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sun29

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1181

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

Erica even confirmed that the clothing restrictions were not for the show. How much more obvious can you be. If she did it on her own, Shaheer should have at least had the maturity to stop her. But he was not even in India half the time so where will he notice and what will he stop 😆

oh yes he was hardly here to say or do anything 😆.

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Enlightened21

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1182

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

Can you blame them though? If I were a neutral observer or someone who just happened to check through their pictures, that's exactly what I will conclude too. That they forced Erica to cover up and she is finally free to be herself. I don't know what went wrong between them. Shaheer probably deserves the bashing for whatever it is that he did but even the families are getting dragged into it and maligned in the process. I don't think Shaheer even listens to his family let alone force his girlfriend to cover up to satisfy them 😆 If he really cared he would have got married by now and wouldn't have dated Ayu or even Erica (different religion and all) in the first place. Would have probably settled for some conservative Muslim girl of his family's choice. And I refuse to believe Erica is silly enough to get pressurised and completely change herself for an undeserving family. She probably did it on her own for some reason (love makes you do crazy stuff 😆) or it could be something completely different. Yet that's exactly how it looks like. I can only imagine how some vicious fans are going to go with this theory and use it to bash them further 🥱

From her words itself, where she said whether it be her YT videos or jewelry line, she wants to do it all by herself. Which means, she has some sort of perfection syndrome. So, my guess is that, after that Dec 2016 bashing happened where all her modelling days pics were sent to his family, I think Eri herself had put on a notion that to be the perfect bahu of Sheikh family, she has to dress like that. And that continued till she had a retrospection during her US visit. From then onwards, she had decided to go with her don't care attitude of what other's thought of her. What made her retrospect at that time, is unknown. It can be Shah deleting that beach pic which resulted in his fans calling her an attention-seeker that resulted in it. Or can be anything else.

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sun29

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1183

girls move to new thread please...

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MichiganGal

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1184

Originally posted by: kar08

I don't intend to malign any family, if that's what you are suggesting. I only wondered, going by the pics of his conservatively dressed family, if they would be ok with Erica's skin show and new way of dressing. That I think is a perfectly legitimate doubt to have.

They might have had any number of issues that couldn't be worked out. And religion is a touchy and difficult subject in an inter-religious relationship. It can't be denied.

Kar it wasn't directly at you at all :) I have seen a lot of posts on twitter and IG over the course of the year blaming Shaheer's mom and family for Erica's dressing style. I was only referring to that. Your post was definitely not maligning anyone :)

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purplegrapes

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1185

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

Erica even confirmed that the clothing restrictions were not for the show. How much more obvious can you be. If she did it on her own, Shaheer should have at least had the maturity to stop her. But he was not even in India half the time so where will he notice and what will he stop 😆

@bold you said.

Looks like everything was fine initially and ok till the show was on(he had to come for the show)

After that the problem started.His long stay riuned things.Dont tell me long distance relationship works.It works only when both are busy or married.Here it wasnt like that.she was at home and he had work like M & G.

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Leviosa

@Leviosa

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1186

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

Erica even confirmed that the clothing restrictions were not for the show. How much more obvious can you be. If she did it on her own, Shaheer should have at least had the maturity to stop her. But he was not even in India half the time so where will he notice and what will he stop 😆

Tbh, Erica's pretty bull-headed as well. She did demonstrate on various occasions how she doesn't heed to anyone's suggestions or advice. And in a way, most guys are put off by nun-like dressing. If he was willing to go out with her and be quite into her even in drab clothes, it spoke volumes to me about how deep their bond was. But she does over-do everything and that has pretty much nothing to do with anybody else apart from herself.

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randommusings

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1187

That pic is too bold n sexy to be ignored. She was trying to make a point not just to everyone but first to herself. Without even asking, she said in Raj IV she doesn't drink...when we had seen old pics of her drinking.

She changed herself too much..dressing, following wat he likes, adjusting to his travel plans both personally and professionally n was more concerned abt wat people talk abt him rather than d bashing she used to receive. I dnt think Sha wud hav ever asked her to change...she wud have done it on her own subconsciously. I guess thats why so much pondering after KRPKAB ended n she realised she is kind of left alone. She might be annoyed at herself for changing so fast when other person did not make any adjustments to his schedules for her. Even signed new show with BD who never gave her due credit. Now she wants to be her own self..no adjustments..if things dnt fall in place then better its over now itself.

Sha might have been floored to see such unconditional love for him. Wat he might not have noticed is that she is changing n gradually she herself wud start retaliating against d change. her reaction was something he wudnt have expected. Dnt think he wud cheat on her...he is not that kinds. Moreover, he has hardly got time for anyone n hasnt stayed long in one place.

Watever d reasoning behind it...she did change herself n it was bothering her too much N she wasnt too happy it. And now trying to her old self at jetspeed. If she wasnt happy with herself, then its better to make a fresh start.

P.S. Mere speculation...maybe just preparing fans for next role...modern n sexy look.

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Leviosa

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Posted: 7 years ago

#1188

Originally posted by: randommusings
That pic is too bold n sexy to be ignored. She was trying to make a point not just to everyone but first to herself. Without even asking, she said in Raj IV she doesn't drink...when we had seen old pics of her drinking.
She changed herself too much..dressing, following wat he likes, adjusting to his travel plans both personally and professionally n was more concerned abt wat people talk abt him rather than d bashing she used to receive. I dnt think Sha wud hav ever asked her to change...she wud have done it on her own subconsciously. I guess thats why so much pondering after KRPKAB ended n she realised she is kind of left alone. She might be annoyed at herself for changing so fast when other person did not make any adjustments to his schedules for her. Even signed new show with BD who never gave her due credit. Now she wants to be her own self..no adjustments..if things dnt fall in place then better its over now itself.

Sha might have been floored to see such unconditional love for him. Wat he might not have noticed is that she is changing n gradually she herself wud start retaliating against d change. her reaction was something he wudnt have expected. Dnt think he wud cheat on her...he is not that kinds. Moreover, he has hardly got time for anyone n hasnt stayed long in one place.

Watever d reasoning behind it...she did change herself n it was bothering her too much N she wasnt too happy it. And now trying to her old self at jetspeed. If she wasnt happy with herself, then its better to make a fresh start.

P.S. Mere speculation...maybe just preparing fans for next role...modern n sexy look.

You made some very valid points :)