO!!! It was just a vent to let out his distraught, his helplessness and his love..

All this time I was referring to the pseudo infidelity, now if you take into picture the horrific betrayal of Shagun, the highest form of infidelity even at that time Raman was shown to be in a deluge of tears, supplicating Shagun not to abandon him and a 6 month old Ruhi... Could we allege him to be a supporter of infidelity ?? He put his life at stake and tried to fulfill all the whims and fancies of her wife but Shagun being Shagun chose Ashok to gorge her affluent desires.. So it is gratuitous to question one of the partners, when the other indulge in infidelity... Infidelity is called so because one of the partner in the relationship is deceived, betrayed and breached by the other...

IshRa can be dysfunctional, chaotic and erratic but will NEVER EVER indulge in any form of adultery.. Yes, IshRa were separated multitude of times and Raman was supposed to get married to Shagun and Mihika on two different occasions but at the end of the day, It's only IshRa who were married thrice.. Furthermore, the so flaunted Tania fling was an act of vendetta by Raman. He was extremely riled up with Ishita's act and desperate to pour out his anger. In the process he took the aid of Tania, knowing Raman was and is Ishita's Achilles' heels.

The reason fans are still watching YHM is for IshRa, for the fact they are together.. Unlike in most of the Ekta' shows where the lead pair marry every Tom, Dick and Harry, YHM is an aberration where the piety of the lead pair is retained. The day Ishita and Raman are no longer IshRa, that would mark the doom of YHM and would bring down the curtains...

Until then we can accuse and allege IshRa of anything except for infidelity, nothing but a BLASPHEMY, it hurts as a fellow IshRa fan in the forum!!!! I humbly apologize for the garrulous tirade !!!