What great efforts did Pooja did 4 her marriage - Page 2

neither put in effort in their marriage...adi was self-obsessed...pooja's expectations leads her to cheat...if only both put an effort in their marriage...all these would not have happened...even yash woud not have entered in pooja's life...

why put adi in pedestal...he was equally wrong...just putting the blame on pooja is unfair...EMA has no justification...its wrong...but at the same one needs to think what has totally went wrong in the marriage that even a communication with ur spouse is toxic...thats where EMA starts...in Adija relationship even a communication would not have work becos adi is self-obsessed...for an example pooja ask adi to follow her to poetry club but he refuses..she did communicate n he refused...than during the party he ruined the entire atmosphere...pooja stop adi but he didn't listen as his anger was way too much...she tried to talk to him again but adi being so stubborn did not listen to her...whenever pooja tries to communicate with adi...he refused in one way or other...so why pooja is only blamed...even adi is at fault...their marriage even a communication had become a toxic...pooja just gave up on him...even now if pooja was alive...he woud not have changed...adi is immature n self-obsessed...its good that someone show him the mirror so that in future he doesn't do the same mistake...he was a kid who refused to grow up

Originally posted by: reddyr

Thank you girl. I was just reading your comment on another post and I am so glad there are people like you on this forum. Restores my faith in womanhood

I never said adi is a perfect husband , did i plz highlight that part but , but adi is way better than pooja who never pretended something which he was not.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I never said adi is a perfect husband , did i plz highlight that part but , but adi is way better than pooja who never pretended something which he was not.

Why sympathy with pooja why we dont sympathize with yash

Your original question was what efforts was pooja making that people are understanding her and coming out in her support. People have answered that with valid points which you have conveniently ignored.
I understand your opinion is different but lets be sensible about expressing that opinion.
Ans since you asked, yash was shown to be a gold digger, knee's deep in debt, eager to have an affair with a married woman, yet there were many who had questionioned how he fell in love with zoya. She was dumb, ddnt know anything, spent money like crazy, low IQ etc etc . All valid points . So people did support yash too but since his POV is missing and shrouded in mystery its easy for people to sympathize with pooja.

Originally posted by: ramisaaAli

Ladies I am with you too

I don't know why the entire blame is put on Pooja...after everything she did it seems like she didn't do anything for him and even though she was suffocating she should have tried to be happy and deal with it. None of them was perfect but the entire blame has been put on pooja