Which mom does that-zeenat 17.5.18

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Seriously no mom can do that to Thier child Ur seeing Ur child suffering but till u want be on Ur zid of roza .mom who really luvs her kid can never do that and Kabir seriously is keeping the fast more important than saving the life .I feel Kabir can't become a good dad at times I pity Zara to whom did she get married to. Share Ur views

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Some people do. I've seen my colleague's 3 year old daughter , yes 3 year, being forced to fast by her MIL once a week.No one had any say, the whole damn family fasted on that day.

Here Zeenat is using her son to get the power & influence in the family that her husband is not able to give her, because Shebaz loves his Mavluvi son.

It's not Kabir but Zeenat at fault. When faith is involved people push the boundaries & as a family mullah he's in a tricky situation,

I want to watch tomorrow's epi, before condemning Kabir.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is the only track in this serial thus far which is making no sense to me. Fasting is one of the five pillars of Islam and I have seen muslims of many different levels (from orthodox to liberal), different communities (from people considering instant triple talaq part of Islam to people who believe it's bidaat) and nowhere have I either seen someone faint due to keeping a fast (not even a kid) nor have I seen anyone in the family force anyone else to continue a fast if that person is feeling unwell. In muslim family children usually want to voluntarily fast once they are three or four years old as they see their parents fasting and it is the parents who discourage them from doing so. However, from around six/seven years of age, parents try to help their children slowly get habituated into fasting by starting a casual game like two fasts in a day' where the child is woken up before sunrise for food and water and then given food next during lunch and then iftar with family.This way a child learns to stay without food for 7/8 hrs and slowly it's stretched to the total hours of the fast. It is not common for a child to fall sick as a result of fasting: I have never seen such a case till date. But yes, parents do discourage children from running around or doing things which require physical strength.

Again, not just with child, even with an adult, if a person falls sick he can always break his fast as Allah has given permission to make this up. The person may fast sometime later for every day of the fast he misses during the month of ramadan. I have yet to see a family where family members force someone to fast and/or to continue their fast if they are unwell. So this track is looking like an exaggerated and self-created conflict to me which in reality is not really a point of conflict at all.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This track was clearly needed to completely turn Zeenat against Zara.
Zeenat has the perfect excuse to make Zara's life miserable and plot against her.

Maybe Ruksar will leave the house as I can't think of any reason why she would stay back so Zeenat will be the permanent vamp.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: athai

This is the only track in this serial thus far which is making no sense to me. Fasting is one of the five pillars of Islam and I have seen muslims of many different levels (from orthodox to liberal), different communities (from people considering instant triple talaq part of Islam to people who believe it's bidaat) and nowhere have I either seen someone faint due to keeping a fast (not even a kid) nor have I seen anyone in the family force anyone else to continue a fast if that person is feeling unwell. In muslim family children usually want to voluntarily fast once they are three or four years old as they see their parents fasting and it is the parents who discourage them from doing so. However, from around six/seven years of age, parents try to help their children slowly get habituated into fasting by starting a casual game like two fasts in a day' where the child is woken up before sunrise for food and water and then given food next during lunch and then iftar with family.This way a child learns to stay without food for 7/8 hrs and slowly it's stretched to the total hours of the fast. It is not common for a child to fall sick as a result of fasting: I have never seen such a case till date. But yes, parents do discourage children from running around or doing things which require physical strength.

Again, not just with child, even with an adult, if a person falls sick he can always break his fast as Allah has given permission to make this up. The person may fast sometime later for every day of the fast he misses during the month of ramadan. I have yet to see a family where family members force someone to fast and/or to continue their fast if they are unwell. So this track is looking like an exaggerated and self-created conflict to me which in reality is not really a point of conflict at all.


Its not an exaggeration..what you said is practiced by most Muslims..

But I have seen a mother who makes his 4 year boy fast and when we said why? She simply said he doesnot eat anything so she make him fast.🤢

Instead of making him eat, she make him to observe fast.
Its a must needed track in ramazan.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm 25 and fortunate enough to still have home cooked meals by mom, we are a liberal family who have never fasted for religious purposes till date. Even at this age I'm not allowed to totally skip a single meal, so I can't think about parents forcefully making such a small child fast, totally ridiculous.

Scientifically, fastings are inculcated for every religion during a certain time of year to gain self-control over our palates and taste buds, also to set right our distorted health. Hence, I don't think fasting is needed for kids which might in reverse have adverse effect on being thirsty and hugry for long periods.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Really which quran kabir reads...I am really baffled by his behaviour...islam is a forgiving religion so I don't understand him...men are not suppose to treat their wives the way he treats zara...he is not very educated in his thinking...I seriously want zara to give him back it my duty line...it should hurt him so bad...and I really want her to be a great leader and example to women..that u can have both...religion and career..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well aman is a child and Allah has forgiven a chid from any sin or keeping fast..very disapointed with kabir a big time... where does it say in islam that child has to keep roza and when a child life is in danger he is saying its the child's qurbani...😳 we saw why zaanat wants her child to keep the roza because she wants her son like kabir but this kabir is way too much...is precap the doctor said you have to take decision whether he break the fast or keep the fast..kabir is in dilemma WTH.
This is plain torture to a child not just zaanat but kabir some how also wanted to keep aman's fast...and in islam forcing someone or make a child to do something forcefully is not allowed.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kabeer needs to go back to maulvi school, honestly I'm enraged at the fact he said don't waste amaans qurbaani.
Kabeer r u actually debating between life and death??? Like seriously? Wth is wrong with you?

Zeenat stupid women, would she rather have her child in a critical condition literally fighting for his life or for her to get the sawab of his fast and get some importance.
Never seen such a selfish women! 😡

When I was that age I used to beg my mum to let me fast, I used to emotionally blackmail her lol😆😆 and then fight with her (yes I was a very naughty kid) and not talk to her for a whole day.

And she never let me. I used to find it so unfair. But now after seeing this I've realised the whatever she did she did it for me and my own health.

Now i feel so bad for pestering her lol😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: aqua.m7

Kabeer needs to go back to maulvi school, honestly I'm enraged at the fact he said don't waste amaans qurbaani.

Kabeer r u actually debating between life and death??? Like seriously? Wth is wrong with you?

Zeenat stupid women, would she rather have her child in a critical condition literally fighting for his life or for her to get the sawab of his fast and get some importance.
Never seen such a selfish women! 😡

When I was that age I used to beg my mum to let me fast, I used to emotionally blackmail her lol😆😆 and then fight with her (yes I was a very naughty kid) and not talk to her for a whole day.

And she never let me. I used to find it so unfair. But now after seeing this I've realised the whatever she did she did it for me and my own health.

Now i feel so bad for pestering her lol😆


Your mom acted how a mother should react. Zeenat has crossed her limits. She is so blinded by her own motives that she is risking her child's life.

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