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Posted: 7 years ago
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surbhi is using varun for her sister. she expects preeto to allow her son to live with soumya as she knows no one else would accept a kinnar. If surbhi is so concerned about soumya's security then she can stay with her separately. she wants to live with full freedom and on her terms only.
soumya keeps fluctuating between kinnar world and normal world as as when she desires. she also wants harman to accept her so that she can live a normal life. WHEN SOUMYA IS SO UNSYMPATHETIC TOWARDS OTHER KINNARS THEN WHY DOES SHE EXPECT OTHERS TO TREAT HER NORMALLY.
BOTH SAYA AND PREETO ARE RIGHT.

don't see any hero image of harman. he is unemployed spoilt person.

INSTEAD RS SHOULD SHOW KINNARS IN A BETTER LIGHT LIKE THEIR EDUCATION FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE ETC.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't agree with u, Saumya was never selfish, she knew that her identity will not allow Harman and her to be together that's why she tried everything possible to stay away from Harman by going through Preeto's torture but it's Harman who won't let her go. She was sacrificing the love she feels for his betterment but when she realised that Harman was going to be a saint, she has to stop him by confessing her love to him that is when she was sure her family is safe. She thought Harman will be happy being away from her but it's the opposite, he'll rather ruin his life if she stays away but with Surbhi I may agree with u but I think she also did well saving her family from Preeto.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Saumya is one of the least selfish characters in the show. We have seen her selflessly sacrifice her own happiness for other people's sake many times.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sorry to differ with you.This is my opinion abt the show ,kinnar and normal man relationship.This show is exaggerating a man and kinnar relationship as if it never happened in real life .If you check in google and youtube,you will find no of cases where a normal person married kinnars and living a happy married life. plz do check it .Recently i saw a video on youtube where a man married a kinnar with his family consent .There is nothing wrong in it.when we accept homosexuals in th society ,why cant kinnars? There are so many types in kinnar community like transgenders,intersex etc. Soumya is an intersex,which means she is a woman with not fully grown sexual organ.she can be cured. That's why she feels harman touch like any normal person.
While coming to her behavior,yes,she always rubbed her wishes on harman on the name of sacrifice and gave him so much pain but she was never a selfish person .if she was selfish and told harman abt preeto's wrong deeds ,he would have abandon his parents long back. She never told any of preeto's criminal deeds to harman..Always respected her in laws,no matter how cruel they were .It is good to be selfish at times ,otherwise people like preeto keep torturing them. Are we so selfless in our lives?
Initially,Surbhi was selfish and obsessed with harman .she took advantage of soumya's helplessness and married harman. Planned with preeto to separate them.Its harman's determination ,pure love for soumya saved their relationship.Now,she is a changed person.we should respect that .
Coming to preeto,she transformed from a concerned mother to a ruthless criminal,who wants to kill so many innocents with bomb.She is disgrace to motherhood.Its evident that harman will either die or become monk without soumya in his life but he will never move on.so,instead of trying to kill people and torture HAYA ,she should think of soumya's treatment .As a mother and elderly person,she should try to find out a solution for their problem but she became so sick that she could only think of torturing HAYA. She gave so much pain to harman,probably a mother could ever give.
Coming to saya,I could understand her concern for soumya but i didnt find logic of distrusting harman' s love .She is selfish to keep soumya as taj in the house.i cant support her on this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't agree with you now there's nothing left to be sympathise with preeto anymore. Its just now Preeto can not accept her defeat from Saumya. Now more than her love for his son,He ego gone big. Huh... Disgusting normal person ho ya Kinner ,Insaan insaan hoga hai.. And unko maarne ka plan karna bhi equal to the Sin of killing a normal person. So here supporting Preeto is wrong.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The moment u said Preeto and Saya r right , I really dunno what to debate about in this topic 😆 .. For Saya we can still debate/argue on her reasons but for Preeto , there is absolutely no debate or argument .. A person who supports criminal activities , going to the extent of hiring goons to kill people , plan time bombs in houses , can b anything but right .. no excuse at all ..

Coming to Saumya , I m so glad she is finally selfish now 😆 .. Enough of her sacrifices and selfless attitude .. sometimes u need to b selfish to live your life on your own terms and conditions .. so finally Saumya is doing the right thing because like any other human being , even she has the right to lead a happy married life with her husband

And if Saumya was really selfish then in last 1 year we would not b pulling our hair out seeing innumerable sacrifices of Saumya that she has made just to make sure Harman stays with his family and leave her ..This is anything but selfish .. If she was really selfish then by now she would hv exposed every single criminal activity of Preeto in front of Harman and he would hv been hating his mother .. But I really want her to b selfish now and expose Preeto


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

The moment u said Preeto and Saya r right , I really dunno what to debate about in this topic 😆 .. For Saya we can still debate/argue on her reasons but for Preeto , there is absolutely no debate or argument .. A person who supports criminal activities , going to the extent of hiring goons to kill people , plan time bombs in houses , can b anything but right .. no excuse at all ..

Coming to Saumya , I m so glad she is finally selfish now 😆 .. Enough of her sacrifices and selfless attitude .. sometimes u need to b selfish to live your life on your own terms and conditions .. so finally Saumya is doing the right thing because like any other human being , even she has the right to lead a happy married life with her husband

And if Saumya was really selfish then in last 1 year we would not b pulling our hair out seeing innumerable sacrifices of Saumya that she has made just to make sure Harman stays with his family and leave her ..This is anything but selfish .. If she was really selfish then by now she would hv exposed every single criminal activity of Preeto in front of Harman and he would hv been hating his mother .. But I really want her to b selfish now and expose Preeto



Well said jyothi. i completely agree with you.We disliked soumya for too much selfless behavior. Now, I really want her to be little selfish and stop sacrificing her happiness for anybody .Going by the segments,seemingly,soumya will come to know abt bomb blast.I am sure ,she will be frightened by the extreme cruelty of Harpreet .After this incident,I hope she will not sacrifice her love again for welfare of kinnars..I am so worried abt it. I dont want HAYA to get separated again. I really want her to get angry at Harpreet and confront them.I want soumya and preeto face off track.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sairitu


Well said jyothi. i completely agree with you.We disliked soumya for too much selfless behavior. Now, I really want her to be little selfish and stop sacrificing her happiness for anybody .Going by the segments,seemingly,soumya will come to know abt bomb blast.I am sure ,she will be frightened by the extreme cruelty of Harpreet .After this incident,I hope she will not sacrifice her love again for welfare of kinnars..I am so worried abt it. I dont want HAYA to get separated again. I really want her to get angry at Harpreet and confront them.I want soumya and preeto face off track.



I dont think they will repeat the same sacrifice track again .. this time she confessed her love and she knows he was ready to become a saint without her .. so she wont sacrifice .. max she will not tell him about who planted the bomb .. mayb Harman will himself find out .. lets see .. but no more sacrifices for sure

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