Is such a behaviour towards Naina from Sameer justified?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sameer i agree is living in a zone which is created due to Dadi's words and have left a deep impact on him
But whatever it is...does any such reason justify what he is doing with her these days

She blindly loves him and she is doing everything possible for making him talk to her so that she knows whats the matter😳
He is doing everything for her security...like really...this is the way to protect her?
If he is manhoos...then why is he with Mundit...Mama Mami and family...is this manhoosiyat only for Naina now😕

I dont know why but im finding him actually enjoying her insult sometimes...the way he smiled when she was called bhindi... and how is all this going to help her...can anyone explain this to me😕
Is he not giving her so much pain and torture everyday ...im sorry but i seriously want all this to end soon now😳

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: barbydoll09

I can't decode Sameer much as I am girl. But coming to naina coming to comments about naina's looks r horrible. This is d second time naina loosing her self. First time during Romeo Juliet play also she was loosing her self.I agree she trusts Sameer n is taking such steps but does she has any idea about getting shamed continusly in college ??.

Leaving her own daughter chacha chachi wanted to get her joined in top college.Is she really seeing their efforts?
No doubt She trusts Sameer alot but jiski boyfriend ki behaviour uski mood swings se badlte hai. It is really tough n Naina is busy only in decoding Sameer's life leaving her own life.
It's really sad to see girls getting shammed themselves in d name of love 😭


I too feel Sam has a long way to go before he can even understand what love is all about😳
He had such an amzing character growth after the bet revelation and Delhi track has led to everything go in vain and he is now not even at the same level as he was wen he entered PVKM
She should leave him alone for some time to deal with his manhoosiyat and otherwise if he doesnt come back to her...she should lead a respectable life😊

I remember a dialogue from Ishq Vishq..."agar tumhara pyar jaana chahe to use jaane do...agar wo laut ke aaye to wo tumhara hai..."
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc


I too feel Sam has a long way to go before he can even understand what love is all about😳
He had such an amzing character growth after the bet revelation and Delhi track has led to everything go in vain and he is now not even at the same level as he was wen he entered PVKM
She should leave him alone for some time to deal with his manhoosiyat and otherwise if he doesnt come back to her...she should lead a respectable life😊

I remember a dialogue from Ishq Vishq..."agar tumhara pyar jaana chahe to use jaane do...agar wo laut ke aaye to wo tumhara hai..."


Please ch vk the new spoiler Sam is gone all mad searching Naina here ND there ..actually gang plan ND it's succeful Sam back to himself he said sorry to Naina ND wink ND all I think they hugged to but they didn't show it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sameer love naina and just want to protect her
He is not wrong ,the way he is handling the situation is not justified and same goes with naina
Instead of confronting him ,she trying to behave which actually she is not in real
And I think both needs to talk instead of Sameer running away and she running behind
Sameer too gone through same so many times during bet revelation when he is got and blamed and humilated so many times by her family .
I know that Sameer was in fault and Naina is still not aware about his decision but just as they are in their teenager state but slowly will get to learn everything and not to be repeated same in future .

Sameer had nanu support which made him straight during bet time but after after Delhi track all went wrong and needs emotional support for to coming out and only Naina could do and this is actually going to happen ,as he will burst on her and she finally get broke down and then Sameer will runs behind her as to fear of loosing her forever .
All going to well on upcoming episodes .
Edited by soniadutta - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sameer love naina and just want to protect her
He is not wrong ,the way he is handling the situation is not justified and same goes with naina
Instead of confronting him ,she trying to behave lije whichactually she is not in real
And I think both needs to talk instead of Sameer running away and she running behind
Sameer too gone through same so many times during bet revelation when he is got and blamed and humilated so many times by her family .
I know that Sameer was in fault and Naina is still not aware about his decision but just as they are in their teenager state but slowly will get to learn everything and not to be repeated same in future .

Sameer had nanu support which made him straight during bet time but after after Delhi track all went wrong and needs emotional support for to coming out and only Naina could do and this is actually going to happen ,as he will burst on him and she finally get broke and then Sameer will runs behind her as to fear of loosing her forever .
All going to well on upcoming episodes .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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He is giving her pain n torture...bt as of now it is all covered under d big problem which he feels he might cause her!!!

M nt justifying his deeds...bt that is d reality of life!!!
Being a practical person I knw...u cn go to any extent to protect ur loved ones from big problem...u always gv then these small pains...n u hurt urself more than that person!!!

Sameer soon will realise things...when situation will go out of hand...as it happened yesterday at the end!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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c the thing was very clear..

all Naina asked was to talk with her regarding whatever problems he was facing and reason for not meeting with her even after coming to ahemdabad..

ab itna to aapki GF puchegi na.. concern hai, care hai.. pyaar bhi hai.. she deserves to know this..

but instead of tackling it maturely.. u chose to keep away.. bcoz u think even getting closer to her might bring ill omen to her and put her life in danger... and his fear got substantiated with near-miss auto accident...so his resolve to stay away from her got stronger .. and whatever she tried didn't make him budge.. and he knew talking to her wont make her go away.. she wud never agree to his decision.. itna to vo bhi samjhta hai..

it was an acceptable emotional logic till college track happened..

ab college mein saath mein ho gaye hai .. and he knows he cannot avoid her there by any chance..

agar vo uske ghar pe aa sakti hai.. thn she can cross any limits to talk to him in college..

so sensible thing kya banta hai..? To avoid her and ignore her emotions completely but still talk to other girls normally, smiling, feeling happy abt the attention he is getting, seeing her jealous, knowing very well that she wud feel extremely jealous and hurt about this...

so by hurting her, he is planning to safeguard her?? Ye kya logic hai.. isme koi sense nahi hai..

it just shows his emotional immaturity to understand her love and Naina both..

the girl waited for 1 1/2 long years, even came to Delhi against all odds, yearning for him day and night..

and he didn't even had courtesy to inform her abt his decision upfront or guts to break her heart in one go instead of keeping her hanging in middle and torturing both her and us viewers with this manhoosiyat... 😆

If he had stepped in her shoes, he cud've understood her situation.. bt abhi utni emotional maturity aayi nahi hai..

they r anyways together so his manhoosiyat logic is falling flat on its face.. but he is unable to c it..

add to it the jealousy tadka that he is showering on poor girl..

if u want to b so rude, show some guts ya uske efforts and pyaar ko acknowledge or respect kar ke break up hi kar lo once and for all..

and let her b free..

this will also give him time to think about his situation as well..

but nahi.. he has to go with this complicated twisted logic way jiska na sir banta hai na pair..

like the mawali track.. this track too doesn't make sense at all from Sameer's POV..

that track too didn't help his character grow.. this too isn't helping either..

abhi to lag raha hai.. pehle accha lover ban jaaye phir Sameer Jaiprakash Maheshwari banana..

all those mushy things one does in love doesn't impress me much, I want solid emotional conflict in protagonist to make me root strongly for their love.. 😳

the first half of this love story had so much more depth even though they were teens, immature and were in school.. with lot of restrictions around their romance.. 😳


plus I hate such kind of devdas pana.. that one brings upon oneself due to one's own doing and in this process u make others suffer with u bcoz of ur bad decision.. I stop feeling sympathy for such ppl after some time.. sahi steps lene nahi aur isi manhoosiyat mein jeena hai.. aur sab ko torture karna hai.. to phir akele bhugto or problem ka solution lao.. dusro ko torture mat karo..

Pyaar apni jagah hai.. aur sensibility apni jagah.. apni mental health ke saath saath jo aapse pyaar karte hai unki mental health kyun kharab kar rahe hoo...
Edited by violette - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Pyar me log koi bhi hadd paar kar jate hai. Naina toh bas usi ka example set kar rahi hai 😆
Isse Sikh Leni chaiye apna self respect gawa ke kisi se itna pyar bhi mat karo.
It's sad. But Sameer hadn't taken her side from 2 times and she was saying vo uski insult bardash nhi kar sakta.
Kya hoga iss ladki ka
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: soniadutta

Sameer love naina and just want to protect her

He is not wrong ,the way he is handling the situation is not justified and same goes with naina
Instead of confronting him ,she trying to behave which actually she is not in real
And I think both needs to talk instead of Sameer running away and she running behind
Sameer too gone through same so many times during bet revelation when he is got and blamed and humilated so many times by her family .
I know that Sameer was in fault and Naina is still not aware about his decision but just as they are in their teenager state but slowly will get to learn everything and not to be repeated same in future .

Sameer had nanu support which made him straight during bet time but after after Delhi track all went wrong and needs emotional support for to coming out and only Naina could do and this is actually going to happen ,as he will burst on her and she finally get broke down and then Sameer will runs behind her as to fear of loosing her forever .
All going to well on upcoming episodes .



Naina did try to confront him.. wahi bhaag raha hai.. ab baat hi nahi karega to confront kahan se karegi..

Naina's stance was always straightforward.. baat karo.. ek baar baat kar le.. pata to chale problem kya hai.. she has conveyed this many times.. thts y even Mundit stressed on Sameer to talk to her at least once..

but bande ka logic bada hi twisted hai..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: violette



Naina did try to confront him.. wahi bhaag raha hai.. ab baat hi nahi karega to confront kahan se karegi..

Naina's stance was always straightforward.. baat karo.. ek baar baat kar le.. pata to chale problem kya hai.. she has conveyed this many times.. thts y even Mundit stressed on Sameer to talk to her at least once..

but bande ka logic bada hi twisted hai..

But she really knows about why he is hiding everything from her and understanding his pain ?
What actulally happened ?He told everything to Mundit but seems she didnt know the actual reason behind it .

I just want proper confrontation rather running behind him and it's seems going to happen soon
I m not saying Sameer is right but they both needs emotional talk once to solve their all problems.

Edited by soniadutta - 7 years ago

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