Originally posted by: Sheerinbanu
Well Said !!! But this kind of Situations are There in every religion but Islam is Misconstrued. I wish the series clears out. Islam is not for Polygamy. Obviously Rules and Laws are Made for good reasons but Still Crooked people find loop holes and manipulations for their own selfish reasons. Such people are there every where irrespective of the caste, creed, religion, country etc.,
thats why in previous post it is not religion or anything that make us but we make ourselves with our thoughts religion or anything is just a excuse
like dharmendra is a hindu who done this using other religion
so first point he was hindu and just wanted to marry and thus used the principle of other religion to do that
and i feel polygamy and urdah system should be removed lawfully because its my own real life experiece that how when this polygamy was banned in indian law how the women benefitted from it
and its not like muslim are just torturing the women as still in india the last census tell us that 1.1 percent hindu practised polygamy and muslim 2.7 percent so there was no much difference(sorry i dont rember exact data)
but if it is removed from law then women are given right to question like i will talk about dharmendra case that when he was hindu he was not able to do second marriage as his wife was not permitting and giving him divorce but suddenly when he converted to muslim her wife lost that right and if islam really give right then why she lost it
and i just want to ask one question from all those who says that people do this and misinterpret it then its duty of religion to mould in such a way that it should not be misinterpreted wether it be muslim or hindu or any other
and i have more problem with hindu only as its my own and i know everything about it but have only known muslim with my parent or friend or neighboursi feel they can show how kabir cant use law to justify his actions as one side he is telling that he follow islam and other hand scolding his wife infront of some unknown just because his ego get hurt
so i dont feel abir is some succha muslman more i feel kabil is just orthodox and old school thoughts but zara modern and this is the fact that in early days people were more chauvnist or women weaker but the modern knows right and wrong they can be wrong sometime also but they are always sensitive if they are nice person from heart like here zara and kabir both are nice but kabir ortodox values make him chauvnit but zara modrn value make her the middle one
Edited by adni143 - 7 years ago