EGO, SELF RESPECT, PRIDE

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SilentAvNeil

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Posted: 7 years ago

In the current world what ruins most marriage is EGO, PRIDE, SELF RESPECT and many other word in that category.

In the olden days, the women never worked to be able to be independent and thus gave in to make relationships work. In the current world where both are independent and can live on their own. The question is who will give in to make a relationship work. This is what we are seeing in NK.

Avni was right in her own way for what she did. Neil is correct in his own ways to be angry at Avni. Avni tried reasoning with Neil without revealing her secret of why she left but she is unable to reason with Neil. Neil is unable to forgive Avni for taking a major decision on her own without giving him a chance to be part of it. If Avni tells the truth then what will happen to papa whom she loves very much.

Now both are angry and do not want to give in. Neil blames Avni's Ego and Avni blames Neil for not understanding her. Avni has always had major Ego - in the past it was Neil who was able to rein Avni in to the relationship cunningly with Neelama's help.

It will be interesting to see who is going to give in and who is going to help them in the process. I don't mind Moghuli being Pillu. He is a good fit with AvNeil and the family and it actually makes the twist interesting.

I hope this helps with the TRP and the show stays on for a while.

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delhigirl

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Posted: 7 years ago

as usual it will be Neil who will give in.

Avni is far more stubborn and headstrong.

Today Neil was absolutely right in what he said to Avni.

Prakash has been logically and as a father giving her all the options of staying back.

Neil has never said that she cannot stay int he house. he just wants to be alone in his life at this point.

she keeps refusing Prakash who is correct in everything he is offering her.

She also keeps pushing Mitali onto Neil.

When Vidyut asked Neil to hand over Avni to him, Neil said that Avni is his wife not a thing to just hand over.

Wonder what Neil is for Avni.

where does she think she will take the kids - no house no money - onto the streets.

no but she is correct and Neil is wrong.

Instead of listening to Prakash when he tried to make her understand 3 times. she kept refusing.

and today when finally Neil showed his frustration at her attitude, his own family held him responsible for the wrong because Avni can never be wrong.

So in the end all her actions will be justified and Neil will give in apologizing for all his hurtful words. and avni will have no apology.

For me Avni can never be redeemed.

\Protecting Prakash was far more important than the 10 years of her son's life without his father.

Forgot what loss Neil had, that is immaterial in Naamkaran and to the whole fandom.

I will ask every member in this fandom what if their spouse did something like this with their child, how will they feel? can any justification be acceptable?

Edited by delhigirl - 7 years ago

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AvNeil123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: delhigirl
as usual it will be Neil who will give in.
Avni is far more stubborn and headstrong.

Today Neil was absolutely right in what he said to Avni.
Prakash has been logically and as a father giving her all the options of staying back.
Neil has never said that she cannot stay int he house. he just wants to be alone in his life at this point.
she keeps refusing Prakash who is correct in everything he is offering her.
She also keeps pushing Mitali onto Neil.

When Vidyut asked Neil to hand over Avni to him, Neil said that Avni is his wife not a thing to just hand over.
Wonder what Neil is for Avni.

where does she think she will take the kids - no house no money - onto the streets.

no but she is correct and Neil is wrong.
Instead of listening to Prakash when he tried to make her understand 3 times. she kept refusing.

and today when finally Neil showed his frustration at her attitude, his own family held him responsible for the wrong because Avni can never be wrong.

So in the end all her actions will be justified and Neil will give in apologizing for all his hurtful words. and avni will have no apology.
For me Avni can never be redeemed.
\Protecting Prakash was far more important than the 10 years of her son's life without his father.
Forgot what loss Neil had, that is immaterial in Naamkaran and to the whole fandom.

I will ask every member in this fandom what if their spouse did something like this with their child, how will they feel? can any justification be acceptable?

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Exactly my views. Neil has always fought for AvNeil but when it Avni's turn, she lets her ego win

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WhtinAname

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: delhigirl
as usual it will be Neil who will give in.
Avni is far more stubborn and headstrong.

Today Neil was absolutely right in what he said to Avni.
Prakash has been logically and as a father giving her all the options of staying back.
Neil has never said that she cannot stay int he house. he just wants to be alone in his life at this point.
she keeps refusing Prakash who is correct in everything he is offering her.
She also keeps pushing Mitali onto Neil.

When Vidyut asked Neil to hand over Avni to him, Neil said that Avni is his wife not a thing to just hand over.
Wonder what Neil is for Avni.

where does she think she will take the kids - no house no money - onto the streets.

no but she is correct and Neil is wrong.
Instead of listening to Prakash when he tried to make her understand 3 times. she kept refusing.

and today when finally Neil showed his frustration at her attitude, his own family held him responsible for the wrong because Avni can never be wrong.

So in the end all her actions will be justified and Neil will give in apologizing for all his hurtful words. and avni will have no apology.
For me Avni can never be redeemed.
\Protecting Prakash was far more important than the 10 years of her son's life without his father.
Forgot what loss Neil had, that is immaterial in Naamkaran and to the whole fandom.

I will ask every member in this fandom what if their spouse did something like this with their child, how will they feel? can any justification be acceptable?

Almost everyone here has made peace wid d fact dt Avni was not wrng.So asking questions ryt now is of no use.More justifications and explanations will pour in.

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Sd1978

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Posted: 7 years ago

Can someone translate what neil said to avni when she was insisting on leaving? My hindi is terrible and didnt understand that scene apart from that he was furious..

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delhigirl

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Posted: 7 years ago

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this is not the first time that Avni has left Neil. In all other occasions she had justification.

But these 10 years leaving him and keeping his son from him , pushing him towards Neil - is very low.

Every action of hers cannot be justified everytime by her childhood, her fight with DVM and her reason to protect her perfect family.

Her childhood and need for a prefect family should have made her realize that what was the perfect family of Mowgli (if he is truly their son) and that is no orphan.

I am so shocked by her behavior towards the khanna family, especially Prakash, who has just been requesting her multiple tamest stay back - i have no words.

I did not want to post int he forum but i could not help myself after seeing that everyone and even khanna family hold their son in the wrong over Avni.

Neil has always fought for her and their relationship and stay together

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delhigirl

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Posted: 7 years ago

For all the justification and defense for Avni -

1) ? self respect - what self respect?

a man like Prakash who she considers her father - has asked her 3 times with lot of love and patience to consider all the options that gave - refusing him and saying thats eh does not want to be a burden - is that self respect. It is disrespect to an elders sound advice.

Taking the children out at night with no where to go - she and her though process is way more important than the comfort of those children?

She can't say there because she is burden or because Neil is angry with her? Oh but he is not at all justified in being angry.

2) Perfect family - yes khannas are a perfect family , although I will say a foolish perfect family.

three elders in the family have been asking her, with love to stay back even if it is until she finds another place. But no Avni can't do that.

Where is the respect for this percent family.

It would have meant far more if she had just quietly accepted Prakash's suggestion.

Avni truly got a perfect family, who she does not really consider family enough to listen to the elders and this family actually hold their own son in wrong and yell at him for his words.

They value the sacrifice of Avni and have no words of complaint for any of her actions, but don't have sympathy for what their son has gone through in these 10 years or how he must be feeling being in the same house as Avni.

Avni truly got the perfect family

3) Soul connection/Love

this soul connection has to be solely from Neil's side. It is not required from Avni's side.

Soulful connection has to be a to way process - has to be form both sides.

OK fine she has the right to sacrifice her marriage of her reasons.

He kept risking his life to get a glimpse of her - that is love.

She did not even think twice about what he was doing; just keep focused on Sayesha.

What right does she have to keep pushing Mitali onto neil when he is clearly not interested,

Why is she playing with both Neil and Mitali's feelings and friendship?

Or is it that she wants to be completely guilt free in her life with the children if Neil truly moved on with someone.

4) Whose betrayal is more - avni not lelling Neil about his son (if he is truly their son) - actually no intention of ever telling him.

or Neil being angry for her actions.

I am sure if prakash knew how Neela was killed and was given a choice of going to jail vs keep the life of his grandson the way it is now, he would have definitely chosen to go to jail himself.

I sincerely hope that CVs find a good enough track with Mowgli or good enough reasons for Avni hiding Neil's son from him

Just to protect Prakash and khanna family is not enough for this action of hers.

If the CVs want to show that being a strong woman means to never listen to the sound advice of their elders, not to tell a man about his son, constantly forcing the other kids to suffer because of her thought process/stubborness, then truly this is excellent nayee soch.

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