Avni's journey to seek a name from a father and Juhi's child here are two poles apart things.
Avni was the biological daughter of Ashish Mehta, a man who was alive, able, good, but a spineless soul who could not stand up for his love and daughter.
She had 100% right to seek his last name.
Here, we are not even sure that Neil is the biological father of Juhi's daughter.
Why should Neil give the girl his name, when Juhi is still alive and sufficient to take care of her own daughter?
She is a mature adult, who doesn't suffer from any mental or physical disorder, so WHY does Neil have to step in and give his name to her daughter?
Just because she is his ex, and he has a guilt trip of not being able to save her in the past? It doesn't connect, to be honest.
Like I wrote in another post, why is it even important for a child to have a father's name, when s/he doesn't have one alive or the one s/he has, refuses to take the responsibility of him/her?
Isn't a mother enough?
Doesn't she have the prime right on her child after carrying it for 9 months?
The story here, like you said, is, what's in a name?
Exactly!
Then why does NEIL have to give his name to Juhi's child?
Why is Juhi's own name not enough for her little girl?
As to Avneil's current equation and them adopting the girl-- their relationship still has MILES to go, before they can think of even having their own biological child!
Avni needs to heal some more, Neil needs to be ready some more.
They have barely had a proper confession amid all the sympathy-seeking drama that Miss. Juhi is doing, which even went on to an incomplete church wedding for AvNeil, and you think they are ready to become parents?
Not at all.
Parenting is a massive responsibility from whatever I have seen around me and can infer as a person. So, I think AvNeil together need to grow more as a couple before even thinking of starting a family of their own. 😊
Edited by Simi1711 - 8 years ago