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Posted: 7 years ago
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Absolutely not its her life and her body. If she doesnt wants a 'link' to this guy and makes an abortion Im ok with this. Also when she meets the right man who would be a good father to her child is not a reason to hate Mauli. She deserves to move on and to find happiness.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yezabel

Absolutely not its her life and her body. If she doesnt wants a 'link' to this guy and makes an abortion Im ok with this. Also when she meets the right man who would be a good father to her child is not a reason to hate Mauli. She deserves to move on and to find happiness.

thanks for your views and supporting a woman in the crisis.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: yurimehta11

You gave words to my thoughts regarding sperm donor thing. If K didn't took any hardship in upbringing in kid's life in my opinion he is just a sperm donor.

Why he would be term as father if fail to fulfill responsibility of a father. I wish here atleast they didn't go cliche way.

First option is rare but few women choose that way so I asked here.


Well, biologically Kunal will stay the father of the child as per legal and medical terms. It's a different thing that he would have not done anything to be called a father by the child. By that logic he will only be a sperm donor & Mauli by all means would have more rights on the child then Kunal ever will.
It will be on Mauli & the child himself on who the child will address as father. I mean father is not just a word, it's an emotion for a child when he/she addresses a man as their father.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I will love mauli whataver decision taking her life..hope she will stay away from kunal..because she is strong women👍🏼
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya


Well, biologically Kunal will stay the father of the child as per legal and medical terms. It's a different thing that he would have not done anything to be called a father by the child. By that logic he will only be a sperm donor & Mauli by all means would have more rights on the child then Kunal ever will.
It will be on Mauli & the child himself on who the child will address as father. I mean father is not just a word, it's an emotion for a child when he/she addresses a man as their father.

I think they'll explore this angle after leap.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I couldn't blame her in either case. It's her body that will have to carry that child, it's her who will look after that child, which will change her life. She may want to have a fresh start after this betrayal. A woman who chooses to abort her child if she thinks she's not physically/ mentally/ emotionally prepared to have that child should never in any circumstance be forced or judged into to keeping a pregnancy, because a woman having an emotional bond with her child is so important to the overall health of the child and development and also the woman's mental health in the long-run that it is pure idiocy and cruelty and the mother and future child to jeopardise the child and mother's life by forcing a woman to keep a pregnancy she isn't happy with.

People have no idea how important it is for a woman to be completely prepared willingly to have a child, otherwise it affects a woman's ability to provide for the child emotionally, which for a child is the most important part of growing up, to gain affection from their primary care giver, and the chances of this happening would increase if a woman forced to keep a pregnancy when she isn't prepared develops mental health problems as a result, as that will affect her ability to provide for the child emotionally.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya


Well, biologically Kunal will stay the father of the child as per legal and medical terms. It's a different thing that he would have not done anything to be called a father by the child. By that logic he will only be a sperm donor & Mauli by all means would have more rights on the child then Kunal ever will.
It will be on Mauli & the child himself on who the child will address as father. I mean father is not just a word, it's an emotion for a child when he/she addresses a man as their father.


If Kunal rejects the child, then I totally agree on the above. That he will have no right and it will be on Mauli whom she introduces as father and who the child considers as a father.

Also if Mauli decides to have an abortion, even then I would not like it but would understand her if she does not want any link with Kunal (I do know of cases where the mother gives birth to the child and hands it over to the father breaking all links with the baby as she wants no relationship with the father or the baby)

If Mauli keeps the child's existence as a secret, I will not hate her but I will not like it either. This child is not hers, its theirs which was conceived before he had feelings for Nandini. So if she decides to keep it a secret then she is basically stealing Kunal's right as a father and making him a sperm donar. Mauli is making that decision on Kunal behalf and IMO she does not have that right in regards to the child.

Lets says, in future if another person is introduce to the child as a father but then the child finds out that she was kept as a secret from her biological father, then there is a chance that the child might not like it or even hate the mother. She might still consider the person as her father but most of times children go in search of their real father just to understand why they were not accepted. It would not bode well on Mauli if the child finds out that Kunal never knew of her existence.




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