I've always admired and liked Mohona far more than Ved. I simply don't like Ved's constant crying , heaping all blames on Mo n co. , with out ever contemplating whether or not she ever did any thing wrong. IMO , Mohona is the best written character of Nazar. She's simply so badass and can call a spade a spade. Rare qualities to find in ITV , where people takes absurd amount of time to spill important raaz even to close and trusted confidantes . 😕
Quoting myself from another topic because I find it relevant to the topic of this thread , with some edit.
Small children shouldn't be exposed to such crashing truth . It could lead to life time trauma . But once they're , say 15-16 , they should have been exposed to the truth , no matter how devastating it may be for them . Who says a loving mother always takes the right decision for the good of their kids ?? So often just the opposite happens in their over protectiveness.
Parents of adopted kids often face a similar dilemma . To tell or not to tell ?? Of course the moment a child will be devastated once she/ he finds out that she's not the blood of her/his parents and the whole associated baggage of issues . But still nowadays it is always advised to reveal to them the true nature of their parentage as soon as possible , because often the psychological trauma is unsalvagable if the child finds out after reaching adulthood.
Of course here the stakes were much higher . What did Ved think ?? Ansh n Kajal will always remain unaware of the truth ?? 🥱 As it happened they found every thing out at the worst time and at the worst manner possible , giving Mo an edge to suitably modify the story as per her mission and even defend herself. One must remember that such a big truth will never remain hidden for long.
Moreover, it was utterly stupid of Ved not to confide in her family members and GM ,other than her husband who alrdy knows , about the relationship between Mo n her. Again she gave MO an edge. Log apne life difficult keu karte hai.. 🥱 They're not kids who won't understand are they ??
Together they should've reached the conclusion the best possible way to break the news to the children . It was essential to protect them . As they saying goes- tell the truth and shame the devil. As it is the kids are much more attached to Ved compared to Mo. Couldn't have been that difficult.
Ostrich technique never worked out for any one. 😆
Saying MO doesn't care about her children is a blanket comment . She deeply deeply cares for the kids as a fiercely protectively lioness cares for her cubs. It's not just about power.
All the points about Mo dragging Ansh towards darkness and evil as proof of her not caring about Ansh are totally unacceptable IMO . If any thing it reinforces the fact that Mo deeply cares for the kids. You're forgetting the basic fact - MO is a freaking Daayan ! She gives a damn about Ansh staying in the good path , or rather I say her compass of right and wrong are , understandably , vastly different from human point of view. It's like confusing a deer's POV and a tiger's POV . From her stand point , she's helping her son rising to the full potential of a daavansh , sort of freeing him from the shackles of humanity.
Yes , she mixed evil inductive drugs into his kheer , trying to forcibly bring him to the side of evil , but isn't Ved doing the same thing ???? Exactly same thing in fact ?? There's a thing called informed consent . Ansh is not staying in the path of good after being aware from an earlier point that he's a daavansh , in fact he grew up thinking himself as a human .
Ved and Mo's methods are different . Mo has nil emotional hold on Ansh , so she's starting the race from a point of disadvantage . So she's more into using powers and radical methods like DC , evil drugs etc. to make him marry Ruby.
What did Ved do ?? When she found out that Ruby is a daivik , she was hell bent on making him marry Ruby , giving two hoots to the fact that he's adamantly unwilling. Ab Daivik jan ne ke bad bada pyar aa rahi hai Pia pe lolz. 😆
Did she care that she's literally forcing him to marry the girl of her choice for his "valai" ??
Even Mo did just that ! She'd to come back to ensure Ansh's "valai" since according to her it lies in joining the side of the evil ! So she'd marry Ansh to Ruby, moreover a daavansh who's evil is more suitably paired with a daayan . So from her POV, it's all for Ansh's valai.
Nazariyan badle to nazar apne aap badal jayega 😉
I hate the Mama's boy Ansh . It is very boring and cliche. Makes him look like he doesn't have any thing else to do other than his maa jaap. I guess he'd spent all his childhood under crushing guilt that he n his sister are some how responsible for such a big sacrifice done by Ved maa. Chances are there are some old blood magic that some how compels the closest blood relative to take up the role of care giver if in any case the mother daayan dies and the infants are too small to fend for themselves. Explains nicely why Ved dotes upon both the kids of Mo when she hates her sister so much .
Ved didn't take any radical route because she didn't have to and she knew it . Emotional hold over a person is the most powerful tool ever and she had that edge ! She'll always have that.