Mere Yaar Mila De Saiyaan

Please don't read any further if you don't want to read about doom and gloom. I will try and see if I can be succinct about this.

First off, my heart is breaking for Pragya since I saw the last 2-3 min of Friday's episode😭💔 and the song that went along with it is haunting. This pushed me into a state of melancholy, put me right into my days of training several years ago.

I am not sure how many of you belong to the health care field. For those of you who are not aware, I am going to share with you a volunteering service that is available in some cities called " no one dies alone"❤️. These are angels who volunteer their time to sit with patients who are dying, either because families are not located or if it takes time for families to arrive🤢. They give the dying person due respect and recognition that they are somebody's daughter/son, sister/brother, spouse, grandchild and let them pass with dignity and let them know that they are not alone in their final moments of life❤️❤️

From what I saw, Abhi, pretty much took that role. He arrived at the hospital with the knowledge that Pragya had saved him and put her life in danger. His whole thought process is " why would she do that for me" rather than saying " could this be my Pragya? Kahin mein galat tho nahin tha, isse pehchan ne mein"? Because he has done this so many times before in recognizing PRAGYA. He spoke to the doctor in a very matter of fact manner, took his time glancing at her from outside the room, looked at her with trepidation, sat down and hesitantly placed his hand on hers and " thanked her, wherever she is from and whoever she is ". Guys, for a loving wife, this is enough to kill her physically as well as her spirit if only she is watching💔

Why was her family and her brother not notified of her life and death situation? The MM residents pretty much decided she is not Pragya, but did her mom and GM also rule her off ? From what I know, they haven't. Her brother insisted she is his di❤️. Don't they then have the right to know? Doesn't that sick, unconscious girl deserve to have anybody by her bedside? Somebody who would worry about her life, somebody who would pray and wish for her well being and salamati? We have seen the daadis, Aliya and Simonica swarm Abhi's room. We haven't seen anybody visiting Pragya other than Simonica. Even if they think this is some " Munni", doesn't she deserve at least a visit from the daadis for all the lip service they were giving about how " Munni's" intentions and actions were just like those of Pragya? Instead, they decide to just leave her in the hospital and go after Abhi who went home. And the whole discussion about paying her hospital bills was heartbreaking💔If 🤬can be boarded, lodged and given clothing allowance after murder attempts, for a soul that tried to save their pota, why should there be so much discussion about hospital bills? Can't the daadis put their foot down or better off, let her brother or family know😭💔

I do understand that Pragya will be fine and we are not supposed to dwell on this. I am happy, he came to know what Pragya did for him right away unlike other times. But the imagery of Abhi's hesitation and actions in the last 2-3 min will be forever burned into my brain , they are toxic . This also makes me wonder, how else will he know if it is his Pragya and nobody else? Does he have to have the fake by the side to recognize the original? Then how does that work down the line? Let us say, he now knows she is his Pragya, if he can't recognize her and her soul by her actions, intentions, love, or her essence, then how can he assure himself throughout their life that in fact the girl by his side is indeed his wife and not the impostor? Does he need for the impostor to be there with them at all times, so he can compare and contrast and be assured? That is really troubling. I am just not sure🤢💔I am not blaming Abhi but the writers for completely making Abhi's character such in the past few months. They completely lost the big picture to give way to the stupid uneasiness😡from us.

Guys, I did learn a lot about myself as I continue to watch this show for the past 2 years. 1. I am not cut out to bear this emotional roller coaster on a day to day basis when I have real life emotional situations I need to handle . 2. This will be the first and last show I will ever watch, I learnt my lesson💔. 3. I can't seem to bail out on my girl, whom I want to see having a happy, deserving and cherished life❤️.

Thanks for reading, sorry to unload here. Thought I would do so, so I don't dwell and get ready for another emotion filled real life week😊

It has been the writers main aim to make Pragya undergo all sorts of tortures and sufferings possible. They want her to suffer more than they want her to be happy. Otherwise, in these almost 1000 episodes, think she would have been really happy only around 100 episodes.

Whatever the avatar of Pragya, Abhi had connected with her in spite of his misunderstandings, even during ML track. It is really sad for us to see him not able to connect with her at all here. But the writers have overlooked the fact that till now, it was various avatars of Pragya but she was her true self, but here it is about two different individuals looking alike. Abhi not believing Pragya to be herself is putting doubts as to whether he really loves her and knew her at all. Pragya suffering in hospital all alone is really really very sad.

Both Abhi's and Dadi's characters have been completely destroyed by the writers now. Dadi who had always been with Pragya and understood her so well, is not at all bothered about searching for her. It shows very clearly that for her, her grandson is only important, her bahu is just a person to look after her grandson's welfare, her happiness and sufferings do not count at all. As long as he is well and doing concerts, she is happy.

But be patient, once the writers come off their occupation with KDB, they might start focussing on KKB and Abhi and Pragya.😊

I cannot relate to Pragya now for many reasons. I loved her moral high ground and tenacity as a wife for all the right reasons in the first 2 tracks. After that, it's been pretty much self-inflicted horror for her. I get these serials use scriptures and refer to Sita, etc. Even Sita didn't have to suffer this way and for these reasons!!😆 Suffering usually has a cause outside of themselves, but that's not the case with Pragya. I feel writers have written her character with some sarcasm and have questioned the virtue of selflessness. Pragya was a highly educated, inspiring, and model woman on many levels. Now she's reduced to a lookalike who can't seem to inspire herself to solve her problems. That's so sad.

I actually connect with Sriti. What a terrific woman and professional!!⭐️👍🏼 She's plays her character (as written by third-rate writers) to perfection. She forgets about Pragya when she leaves the sets and comes alive as a amazing woman in her real life. I take that as a hint to watch these shows - just watch them and forget about them and enjoy life. Like Sriti does!!

Completely agree with all that you said.. since its the same case with me as well, stopped watching from the day Pragya returned back to MM taking Munni's place..initially used to miss the show but after reading the daily updates here, dont think there is any reason to resume watching.. may be till this track ends..

And because you brought up the scriptures and the characters these shows keep on making reference to, writers only pick half reference to such historic and mythological characters.. because all those ladies whether u believe them as Goddesses or not, are very powerful characters.. Sita for instance didnt return back to Rama after he finds her and their sons.. she chose to return back to her mother or rather end that avatar..

Those characters stood up for themselves and stood for things which are right.. writers make such useless references to get empathy from TRP audience.. their half-baked forever suffering lady characters are a shame to be compared to such idols..

Anyways its a learning from this show that target audience is different and defintely not those in my age group..