Sameer ignored that Question?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Did anyone notice sam smartly ignored the question when naina asked about the reason of his anger . What do u think naina would be able to understand the reason or not ? 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sameer samaj gaya hai ki Naina bholi hai so she will not understand 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Like i said in my post about how his anger was justified. I also mentioned that. They are not that at that level yet, where he can discuss what those guys did with the photo with her. She is very naive, and he knows that. And also he knows that though their love is very strong, they haven't reached that stage where they could discuss those things with each other. In those days, when it was a big deal to even stand with a guy. How will he explain to her what he saw those guys do, and what they planned on doing with those girl's photos. And help her correlate that with her taking picture. He couldn't say, I didn't like the idea of some other guy lusting over you.

I am sure as they grow older, and they get married, and reach that comfort level, he will be able to talk about the same.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: paagalbandar

Like i said in my post about how his anger was justified. I also mentioned that. They are not that at that level yet, where he can discuss what those guys did with the photo with her. She is very naive, and he knows that. And also he knows that though their love is very strong, they haven't reached that stage where they could discuss those things with each other. In those days, when it was a big deal to even stand with a guy. How will he explain to her what he saw those guys do, and what they planned on doing with those girl's photos. And help her correlate that with her taking picture. He couldn't say, I didn't like the idea of some other guy lusting over you.

I am sure as they grow older, and they get married, and reach that comfort level, he will be able to talk about the same.



👏Well said
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: paagalbandar

Like i said in my post about how his anger was justified. I also mentioned that. They are not that at that level yet, where he can discuss what those guys did with the photo with her. She is very naive, and he knows that. And also he knows that though their love is very strong, they haven't reached that stage where they could discuss those things with each other. In those days, when it was a big deal to even stand with a guy. How will he explain to her what he saw those guys do, and what they planned on doing with those girl's photos. And help her correlate that with her taking picture. He couldn't say, I didn't like the idea of some other guy lusting over you.

I am sure as they grow older, and they get married, and reach that comfort level, he will be able to talk about the same.





u said it all...I agree
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Posted: 7 years ago
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They have not reached to that comfort level where sameer can explain her how guys lust on such pics...
He also knows how naive naina is .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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You notice Munna was about to tell but oandit stop him...he also understand ..thier limit nd the situation ...😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kavila

You notice Munna was about to tell but oandit stop him...he also understand ..thier limit nd the situation ...😊



Dude in our culture, no matter in what part of the world you live, every relation has a limit. And that is what sometimes makes it difficult to talk about things. Lets face it, it happens with both genders. Like being a girl, I cannot look into my dad's eyes and be like daddy, can you teach me about how boys operate? I mean this is just an extreme example but, there are things we can talk among women, and there are things that we can talk with opposite gender. I don't think its so much of patriachal mindset. I feel its more like a form of respect. I will feel very awkward talking about certain things with my bro and my dad, and for them its the same way. We just shy away and they show their frustration in form of anger or cribbing. I actually understand Sameer's apprehension. I actually respect him for that b/c yes he got angry as he didn't know how to respond to the situation, but, I also saw respect for her in his eyes, and respect for other women that those guys were luring over. Such guys are hard to find. Just because someone has hard time controlling their anger in certain situations, does not mean they are bad guys. It means you as a partner, need to teach them to channel their anger in the right way. Only a life partner can teach this thing with love and affection. Mom, dad, siblings or even friends can't do it. Only a life partner can. Even as a girl, I lose it sometimes. I myself have anger management issue in certain situtations as I am a shy person, and I really find it frustrating when I can't talk in front of others about how I feel, and than I get all angry b/c I am internalizing so much. But my sam is also teaching me to open up a little, and I am doing the same for him. We talk to each other about things that we can't talk to even our families about. That is what a mature couples do. And I think over time, both naina and Sam will mature, and do the same for each other. None of us are perfect. Perfection only exists in books. Its how you handle each other as partners that matters.😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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not only sameer but mundit also didnt tell her... its like samaina havent reached dt stage yet where they can talk abt such stuff without feeling awkward... they will someday may talk abt it when they start talking like proper couple😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with all of you !!
They have started ... Things will take time

I want Naina to again bring this topic when they meet ..
How will Sameer make his naive girl understand
It will be interesting to watch

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