Tale of Aditya's Dosti and Aditya's Love - Page 3

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ianoconic.

The thing that I totally love and admire about Adi is he is not only loyal to people he love but also loyal to his every emotion.

If he loves someone he gives everything to it and if doesn't like someone he makes sure to communicate it with that person in his own way.
Adi loved Pooja may be he was not in love with her. But then that's not a one way journey. If pooja felt their relationship was lacking that ishq wala passion what effort she put to it? none at all. On the other front Zoya is as loyal to her emotions as Aditya is. So, it will be amazing to see how these 2 fiercely loyal people find love in each other leaving their past behind.


@bold - I love that line of yours.. loving and being in love with someone are two different things..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: preehar

ps: i dont justify cheating

this pyaar dosti hai might be true for many but if best of friends fall in love ,transition is must,u cant be just best friends with ur spouse it has to be more than that in all aspects,sharing without inhibition being their wing man/women is all aokay but once ur in relationship ,somethings has to to add up in relationship,coz in friendship there r boundaries and emotional n soul walls but in marriage its so more than that best friend wla pyaar
anyway we know where the guy is coming from;the baggage of his father cheting on his mom,changed many dynamics in him;so he became this funny caring yet not so caring free spirit all coz of that coz people specially guys hide their real self behind this happy go lucky/funny/free spirit personality coz they dont want the situation or people to get inside u or know ur state of mind,just like for some ppl sarcasm/being funny is their defensive methodology(chandler-friends) same is the case with adi so their relationship also has dynamics similarly.so adi with this personality was impulsive,funny even in worse situation,free spirited was all throughout his life,no transition even after marriage
some guys become serious and leave their all time funny side to funny only when needed ,mostly after a breakup or something big must have happened than
so aditya with pooja's death,betrayal n slowly understanding seriousness of situation n life(when zoya gets hospitalized) when he will really fall in love,his inner dynamics would surely change
like kkhh(just first half i m speaking) ,in bepannah adi-pooja r rahul anjali and intense n real wala pyaar would be with zoya(tina)
n regarding pooja,shes kind of in depth woman,love with poetry,sheroshayari type hard core romantic or atleast passionate love believer ,such in depth ppl like to share intense thoughts and can share n confide with ppl who get that depth,so she might have found solace in someone else may b just for a moment(cheating part is seriously not done)but ya someone to share with may be at first it wasnt romantically bt for exchange of deep emotions,n adi wasnt always available for those deep thoughts
n regarding zoya shes romantic one,yash was so busy in setting up business in mumbai n juggling to make luxurious life for zo that he got so engrssed in competition n providing life for zo,they really created a gap..remember the scene where zo n yash have a phone convo yash talks abput his business meeting n advances,instead of listening n reacting she went off to sleep,also rain sequence saying no n also balcony scene in first epi,so may b all spouses werent aware they r creating a gap without realising n thus creating a gap with no heart to heart communicvation
in further episodes they might reveal how yash and pooja repectively telling their spose or try to say what their heart feels but may b adi n zoya might have gave a deaf ear or felt its just another thought or just vague


@preehar, am amazed at the depth of your perceptiveness and the way you speak of how different people adopt different defense mechanisms to handle situations.. so true.. esp.. parts in @bold.. they are so telling of the people and the relationship and their expectations... more often than nought people dont even realise that they are cheating or gtting emotionally distant from their spouses.. until its too late..

I absolutely love and agree with your entire analysis..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: barun_mania

I agree with you, great analysis but I have one question that we all know that Adi had never realized that ishq wala luv for pooja but what about Zoya, who loved Yash whole-heartly with full compassion how she will justify her feeling about getting second chance in love


What is the need to justify anything.. its natural progression in life.. life and its second chances.. why do we have to justify it..She loved Yash, he died.. she will always treasure those memories.. yet time will heal and make her fall in love again..
Else by this yardstick, anybody who has fallen in love in life again either didnt love the earlier one whole heartedly or ended up loving again with guilt.. which is not true..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santiago24

I completely agree.. the CVs are doing a great job.. allowing us to draw our own interpretations of each character and their interpersonal dynamics.. atleast they arent spoon feeding us or insulting our intelligence..

I also agree about the lack of communication in Yash Zo relationship.. he was more like an indulgent baby sitter..taking care of her.. mollycoddling her... putting her to sleep..


While I'm fully expecting this show to succumb to typical hindi-serial-wala ~drama... so far so good, right? I'm sure we'll have plenty of reason to get pissed in the future, but for now, the story is actually cohesive.
It just seems like Zoya's lead a very sheltered life, first with daddy-dearest and then with Yash. And maybe Yash was always trying to get in Mr.Siddique's good books so he went above and beyond in giving Zoya the same pampered and protected life she had before she married him?
It's always Zoya can't handle bad news, Zoya can't handle Mumbai, Zoya can't handle living with my family- bloody just ask her!! It's almost an affront to Zoya's intelligence. Is it any wonder Zoya is so naive and unaware of her surroundings????
I mean, Mahi might be a total b-word, but there is some truth in her saying that Zoya's always had some or the other person to fight her battles for her. It isn't Zoya's fault, but it's true. This is why I'm so friggin' excited for AdiYa. Adi will plank her in the middle of the battleground and let her fight it out, but be right there in the sidelines in case it gets too ugly.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: barun_mania

I agree with you, great analysis but I have one question that we all know that Adi had never realized that ishq wala luv for pooja but what about Zoya, who loved Yash whole-heartly with full compassion how she will justify her feeling about getting second chance in love

Ya that's an imp question...everytime I thought about Aditya's side only...now when I thought about zoya...I think now she is full of yash vo...yash yei...but how can we so sure that zoya loved yash with all the passion and compassion...when we love someone...we simply not love them only...we love everything about them...their dreams..their family...their problems...everything..here zoya knows only one thing that she loves yash and he loves her...she knows nothing about his company crisis...his friendship with pooja..even after 5 yrs of their relationship...even she doesn't know yash's fav dish...
zoya is a pampered child who doesn't even know to differentiate between right and wrong... she sit on a cab thinking they are going to help her without realising that they thought she was a prostitute... she doesn't know the reality of the world...when mahi apologies she forgive her without thinking and now believing her...zoya doesn't even know anything about herself...then how can we be so sure that she had the ishq wala love towards yash... in zoya's case she needs to find herself first...she is a strong girl who knows how to handle the situation...its her family who made her weak...after the marriage instead of making her strong yash does exactly wat her father was doing...he pampered her..kept her away from the real world...till that accident occurs zoya was living in a fairytale where her prince charming had given her wat she wanted...but now Aditya is unknowingly making zoya strong and making her realizing her own hidden strengths and capabilities...
Their is a saying that you can't love someone before you love yourself...its time for zoya's self realization...after that she will give her past a closure and learn to give her life and love a second chance...

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