My thoughts on today's episode: SO MANY FEELS

tereliyex thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 7 years ago
#1
So after a while, I truly can say today was a fulfilling episode. 😃 I'm glad I took some advice from my friends in the AdiYa AT and watched it (I'm a viewer abroad so my views don't count for TRPs anyways). Anyways, the point is everyone knows I don't do these analyses posts because y'all that do are far better at analyzing than me. (I dropped my literature classes for a reason peeps!😆)
But today's epi gave me so many feels and I thought why not share with you all since all my real life friends are tired of my BP ramblings.



The episode starts with Sakshi-Anjana-Zoya melodrama, I couldn't be less concerned, but Parineeta is looking psychotically gorgeous in that saree. (Anyone else think this woman is too hot to be playing a mom role? I think I have a crush on her😆)

Then my babies giving each other silent gestures when the Bhangra dancers come in 😳 it was so cute, in that moment they looked like a couple challenging each other to a dance off 😆

Hoodas Gone Wild...I mean Hoodas Gone K3G🥳:
and...Papa Hooda on Shava Shava? Talking about KILLIN' IT. The man has moves.

Again my AdiYa are looking so cute especially when Aditya dances to the rabba mainu ki ho gaya I was like as much as I find smitten Adi behaving immature at times, I do think his love for Zo is so pure and sweet. I don't know why but that dancing scene changed my whole perspective on Adi's love😳
ArNoor were looking great too, Mashallah😃 The Hooda family (and future bahus) were groovy

Battle of the (ex) Samdhans:
🥱 is all I feel about them.
Also why couldn't Sakshi have just created a drama in the Hooda party? Anjana couldn't have harmed her there😕 Her dumbness is just letting Anjana take advantage of her
One thing has become clear though: Papa Hooda is unaware of psycho Anjana's antics, meaning Anjana has a bigger role in PooSh's murder mystery than him😕

Noor and her hormones:
This girl really couldn't even wait till Sean left, na? She wanted her kiss abhi issi vaqt😆 Did anyone catch Shehzad's smirk? What a cutie patootie😳

THE NOODLE SCENE:

I gotta admit as much I can't stand Arshad he is one smoothhh charmer, so concerned for Zo and what not. I mean if Adi wasn't in the picture, I know I would fall for him in Zoya's place. But Adi is in the picture so tata bye bye lambu.

Arjun was all of the fandom today when he said "it's day 1 and they're already eating noodles together? Sheeettt we underestimated the dude" 😆

Seriously, is babygirl Zo blind? I'm all about the girl not having to reciprocate love and all that. BUT NO "BEST FRIEND" GETS MAD OVER YOU SHARING NOODLES WITH A POTENTIAL BAE. If Adi was your best friend and didn't harbor feelings for you, he would be teasing you about it. Not getting jealous. 🤔 In some sense this makes me feel like Zoya hasn't changed from her previous relationship with Yash, she's still oblivious to feelings. Not to bash her or anything, just saying.
The girl legit followed him to his room to patao him😆 Aditya is such a big baby🤣

Okay so this is where I feel a bit iffy about Zoya and Adi's conversation😔:
Adi says "you're going to bid him goodbye in a two weeks why eat noodles with him now? You're giving him the wrong signal" and Zoya is afraid Arshad will hear them.

I really think Aditya has a valid point here. 😕 Put aside the fact that I dislike Arshad, Zoya is still kind of playing with his feelings by giving him false hope and even if we look past that, these small things like eating out of the same plate and all that are either romantic or reserved for family/close friends. I know Zoya is naive but for how long can her naivety be an excuse for her to lead Arshad on?😕

Then Aditya says "You're not going to change your mind in two weeks, right?"

I wish Aditya had rephrased that and asked "do you have feelings for him or are you genuinely dating him for these two weeks?" when he said that "right?" it almost felt like he was forcing her to console him and say she wasn't going to say yes to the rishta. Aditya was speaking as if if Zoya was entitled to say no to Arshad. Again not taking Zoya's emotions into consideration.

Zoya then says "I told everyone clearly I don't want to marry."

GIRL WHAT? 😲Is that why you're leading on Arshad for two weeks? Is that why you're giving him two weeks to patao you

Zoya tells Adi they can go eat noodles together after the distribution or whatever, Aditya get his consolation prize I guess

The gift:
There's been so many posts about this but all I know is if my guy best friend gave me a gift like that, I would think more of it. Especially if he said "this is us"

(Also Aditya is so filmy man, that's the most stereotypical gift for lovers since Om Shanti Om's Main Agar Kahoon scene when SRK gives Deepika the snow globe😆)

All I'm waiting for is for Zoya to show up at Hooda house on Raksha Bandhan with aarti ki thali and rakhis. 🤣 The boy is so deep in the friendzone

Overall Thoughts:
Golmaal hai bhai, sab golmaal hai




Edited by -Ishana- - 7 years ago

Created

Last reply

Replies

14

Views

1.4k

Users

12

Likes

65

Frequent Posters

Life_Is_Dutiful thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#2
Parineeta is gorgeous and is a good dancer too.😃 She danced so well today. I feel so bad for her that she has to play mother role. I wish she was given the role of Mahi instead, no offence to Vaishnavi. They should have cast an actress who is almost of Rajesh Khatter age for the mother's role.

Anyways, Sakshi-Anjana fight was funny. I agree Sakshi must be weak but still I found it so funny seeing Anjana fighting with Sakshi and defeating her. 😆 i

The dance was awesome. Among the guys, Harshad proved to be the best dancer and among the ladies, Anjana, Zoya and Noor danced so well. The bhangra part was fantastic. I loved how AdiYa were dancing together.

Nowadays I find Arshad's behavior quite fishy, the way he is trying manipulate and impress Zoya. Sometimes I wonder if the spoilers of Arshad marrying Zoya for ZoSh are true or not because how can somebody fall in love in mere 2 days. It looks like he has some hidden motive or he just wants to satisfy his ego by making Zoya accept his proposal because he heard her reject him.

Did anyone notice that the bathroom where Sakshi was hidden was Adi's bathroom? 😆 If Sakshi has so much will power then how come she didn't try to save herself in those 6 months? How come she didn't try to flee? After all, she was in the basement of the Hooda mansion. It's really hard to believe that a woman is in a basement for 6 months and neither Harsh nor Arjun had any idea.

I liked Zoya pacifying Aditya but I didn't like certain dialogues of these 2. Yes, Adi was right in telling Zoya she is giving Arshad wrong signals but still he is not giving Zoya freedom to take her own decision regarding Arshad.

If Zoya is really not interested in marrying Arshad, she shouldn't have invited Arshad to the party in the first place. The way she is sweet with Arshad, any guy will try to patao her. It seems like somewhere Zoya is confused. She doesn't want to marry him but at the same time feels he is a good guy so he may keep her happy after marriage. Right now, she is just confused.

The gift scene was the best one. I wonder if Yash gifted her anything. Those kind of gifts are normally used by couples. She is really strange and still has difficulty understanding people.

It was truly the best episode after the drunk Zoya episode.
LittleBeasty thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: -Ishana-

So after a while, I truly can say today was a fulfilling episode. 😃 I'm glad I took some advice from my friends in the AdiYa AT and watched it (I'm a viewer abroad so my views don't count for TRPs anyways). Anyways, the point is everyone knows I don't do these analyses posts because y'all that do are far better at analyzing than me. (I dropped my literature classes for a reason peeps!😆)

But today's epi gave me so many feels and I thought why not share with you all since all my real life friends are tired of my BP ramblings.



The episode starts with Sakshi-Anjana-Zoya melodrama, I couldn't be less concerned, but Parineeta is looking psychotically gorgeous in that saree. (Anyone else think this woman is too hot to be playing a mom role? I think I have a crush on her😆)
Parineeta is looking like an absolute vamp to me !! Her whole get up was so vamp-ish in this party😳...yes...i agree the lady does not look like mom of adi frm any angle😆

Then my babies giving each other silent gestures when the Bhangra dancers come in 😳 it was so cute, in that moment they looked like a couple challenging each other to a dance off 😆
During bangra dance AdiYa was really adorable...totally feeling like couple goals
Hoodas Gone Wild...I mean Hoodas Gone K3G🥳:
and...Papa Hooda on Shava Shava? Talking about KILLIN' IT. The man has moves.
i dnt knw but did not like papa hooda's moves much🤣

Again my AdiYa are looking so cute especially when Aditya dances to the rabba mainu ki ho gaya I was like as much as I find smitten Adi behaving immature at times, I do think his love for Zo is so pure and sweet. I don't know why but that dancing scene changed my whole perspective on Adi's love😳
omg..My poor lil heart ..My Adiya looking so beautiful during the dance ❤️..the way Adi dancing n looking at zoya Arre...why did u feel like his love for zoya is not pure sweet?
ArNoor were looking great too, Mashallah😃 The Hooda family (and future bahus) were groovy
Yo !! Love ArNoor too 🥳...they r really sweet couple!!

Battle of the (ex) Samdhans:
🥱 is all I feel about them.
Also why couldn't Sakshi have just created a drama in the Hooda party? Anjana couldn't have harmed her there😕 Her dumbness is just letting Anjana take advantage of her
Exactly ..i also failed to understand sakshi 😕so many pple were there ..what was going on her mind? The lady cud have easily exposed sakshi right there but No...the drama was needed of course!!
One thing has become clear though: Papa Hooda is unaware of psycho Anjana's antics, meaning Anjana has a bigger role in PooSh's murder mystery than him😕
Anjana is truly a Psychopath...the way in the room she was giving look to sakshi nd saying main bhi tume kabse dundh rahi hu😳the lady can go to extent !! Probably Adi's lack of love towards her make her like this?I m highly confused about anjana ..i m also thinking now she has something to do with poosh murder ..🤔

Noor and her hormones:
This girl really couldn't even wait till Sean left, na? She wanted her kiss abhi issi vaqt😆 Did anyone catch Shehzad's smirk? What a cutie patootie😳
Noor is really cute !! She wanted the kiss right away so she had to remind of it to Arjun..Oh God ...bechara bhule bhale Arjun did not even get her ishara🤣...I did not notice shehzad's smirk🤔

THE NOODLE SCENE:

I gotta admit as much I can't stand Arshad he is one smoothhh charmer, so concerned for Zo and what not. I mean if Adi wasn't in the picture, I know I would fall for him in Zoya's place. But Adi is in the picture so tata bye bye lambu.
My love for Adi does not let me see the goodness in Arshad😳 Banda decent Hai..but trying to make an good impression to zoya..i feel like in that way😆


Arjun was all of the fandom today when he said "it's day 1 and they're already eating noodles together? Sheeettt we underestimated the dude" 😆
so true ...Arjun was saying on behalf of all the fandom🤣

Seriously, is babygirl Zo blind? I'm all about the girl not having to reciprocate love and all that. BUT NO "BEST FRIEND" GETS MAD OVER YOU SHARING NOODLES WITH A POTENTIAL BAE. If Adi was your best friend and didn't harbor feelings for you, he would be teasing you about it. Not getting jealous. 🤔 In some sense this makes me feel like Zoya hasn't changed from her previous relationship with Yash, she's still oblivious to feelings. Not to bash her or anything, just saying.
The girl legit followed him to his room to patao him😆 Aditya is such a big baby🤣
yes...zoya has changed so much ..she has got confidence ,she has her own identity now for herself..but still she has the innocence there ...she doesn't even understand his best friend feeling ...she cud see her BFF is pereshaan ...wud never find out what is the reason...the way Adi saying this was our thing ...she cud not even get Adi at all!!! Actually...i think zoya has never had any friend ..so she doesn't realize the fact that Adi was putting in front of her🤔...she is oblivious to see his feelings becoz she is too much into friendship now !!

Okay so this is where I feel a bit iffy about Zoya and Adi's conversation😔:
Adi says "you're going to bid him goodbye in a two weeks why eat noodles with him now? You're giving him the wrong signal" and Zoya is afraid Arshad will hear them.

I really think Aditya has a valid point here. 😕 Put aside the fact that I dislike Arshad, Zoya is still kind of playing with his feelings by giving him false hope and even if we look past that, these small things like eating out of the same plate and all that are either romantic or reserved for family/close friends. I know Zoya is naive but for how long can her naivety be an excuse for her to lead Arshad on?😕
well ..I'm also agreed with Adi too!! She shud not have done something which will create prblm later ...i dnt get her here !! She was the one who used to stop Adi n mahi to come close ...becoz she knew Mahi is falling for Adi !! But how come she is doing the kinda same thing with Arshad too?😕i hope she knows what she is doing?...bhuk lagi thi toh kha liya ak plate se ?? Girl ...u cud have ordered another plate for Arshad too😆

Then Aditya says "You're not going to change your mind in two weeks, right?"

I wish Aditya had rephrased that and asked "do you have feelings for him or are you genuinely dating him for these two weeks?" when he said that "right?" it almost felt like he was forcing her to console him and say she wasn't going to say yes to the rishta. Aditya was speaking as if if Zoya was entitled to say no to Arshad. Again not taking Zoya's emotions into consideration.

Zoya then says "I told everyone clearly I don't want to marry."

GIRL WHAT? 😲Is that why you're leading on Arshad for two weeks? Is that why you're giving him two weeks to patao you

Zoya tells Adi they can go eat noodles together after the distribution or whatever, Aditya get his consolation prize I guess
Pata nahi..i think zoya also wants to make Arshad her friend too🤣 otherwise ...i dnt see any valuable reason for her doing such things 🤣...probably ..she will say Arshad ...i can't marry but we can be friends 🤣 ...Leave it
Awww...big baby Adi jst became happy to hear their dinner date🥳...we all knw that's not happening!! 😆

The gift:
There's been so many posts about this but all I know is if my guy best friend gave me a gift like that, I would think more of it. Especially if he said "this is us"

(Also Aditya is so filmy man, that's the most stereotypical gift for lovers since Om Shanti Om's Main Agar Kahoon scene when SRK gives Deepika the snow globe😆)

All I'm waiting for is for Zoya to show up at Hooda house on Raksha Bandhan with aarti ki thali and rakhis. 🤣 The boy is so deep in the friendzone
The gift was clearly saying I LOVE YOU...And also Adi saying to her Ak main aur ak tum ..dono mile iss Tara ...But here also zoya is too innocent to notice /realize anything 😆...yaar...dnt say such thing like raksha bandhan 🤣 dil duktha hai

Overall Thoughts:
Golmaal hai bhai, sab golmaal hai
yes...its a chakravyu ...will take a lil time to unfold😛🤣




My answers are in bold !!
Replying using my phone ..so ignore if u fail to understand anything 😆
I love reading the Analysis...it was funny!!🥳
Tris007 thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#4
I am glad you watched the episode! It was worth wasn't it?! 🥳😆
I love Parineeta in that dress too! She looks really good and that saree is so pretty! Anjana has opened her really-beautiful-sarees collection from few days!
First that photoshoot one, then the one she gave Zoya, now the party one 😆
You've probably already seen me talking about the dance sequence everywhere but here's I am again. Ahhh!!! IT WAS SO FREAKING BRILLIANT!
I don't remember the last time I went crazy over a dance sequence that much. I think Teri Meri was the last one 🤣 After that? Nope. Cause I would've remembered if I did.
Anyway, I loved those eye gestures the couples shot each other too! I loved the Siddiqui sisters' maahiya ve aaja mahi~
ArNoor and AdiYa's seperate parts made so much sense too! Adi's few lines, Noor's few! <3
Dekha tenu pehli pehli waar is so so Kajol-SRK! MY HEART! ❤️
Given the song is one of my all time favorites. I was VERY excited! 🥳
so many hidden meanings behind this sequence!
Arshad danced in stranger's party like that... well shitt he doesn't give a damn.
Sakshi lost her only chance! Poor woman. When she thought Adi will come out of the bathroom, but Anjana. GOD! ANJANA 🤣
See ArNoor feels like Hrithik and Kareena from K3G... supporting cast that was way too cool to be one
I don't wanna talk about the noodle scene. It wasn't good... at all. Except Arjun's commentary on it 😆
And the AdiYA conversation... I don't approve. Even I think both Adi and Zoya were there. Zoya get to do whateer she likes, but then she says she doesn't want to get married?? I was confused by her behavior as hell here. Maybe Adi confused her by kinda forcing his I-know-you-don't-wanna-get-married talks on her. It's just confusing.
The gift...oh god Zoya will never understand 🤣
No thoughts on promo for tomorrow's episode? 😆
Arshad was telling Zoya that there's no noise and blah blah. Farzi hospital ka doctor! MILA HUA HAI!
I'll believe whatever the hell I want to 🤣
Anjana said Sakshi theekane lagana padega... suna promo aaya. Sakshi ka murder hoga or something... O.O
Edit: Removed that gif. Don't think its appropriate here 🤣
Edited by -FlyAway- - 7 years ago
Doc.love thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#5
I loveddd your analysis! Why did you say that others are better at analyzing when you have done a brilliant job yourself!⭐️
I switched off my tv after I heard Zoya's dumb reply on Adi's "Noodles being our thing!" 🤔 (I also live abroad, so I have no contribution in the trps anyway.)
I just read written updates later...and frankly, even they could not lure me into getting back and watch the episode again!😕 It must be good...as many people have said...but Zoya's naivete is getting on my nerves big time!😵 I mean, dude! YOU ARE NOT A KID...YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE...YOU HAVE WATCHED ENOUGH BOLLYWOOD FILMS... YOU KNEW ABOUT ADI'S FLIRTATION TACTICS IN THE MAHI TRACK...and yet!!!! Here you are...completely oblivious to everything sooo frikkin glaringly obvious!!!!! 😕😕😲 Are you high on drugs or plain insane? Whats wronggg with you?😕😕
She didnt have a friend before... she didnt have an intense lover before...thats why she is mixing the two things...
Yea yea yea... i myself have been giving out these reasonings to her actions in this forum...😕 But bro, shes out of my mind reach now! 🥱
Sharing noodles with an acquaintance...who is persuing you for marriage...and you are not interested as per your own words...yet you are leading him on! W*F!!!😲
Adi ke sath bhi she was like that... giving alll the signals to him...and when the poor soul fell in love like a dumbo, she FRIENDZONES him to an extent ke koi asli friend bhi ho tou usko bhi aik damm se thoda sad feel ho ke yaar itni gandi terha friendzone hua hun! Matlab totally! 😲
With Adi, I was like, she has deep rooted feelings for him...Subconsciously ker rahy hai sab kuch. I was happy ke subconsciously hi sahi, she WAS giving the RIGHT SIGNALS and the RIGHT VIBES to him...
But she would start doing that with Arshad also... THAT i didnt know! 😲😕
I dont care for her 'consolation prize' to Adi afterwards, as you said. I dont even care whether they eat noodles again or not...because unless Zoya learns how to keep relations with guys and when NOT to mix a mere acquaintance with a friend, a friend with your best friend, your best friend with your lover...until then, whatever she does with Aditya is all meaningless for me now!
I dont blame Adi much... He is trying his level best but man! He seems to have fallen for a daft girl! 😕 Nashay ker rahy hai yeh ladki DOSTI ke bhayee, Nashay!
Aur sirf isi sab frustration ki wajeh se I could not bring myself to continue watching the episode. I feel 'betrayed' by Zoya...and she was one person I had so much hopes from! 😭
Edited by Doc.love - 7 years ago
aditi_jain thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: Doc.love

I loveddd your analysis! Why did you say that others are better at analyzing when you have done a brilliant job yourself!⭐️

I switched off my tv after I heard Zoya's dumb reply on Adi's "Noodles being our thing!" 🤔 (I also live abroad, so I have no contribution in the trps anyway.)
I just read written updates later...and frankly, even they could not lure me into getting back and watch the episode again!😕 It must be good...as many people have said...but Zoya's naivete is getting on my nerves big time!😵 I mean, dude! YOU ARE NOT A KID...YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE...YOU HAVE WATCHED ENOUGH BOLLYWOOD FILMS... YOU KNEW ABOUT ADI'S FLIRTATION TACTICS IN THE MAHI TRACK...and yet!!!! Here you are...completely oblivious to everything sooo frikkin glaringly obvious!!!!! 😕😕😲 Are you high on drugs or plain insane? Whats wronggg with you?😕😕
She didnt have a friend before... she didnt have an intense lover before...thats why she is mixing the two things...
Yea yea yea... i myself have been giving out these reasonings to her actions in this forum...😕 But bro, shes out of my mind reach now! 🥱
Sharing noodles with an acquaintance...who is persuing you for marriage...and you are not interested as per your own words...yet you are leading him on! W*F!!!😲
Adi ke sath bhi she was like that... giving alll the signals to him...and when the poor soul fell in love like a dumbo, she FRIENDZONES him to an extent ke koi asli friend bhi ho tou usko bhi aik damm se thoda sad feel ho ke yaar itni gandi terha friendzone hua hun! Matlab totally! 😲
With Adi, I was like, she has deep rooted feelings for him...Subconsciously ker rahy hai sab kuch. I was happy ke subconsciously hi sahi, she WAS giving the RIGHT SIGNALS and the RIGHT VIBES to him...
But she would start doing that with Arshad also... THAT i didnt know! 😲😕
I dont care for her 'consolation prize' to Adi afterwards, as you said. I dont even care whether they eat noodles again or not...because unless Zoya learns how to keep relations with guys and when NOT to mix a mere acquaintance with a friend, a friend with your best friend, your best friend with your lover...until then, whatever she does with Aditya is all meaningless for me now!
I dont blame Adi much... He is trying his level best but man! He seems to have fallen for a daft girl! 😕 Nashay ker rahy hai yeh ladki DOSTI ke bhayee, Nashay!
Aur sirf isi sab frustration ki wajeh se I could not bring myself to continue watching the episode. I feel 'betrayed' by Zoya...and she was one person I had so much hopes from! 😭

Same feeling
I love you has been written on snow globe but again she thought this gift was only for friendship gesture. How could she be so dumb yr. She is getting on my nerves nowadays and her all time bestfriend jaap...i am now starting to hate this bestfriend word.
I dont think any girl can be this dumb that she could not understand any signal which aditya was continuously trting to give.
Happy_hippy thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: Doc.love

I loveddd your analysis! Why did you say that others are better at analyzing when you have done a brilliant job yourself!⭐️

I switched off my tv after I heard Zoya's dumb reply on Adi's "Noodles being our thing!" 🤔 (I also live abroad, so I have no contribution in the trps anyway.)
I just read written updates later...and frankly, even they could not lure me into getting back and watch the episode again!😕 It must be good...as many people have said...but Zoya's naivete is getting on my nerves big time!😵 I mean, dude! YOU ARE NOT A KID...YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE...YOU HAVE WATCHED ENOUGH BOLLYWOOD FILMS... YOU KNEW ABOUT ADI'S FLIRTATION TACTICS IN THE MAHI TRACK...and yet!!!! Here you are...completely oblivious to everything sooo frikkin glaringly obvious!!!!! 😕😕😲 Are you high on drugs or plain insane? Whats wronggg with you?😕😕
She didnt have a friend before... she didnt have an intense lover before...thats why she is mixing the two things...
Yea yea yea... i myself have been giving out these reasonings to her actions in this forum...😕 But bro, shes out of my mind reach now! 🥱
Sharing noodles with an acquaintance...who is persuing you for marriage...and you are not interested as per your own words...yet you are leading him on! W*F!!!😲
Adi ke sath bhi she was like that... giving alll the signals to him...and when the poor soul fell in love like a dumbo, she FRIENDZONES him to an extent ke koi asli friend bhi ho tou usko bhi aik damm se thoda sad feel ho ke yaar itni gandi terha friendzone hua hun! Matlab totally! 😲
With Adi, I was like, she has deep rooted feelings for him...Subconsciously ker rahy hai sab kuch. I was happy ke subconsciously hi sahi, she WAS giving the RIGHT SIGNALS and the RIGHT VIBES to him...
But she would start doing that with Arshad also... THAT i didnt know! 😲😕
I dont care for her 'consolation prize' to Adi afterwards, as you said. I dont even care whether they eat noodles again or not...because unless Zoya learns how to keep relations with guys and when NOT to mix a mere acquaintance with a friend, a friend with your best friend, your best friend with your lover...until then, whatever she does with Aditya is all meaningless for me now!
I dont blame Adi much... He is trying his level best but man! He seems to have fallen for a daft girl! 😕 Nashay ker rahy hai yeh ladki DOSTI ke bhayee, Nashay!
Aur sirf isi sab frustration ki wajeh se I could not bring myself to continue watching the episode. I feel 'betrayed' by Zoya...and she was one person I had so much hopes from! 😭

Seriously ? She didn't give any signals to Aditya.. She has been pretty clear he is a friend.. She never has led him on! !
But yes what she is doing to Arshad is not right.. I don't know what's the problem in friendzoning someone.. Deep down she is in love with Aditya but she hasn't realized them. So what? Just because Aditya realised doesnt mean she has to .and lets say she understands he loves her what is she supposed to do next ?for me ,the only thing that is bothering about her character is her behaviour with Arshad ,if she is not ready why is she giving him false hopes .thats all..she is not entitled to love Adi back or even understand his expressions or anything .
deeps07 thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 7 years ago
#8
Hi ishu..and I agree with ur post...loved the episode..it was such an entertainment package yesterday...but what u said abt adi and zoya conversation..agree with u on that...actually i had made a post on how reasonable joth aditya and zoya were on the current situation..and yesterdays noodles confrontqtion scene made me wonder what really is happening.....
1.aditya saying this is our thing..
I understand his jealousy regarding she sharing her noodles with arshad..but why did.he have to say this is our thing..like.a taboo..like she can never eat noodles with anyone else?..😕..when he talked abt pooja he was childish regarding relationship..it was more abt friendship for him tht time..but now he is supposed to.be really in love..binding our loved ones on things as basic as food is.plain childishness according to me..ok dnt hate me..i knw many will disagree..maybe thts how boyfriends are..i dnt knw..but i wouldnt like it even if my hubby says its our thing to.me if i ate noodles with someone else..ok sharing the plate was really unwanted.i would really justify his jealousy..but not tht our thing dialogue..guys..dnt misunderstand me..i am not saying when two people fall in love its not like they dnt have their thing..they surely will have..but it would be more private and special things which is not usually done with others in regualr life..if aditya had said that for some other things like..zoya going with arshad late night for icecream date..ok tht doesnt happen frequently with others..this noodles scene was just random..he could have fought with her for sharing the same plate..but why say its our thing..ok thts frm adityas side..

2.Now coming to zoya..as u said...yeh naive hein yaa stupid..she could see his jealousy..still no doubt?..no thinking?..why was she not surprised by his jealousy?..ok maybe bestfriends dnt share their things..😆..fine..i will go with beapannah logic then...its their thing..and zoya accepts tht too..but thn aditya clearly asked her why was she leading on arshad giving all this wrong signals when she was.planning to reject him anyways..or was she going to change her mind...perfect question by aditya..and i was expecting her to.say she wasnt leading on..she was just being genuine to arshad..she meant it when she said she is not interested in marrg and she meant it when she decided to give him 2 weeks time to convince her..but No...zoya said she is not.planning to marry arshad..then whyyy zoya..why did u bloody invite him to the party in the first place...baaki sab baad mein..he shouldnt have been in hoodas at all if he has no particular role in her life....that was so disappointing to.me..i kept justifying zoyas character is not butchered..but this scene made me question myself..i would rather forget this conversation ever happened..🤪
And the gift scene was awesome..still she didnt give it a thought before friendzoning him yet again..😆..well nothing seems easy for aditya...i read in one of the replies that zoya is just friendzoning anything and everything that surrounds her...🤣.i can see that too..arshad...u r not gonnu be spared too...cant wait when she says to arshad that aap humari sabse achein dosth hein adi ke baad.....the girl has no clue what real love is..what she exprienced with yash was a mirage of love..he created a beautiful bubble in the name of love which was never true or real...but what aditya is showing her is the truth..he is not engulfing her in fake reality...and she has misunderstood that to be friendship...hooefully she will see the difference soon..i still have high hopes regarding that 😆

Doc.love thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#9
^^ @ Happy_hippy...
Hii...
I probably was too bumped out that i didnt make myself clear. I NEVER said or implied that Zoya is supposed to reciprocate Adi's feelings. She has her free will, like anyone else. She can choose her partners or she can choose not to have any partners at all... so thats totally cool with me. I dont have a problem with that.
When i said that she gave out signals to Adi, I dont understand why it was such a shock for you to read?
Starting from her award ceremony speech, she announced in front of the entire world how much Adi means to her. She considers him as a friend, as a mentor...as a rescuer..and she regards him for that... But the 'tadap' with which she said it all, Waseem didnt miss it...audience didnt miss it...and Adi also didnt miss it!
Then she is to go all the way to Jail as if shes a Jail-Pro...all for Adi! Okay! That was also for friendship sake...although i still feel it showed her deeper feelings for him... but anyway...
So after these two ocurrences, Adi learns that he is extremely important to her. Okay..he feels good,surprised... but if you have had any guy friend in your life, you would understand how guys quickly jump to conclusions and catch vibes from girls.
So Adi, being a guy, found her over zealous attention on him a little...say...unexpected... but definitely pleasant.
Moving on, Ice cream date, Fighting with him for planning to leave for Paris like a coward, Remembering him only in her supposed last breaths during the stuck in the car scenario, mentioning how she was thinking about him in those supposed last moments to Adi, Feeding noodles, Going crazy on seeing his wounds...etc etc... All these seemingly very innocent acts from her side shouted loud and clear how much she actually cares for him. Its no wonder if Adi also thinks that she feels more for him than a mere friendship.
I am not blaming Zoya for that. From her side, she was doing all this sweetly and innocently...but being a grown up, already experienced in love and marriage kind of mature woman, I cant believe that she does not know that all her actions might give someone a signal that 'I am probably interested!'
Why is it so hard to understand? And then repeating almost similar things with Arshad...😕 Dont you find it crazy?
Friendzoning someone is not wrong if you truly mean it. But then giving out mixed hopes to potential suitors is definitely dangerous and weird!
From such a sensible woman whose sense of right and wrong was amazing, I didnt expect this from her.
Happy_hippy thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: Doc.love

^^ @ Happy_hippy...

Hii...
I probably was too bumped out that i didnt make myself clear. I NEVER said or implied that Zoya is supposed to reciprocate Adi's feelings. She has her free will, like anyone else. She can choose her partners or she can choose not to have any partners at all... so thats totally cool with me. I dont have a problem with that.
When i said that she gave out signals to Adi, I dont understand why it was such a shock for you to read?
Starting from her award ceremony speech, she announced in front of the entire world how much Adi means to her. She considers him as a friend, as a mentor...as a rescuer..and she regards him for that... But the 'tadap' with which she said it all, Waseem didnt miss it...audience didnt miss it...and Adi also didnt miss it!
Then she is to go all the way to Jail as if shes a Jail-Pro...all for Adi! Okay! That was also for friendship sake...although i still feel it showed her deeper feelings for him... but anyway...
So after these two ocurrences, Adi learns that he is extremely important to her. Okay..he feels good,surprised... but if you have had any guy friend in your life, you would understand how guys quickly jump to conclusions and catch vibes from girls.
So Adi, being a guy, found her over zealous attention on him a little...say...unexpected... but definitely pleasant.
Moving on, Ice cream date, Fighting with him for planning to leave for Paris like a coward, Remembering him only in her supposed last breaths during the stuck in the car scenario, mentioning how she was thinking about him in those supposed last moments to Adi, Feeding noodles, Going crazy on seeing his wounds...etc etc... All these seemingly very innocent acts from her side shouted loud and clear how much she actually cares for him. Its no wonder if Adi also thinks that she feels more for him than a mere friendship.
I am not blaming Zoya for that. From her side, she was doing all this sweetly and innocently...but being a grown up, already experienced in love and marriage kind of mature woman, I cant believe that she does not know that all her actions might give someone a signal that 'I am probably interested!'
Why is it so hard to understand? And then repeating almost similar things with Arshad...😕 Dont you find it crazy?
Friendzoning someone is not wrong if you truly mean it. But then giving out mixed hopes to potential suitors is definitely dangerous and weird!
From such a sensible woman whose sense of right and wrong was amazing, I didnt expect this from her.


I have had mostly guy friends as I am from a mechanical egg background and trust me I get it how difficult it is to maintain a friendship n yet not send wrong signals. .ya Zoya was all too enthusiastic with Adi after he came back but for me I think adi has always harbored these feelings for Zoya pre leap too .it's just that they have come out all strong and he has realised them now.. So I would exactly not give Zoya 'S chirpy nature due credit here coz Adi has always been attracted to her even when she wasn't friendly with him .Agreed, her behaviour kind of accelerated this process of falling in love for him.. For that I don't blame either of them.. Also I dont think she is behaving the same with Arshad ,it's not like she fed him noodles or vice versa. Now what is wrong here is ,acknowledging Arshad ' S feelings. He comes with you holding a plate of your fav noodles, so like saying ,see I am trying to impress you ,if you take a bite you are acknowledging my efforts towards you! Which is so wrong as she is not interested in him. She is the one who went on a harangue during the mahi proposal fiasco.. She is doing the same thing now.. Which is so not Zoya..
P. S : And yes about her not being intuitive it bothers me not because she is not able to understand Adi only because a successful woman entrepreneur cannot ,cannot be so delusional . She has to have the ability to read through people and plan her next move.. If she is doing the best friend Jaap just to avoid her feelings then I am sorry i don't get it how on earth did she become successful?

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".