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Originally posted by: anoosree

I was just thinking about Piya Albela story so far and this is what struck me...Moral of the story Piya Albela is always fall in love for a person who loves you more that you do for a happy & contented life...otherwise lifelong we will end up proving our love to them which might eventually tire us out and we may loose them too.

I don't know what to call, whether fate, destiny or bad luck that Pooja loves Naren more than he does her...I feel Pooja is more emotionally connected to Naren than him to her. I am not saying he doesn't love her...but her love for him is unconditional, unwavering, compassionate & absolute...she forgives even his most atrocious behavior so easily. She is so protective of him and will do anything's for him...even ready to die for or with him. But can we say the same thing for Naren. No I don't think so, he gives up on her so easily, be it his love or trust. Inspite of her repeatedly proving her utmost love for him, he still doesn't think twice before abandoning her when he learns his truth. She had to attempt suicide to make him realize the worth of her love. How I wish she had married Dr. Anand, he was perfect for her...and I say it with a heavy heart that Mr.Kapoor was right Naren was & is not the right guy for Pooja, she deserves much better..

Even my grandma used to say the same thing, get married to a guy who loves you more than you do him. So yeah all The unmarried girls and even boys find a partner who loves you more than you do warna kahi zindhagi bar apne pyar ko prove karthe na rah jao aur kahi puri zindaghi is dar se na gujzar jaye ki kab ye muje chod ke chale jayen .😆

Originally posted by: JhanviKv

Truely Anoosree !! Very well said !!👏 Its always been an unadulterated love from Pooja's side & Naren always lacks that ! Its like she has that love for him which he can never match ! Her love for him is above everything ! He has trust issues & that makes him weak in the relationship & this kinda relation never works! Yes that man Dr.Anand was perfect, perfect for any girl ! Thats one character in this show I can never forget ! I loved that man ! And Kapoor told the truth but he wasn't fit coz he was mentally unstable ! Could do anything to himself & her any moment too!

Yes always find a man who loves you equally as much as u do !! Never budge for any less girls! 👏

Originally posted by: anoosree

@bold: WORD...Trust is the main issue here...Naren neither has absolute trust in his love nor he has unconditional faith in Pooja's love...and as you said this kind of a relationship can never work in real life...in a relationship trust is either there or not there, you can't keep creating it. Its not a weather condition which keeps changing...you either love & trust a person or you don't, how does one fall in & out of love with the SAME PERSON multiple times😕..aaj hai, kal nahi hai, purso phir se hai aur uske baad phir gaayab ...and the best irony is that they show this kind of a love as some kind of, out of the world love & relationship😕😆 This whole concept of Naren falling in & out of love for Pooja and Pooja again & again trying to prove her love is conceptually flawed. The sanctity of relationship, more than love, lies in its sense of belongingness, commitment, togetherness at any situation. If difficult situation leads to couple drifting apart then that only means the emotional connection between the two is not that strong enough to keep them together..if people can be together only when everything is rosy then that's not love, that's just physical attraction which falls like a pack of cards with testing times..The reason I don't believe in movies like Tum Mile & Break ke baad...Jab chahe chod diya jab chahe jode liye, relationship hai ya car test driving...

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Hiii buddies.. Sorry..i was busy working on my novel.. thats why replying here late.

Anoosree and Jhanvi, you both are absolutely right. 👏

For Pooja, Naren is like her God. She literally worships the air that touches him, the ground where he puts his feet... But Naren does not love her like that. Naren ke pyar mien deewangi hai, magher selflessness nahi hai. He wants her to be Perfect...jabke Pooja has loved him with all his imperfections! She loves him selflessly...Naren sirf uska pyar hi nahi hai, Ishq hai..

I think women are like that yar.. they are made like that... They can die for the ones they love, but men are more restrained...their love is not as deep as a woman's love is. And this is the exact case with NarJa.

Dr.Anand was really nice indeed... He was an exception and such men are actually rare to find.. 😕

Anoosree, what you said about falling in and out of love is conceptually flawed- thats absolutely right. Naren is shown as a very inconsistent man.. unstable in feelings, emotions and relationships... If they had shown that it is because hes a malanga intrinsically, I would have digested it. Aik malangay jogi se kuch bhi banda expect ker le...but hes no more a malanga yar! 😕 PA makers changed his character so much that now hes just an idiot out there, like millions of men in the whole world... 😆😆 So iss mien albela pann kahan hai? I fail to understand... 😛