Ha ya Na

The "Ha Ya Na" moments from today's episode really resided with me. Aditya asking the woman he loved and cared for "ha ya na" did you or did you not know about PooSh's affair, and her responding with a hesitant yes. That was so impactful! You could quite literally Adi's entire world fall around him once again, and Harshad acted out that scene so brilliantly! The hurt, the look of betrayal, the sorrow, the guilt, everything was there. But what really resonated with me was when Arjun asked his brother to hear Sakshi's side of the story at least once. Adi couldn't and wouldn't bear through following through that request because I believe that he isn't capable to do so. Adi has been toyed with and betrayed so much that now, he doesn't require an explanation as to why what happened had come to pass. Yes or no. That's all he needs to know. Now, this scene would've been amazing on its own, but the writers went a step further to create the same situation with Zoya. Noor wasn't truthful with her sister, and now Zoya, who is just as broken as Adi (if not more so, because she left her entire world for Yash), can't bear to handle any acts of betrayal herself. Noor lying to her was enough for Zoya to ask 'ha ya na?", and like Adi, Zoya too did not require any further explanation. To both Zo and Adi, betrayal is betrayal - no matter what the reason. Another thing I found interesting between these two scenes is how Zoya and Adi reacted after they were made aware of the betrayal caused to them. Adi used a more verbal approach when dealing with his grief , while Zoya was more physical about it. I might be reading into it, but I feel this symbolizes their different stages of grief. Adi - who has had much more time to process what happened with him faces the situation head-on, but a few days ago, we would've seen the same Adi getting drunk and lashing out more physically. Zoya, however, hasn't had as much time to process her pain, and is therefore lashing out, and subsequently slapping Noor.

Well then, that was a brief look into how I have tendency to over-analyze things. But, on a serious note, Sakshi had absolutely no right to tell Adi that there must've been a fault in their marriage which is why Pooja cheated. Sure, their marriage could've had some faults, but as Adi said (in the most heartbreaking way possible), if she had found someone new, she should've ended things with Adi before going forward with a new relationship. Anyways, that was my two cents. Thanks for reading my rant :)

But I guess Zoya was more physical because she was dealing with her little sister while Adi was dealing with her mother inlaw.And Adi got love and support from her own mother which prevented him from going into destruction mode...

I agree with the getting support from his mom, but when I say physical, I mean that I expected to see Adi getting up and trashing at least one of his mom's precious Roman vases because of frustration. The fact that he didn't to me means that he is slowly learning how to cope with his grief...