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Posted: 8 years ago
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Such a forced and over melodramatic situation to prove that Parth has no option but to marry Teni.

Who entertains a stranger in such a way? The lady was annoying, but there was a point in few things she said. No one except Parth remembers Shorvori. Bhanushalis are behaving as if she never existed. Lady's dialogue to Teni - what is the guarantee that the family will give you the same love after the baby is born, Bhanushalis are very well capable of doing that. They have always reacted hastily to every situation in Parth's life instead of finding a solution calmly and by thinking from all angles. Tomorrow if they get the two married, and then someone else questions them as why they accepted a bar dancer as their bahu, then surely they will suddenly remember their khandaan ki ijjat and all and will start regretting their decision.

Everyone takes Parth and his feelings for granted. The person whom he loved most didn't bother to know if he wants someone else in his life after her or not, thinking that she is doing it for his better future. His so called friend is in her own lala land and is making him dance to her tunes as per her mood swings. His family was never bothered for his feelings, so are they now. His own mother feels it is more important to get him married than knowing what is going on his mind. So what if after the forced marriage he slips into more guilt and depression, and commits suicide eventually.

I felt bad for Teni at one point. She is a fool, she is annoying at times, but she is not realizing what situation she is getting herself into. Just like how she didn't realize it while agreeing to the surrogacy deal. She is so confused that she is trying or pretending to be everyone's saviour. But she is still miles away from maturity!! She thinks that she is the only one who can support Parth in this situation, but I don't think her dramas to divert his attention will help him in any way. He badly needs someone subtle and mature like Shorvori..

The precap looks misleading to me. Parth might be thinking about finding someone else for Teni who can support her despite her past. And in a case he is thinking about himself, then he needs to realize that by agreeing to marry her, he will not save her life, but will destroy it further. When he is sure to himself that he can never replace Shorvori with anyone else in his life, he doesn't have any rights to marry anyone else. Better he understands it, instead of being an emotionally weak person who will eventually give up to family's and society's pressure.

And why everyone has to think that only a marriage is the ultimate aim of a girl's life?? Even Parth? I so wished to see someone replying, why should we worry now that no one will marry Teni in future, we want to see her getting educated, becoming capable of handling her own life, growing as a person and we will help and support her in this journey.. But here everyone has got panic now that who will marry her!

Lastly, is this a way to elevate social status of a surrogate? Remove the wife/biological mother from the picture by hook or crook, and get the surrogate married to biological father of the child so that society accepts her!! I am sorry CVs, but it sounds as regressive as making a rapist marry his victim because no one will marry her in future as her life is destroyed forever 🤢

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Posted: 8 years ago
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first of all I can't understand how can stranger lady directly enter into house .even if she is not sure whether it is Malhotra house or bhanushali house but no one get directly in house that too in straight in hall to ask owner or address of house .she can confirm. by asking guard sitting at gate or she could have ring the bell

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