Do men get bored of their wives after 40

Noticed a pattern with people especially in the entertainment industry. Decades long marriages suddenly collapsing followed by the (we are friends, we will always love each other, it was a tough decision) drama. A few months later the husbands are seen courting eye candies half their age. Don't see wives doing that except Mallaika Khan. Anyway I wanna know do men get bored of the marriages and it is what leads to divorce so that they can have fun. I'd like to know more views on this!

Latest addition Arjun Rampal with his gf



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Not sure its right to generalize anyone or anything! But he did use to make big claims about how he was madly in love with Mehr.

Everyone gets bored. Men tend to express it & women don't. A lot of the times women forget about themselves & focus on kids. Men go find another one. I am glad to see Malaika dating Arjun.

Besides, young love when it matures sometimes don't work. When you are young, you don't really know yourself well. As you age you sometimes realize that your old rel doesn't fit with you anymore. Doesn't happen to everyone. But can happen to people.

I think it's a case of people getting married too soon and for the wrong reasons. Most couple meet their significant other in early 20s, and often I see that they grow apart. OR, when they meet, they fall in love for the wrong reasons. Most men (more so than women) "fall in love" based on beauty. Which is highly stupid considering it's transient. Everyone ages and beauty fades. For women that is less important and they tend to find a man's other traits (such as job security, financial security, personality, looks) attractive which are more stable over time. I think that's the reason behind the idea that men cheat more than women, or men fall out of love more often than women.

Originally posted by: desigal90

I think it's a case of people getting married too soon and for the wrong reasons. Most couple meet their significant other in early 20s, and often I see that they grow apart. OR, when they meet, they fall in love for the wrong reasons. Most men (more so than women) "fall in love" based on beauty. Which is highly stupid considering it's transient. Everyone ages and beauty fades. For women that is less important and they tend to find a man's other traits (such as job security, financial security, personality, looks) attractive which are more stable over time. I think that's the reason behind the idea that men cheat more than women, or men fall out of love more often than women.

I've noticed that the men that marry in later age usually tend to last longer. Often times, you'll see men ending up with successful second marriages.

Men are known to be cheats. I was told by a friend that a man who claims to never having an affair is lying. They can easily be attracted and they only need a chance to cheat no matter what's their age. People believe that a way to a man's heart is through his stomach and I laugh so much at such myths. It's not that women don't get bored or don't cheat but it's often the case that when they cheat, it's because they are emotionally attached to the person and not mainly for money but in any case, cheating is cheating but men do it more often than women. However, the main issue I have here is that society's view towards a man or husband who cheats is that he is a man, a playboy or Casanova while a woman or wife who does it is a *****.

Originally posted by: tara901

insecure men cheat. real men are honest and will divorce if necessary.

It is more of a cultural acceptance for men to cheat vs a woman imo

I think people grow apart

I liked how shaadi ke side effects movie addressed this issue...There is definitely a gap between the partners...everyone takes a different approach to address this...

Originally posted by: tara901

insecure men cheat. real men are honest and will divorce if necessary.

It is more of a cultural acceptance for men to cheat vs a woman imo

I think people grow apart