Bepannah, my thoughts What doesn't kill you,makes you stronger - Page 2

Originally posted by: Prriyam

helooo Priyam😃 good to see you

your title for the post, Hammie 👏

😛 my mum used to say this to me when I didn't get my way and sulked... with time.. I grew up

I liked how you compared the strength and fraility of the two - it had been a constant oscillation!

its their imperfections that become perfect for them

I particularly liked a sentence - 'life carries on' - and yes, it should go on; and allowed to go on. Holding onto the past is going to ruin the present and will impact the future. How one lets it go is what is interesting to see. While Zoya wants to let it go with a clean slate, what Adi prefers doing is lock it forever and loose the key!

mind you what both went through.. is hard to let go off... they will try what works best for them..

I am yet to understand the Arjun-Sakshi dynamics; and the sudden change of Wasim - interesting view when you raise the question on if he is doing it to show as being a good father to Zoya, who needs to see 'goodness' around her, after all that she has gone through.

Sakshi says she will reveal all before the Hooda family.. suspense..! as if we don't know enough... every thing about EMA plus baby is out in the open.. me hoping she doesn't gun Adi... as he pushed Pooja to have an affair... give him a guilt trip... like the diary did to Zoya

As always, loved reading your take on things. and in a very neutral way! 👏

thanks very much mate... do try..

PS: I have been irregular on IF couple of days - and when I do that, I miss on posts. Do you by any chance have a post where you keep the links for the daily ones? just checking - to make things easier for me. 😳

you said it Priyam... one is under prep... may be I should post it... only issue is they are not numbered... but follow a sequence from start to the current one...
will post by the end of this week... and post a link at the end of each successive episode... please watch this space... thanks so much for a lovely comment... much love hammire

Originally posted by: geetkumar

Hey Hammie!!
helooo Geet... missed you on my thoughts
Perfect Title mate! What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.
Puja and Yash, initially were shown to be the mature one's and Adiya were the immature ones.
Now look at them!! This clearly shows who were actually immature.
Even after 5 years of marriage Yash never understood his wife. He tried to keep her wrapped up in cotton wool and hence never recognised her inner strength.
Puja lived in a dream world and could never see Aditya's love for her.
Both Yash and Puja failed to see their partners.
totally agree... to this I add they were two selfish immature humans who only saw to their own interests... they could never see beyond their noses... never thought about after effects on their spouses families
All I can see now is a strong Zoya and a devoted Aditya. A man even in his anger never forgets his concern for his friend. He is so, so spitting mad at Zoya right now as well as hurt, but he is still worried for her. Yes he is fighting her but wants her to regain her common sense. If this is not love then what is?..I am wary of calling it love as yet.. after all love gave both Adi and Zoya.. much grief . but yes it is a sincere concern about each others well being..
Zoya is equally hurt, but she doesn't want to hurt her friend. She thinks for the welfare of Aditya, this time she strongly defends him and does not wish to betray him. If this is not a strong friendship then what is? it is a sincere friendship where one is willing to give up one's own resolves, to show loyalty

Puja wished for passionate love and Yash for friendship. But my question is did they even try?

Geet... they wanted bloody variety! a change from monotony... if you ask me both were not the marrying kind,,, it was a bind for them both looked for an outlet! poet's society gave them it!

Aditya and zoya can fight as much as they want, even rip each other with their words, but the fact remains that they are pillars for each other. Ek dusre ki taaqut. They are like mirrors to each other.
Showing each other the stark truth. They do not hide anything unlike Poosh.
Zoya might be wrong in her quest, Aditya might be right in his stance(I tend to agree with Shruthi more here),but it doesn't matter to me anymore. I see both of them growing and evolving in their character. Both of them will learn from their mistakes. If not, I am sure one will teach the other. 😉
👏 bravo well said! both incomplete without the other both grief in their own way... shows how they took the sanctity of marriage seriously

Apart from what I liked, what got confusing and annoying were the inconsistency in the characterisation of Zoya (especially few dialogues like calling Poosh relationship as paak, pressurizing Dr. Innayat for Puja's medical report) She is the one who is advocating for the truth. Now she is ready to use unfair means to vindicate Yash's name. She was not ready to Malign Mahi's name in order to save herself. But now she has no qualms to smear dirt on Pooja's name ?

yes this is where Zoya lost the plot... she forgot Pooja was a hooda... corrupt but nonetheless Harsh Hoodas. Dil ... ahhh yes and Adi's dead wife...

Now she doesn't think of a woman's reputation? I know Yash and Pooja were wrong. And Yash being blamed of Puja's murder is equally wrong. But trying to justify EMA, is something which I cannot digest. most of us couldn't accept it..

And also Dr. Inaayat giving the reports to Zoya felt so wrong. As a doctor you are bound by oath, that you cannot break the confidentiality of your patient. Then how come she gave the reports to Zoya, who was no way related to Pooja?
its crossed my mind, that its an example of situations where people in responsible and high positions are oblige friends and associates with favours, due to the weight of relationships.. thanks for your engaging comment Geet... with all its inconsistencies and irregularities we still love bepannah's Adi and Zoya... much love hammie
Love Geet
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