Hina Khan - An unapologetic Inconvenience

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hina Khan is playing the Bigg Boss game like no one in the past ever has . She Shouts, She abuses, She cries, She smiles,She hugs and she stands tall giving tough time to each and every competitor. She takes everything that's thrown on her in the task and doesn't shy away from saying,"I'll do double and win the task."

The problem is here in this part of the world we are not used to of women being smart and Intelligent enough to play each and every card well so when we come across any such woman we start questioning her morals. In reality nothing is wrong with her character but it's with us. Hina Khan abuses when she's pissed. All of us do. She's no Saint (Tulsi Parvati Akshara {Juhi Parmar,Shweta Tiwari,Pooja Bedi})

She knows how to up her game. She knows what card to play at what time that makes her a good player not characterless. She shuts up many people just by her words. She doesn't play a victim. (Gautam Gulati,Bani J, Gauhar Khan) Yes these all people did play victims. Gauhar was my fav but she many times played victim to Tanisha.

She stood up for Vikas because she thought he was targeted for being bisexual (although I didn't like her fights for vikas) and then vikas himself said let them say don't fight for me this obviously would piss anyone off. She was pissed and ended up arguing. Vikas was at fault and he apologised. Hina answered all Salman's questions like a Boss, unapologetically. She did her first task so well, then this task she aced! When Ben said Arshi was only targeting her she corrected Ben by saying no she did also for mehjabeen. And she also said Mehhabeen is enough for Arshi. This shows how well she understands the game.

I know many people curse Hina for not being perfect! But I simply adore her imperfections because these imperfections make her relatable. Yes I'm supporting Hina Khan because she's SLAYING the game!

P.S: It's high time we stop pressurising women to become Doodh Ki Dhuli Insaaf Ki Devis. 😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well Said!! Appreciate it.. Noone is perfect.. Hina Khan is being real there and that matters.. Hina Khan FTW
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said, very articulate
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Posted: 8 years ago
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👏 thanks for the post...liked and loved it...i jus love hina...want her to be as finalists...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I love how she defends herself when she's put on the spot. She's always confidence and sometimes it comes across as egoistic but I see it as being head strong.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It was bit odd on how hyper and unnecessarily abusive she was in the first 2 weeks. Some o& the things coming out of her mouth were uncalled for. Cheap shots are not acceptable - especially when you are on and from TV and know the format of the show

That said unlike many people calling her fake or cunning or too smart seems to be quite the opposite. If she was any of these - she would fly under the radar like Bandagi.

She has achieved a lot, been relativel6 graceful this last week and displayed an indomitable spirit eand I hope she continues to show more of that than her vengeful side that is not really becomin* if anyone - forget the gender or status.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Vikas never said don't fight for me. He said that whatever ny secual preference is that is for me to tell and it is not hina or priyank's place to tell or know about it. And, hina kept asking are you or are you not a bi and vikas simply said that he doesn't want to share that and that is his choice. Hina got riled up and said that then why were we fighting for you if this is the case. I didn't think that was at all needed and she should have respected vikas's choice if she were really a good friend.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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well she is an opportunist who takes advantage of given situations for her benefit, when caught she shouts and makes lame excuses like "I will loose the task". Ab harna hi hai to kisi aur ka chance kyu kharab kiya. She is stubborn and irritating, all she wants is that people should listen to her when she speaks and when it comes to listening to others all she has to say is "Talk to walls". But her best talent is trying to act bechari and plays her game from others person's back so that they should look bad and they should get punished and she walks away without getting blamed for anything. She is nothing but PHUSKI BOMB.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And here in lies the irony. You like her because she's imperfect. And she irritates me to no end because she refuses to even entertain the possibility that she is anything but the epitome of perfection. You say it's people who want her to be a Devi, but it is she herself who's trying to portray herself as one. And failing at that.

I know not everyone is all good or all bad, like the more passionate audience would have you believe. And yesterday, she finally got the chance to show her better side. One of my biggest issues about tasks is when people don't realize that it's just that- a task. When shit hit the fan, instead of going on and on about how the opposing side has no morals and "goonday hain sab ke sab", she observed their plan, saw what worked and what didn't and then strategized accordingly, improving on certain ideas and discarding others. She just took whatever was dished out to her calmly, and swore to respond in kind the next day but not out of a personal vendetta for revenge as it almost always turns into, but solely from a perspective of winning the game. Unlike say, someone like Mehjabeen who only seems to know how to give threats, or Vikas who totally milked that injury for all it was worth. 😆 What it turns into is yet to be seen but she did earn brownie points over there. And also over not throwing a bitch fit over being nominated. So kudos.

That should mean she isn't a drama queen though, right? Except she is. She totally is.

Like I said, no one's all bad. And I've given Hina credit where it's due. But her being sporting in tasks does not in any way compensate for her actions in this show so far, which has ranged between immature to borderline deplorable sometimes. Be it the bizarre way she thought the best way to combat bullying (homophobia) is bullying (body shaming, digs on career) but with a gang instead. Or the way she turned on Vikas when he rightfully told her that his sexuality is none of anyone's business to the point where she claimed he deserved whatever crap Shilpa did to him. Rule#1 of showing kindness: Don't jatao. That just cheapens the act. The nonstop "main apke liye khari hui ek hafta" to justify her poking into his private matters was in poor taste, and her insistence that Priyank left due to Vikas was just outright idiotic. One of her biggest weakness is that she loses all grip on logic and sanity the instant she's riled up. You can't just say your piece and go "talk to the walls" when it's time for people to respond. It's just plain rude.
You say that we all cuss when we're pissed, OP. And yes, yes we do. But there is cussing when you're pissed. And then there is what she said. Honestly, I'd rather she cussed the hell out of everyone that week instead of the mean spirited comments she made. Cuss words are merely unpleasant to listen to, but the cheap shots she took are not one so easily overlooked. And she should be held accountable for them.

Now matter how you try to spin it OP, this is not a case of expecting a women to be a saint. It's a case of expecting a person to not think they are superior to others due to their looks or better job or whatever, to not use kindness as a sword to hang on someone's neck, and to have the maturity to realize that they can't always be right. Not unreasonable expectations imo. But unfortunately, Hina has fallen short of all of them so far. She may have admirable sportsmanship and and may speak with confidence but she needs a lesson in humility. Preferably before she says something even more incriminating.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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P.S: It's high time we stop pressurising women to become Doodh Ki Dhuli Insaaf Ki Devis

This basically sums up the root of the problem with Hina IMO - no one expects her to be the above - SHE thinks she's a dhoodh ki dhuli insaaf ki devi, and behaves accordingly.

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