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@sherlockthor

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Posted: 9 years ago

This is one of the complains I have with our society and more precisely Indian TV serials.

The concept of Sautan , we take it like its normal.

Dude..your husband got another girl and its understandibe everyone one is little shocked, but they get more angry on the girl than the guy.

Its like Men are allowed to mate with many females , its fine..

We are not Gorillas. We are Humans. But alas, since our genetic difference is around 0.1% its to be expected. The strongest Male Gorilla is the leader of the group and he forcefully keeps many females with himself.

Day by day I am hoping ki this mentality should go away. Its enough. If the situation was reversed, then the woman would be called wh**e and what not and probably ostracized..

Thats why I say for all women. its NOT okay to be insulted in any situation. Whether you are in love , or whether you are in debt or dependent on him, do not lose your dignity.

Its like since he the richest person , the so called "man" of the house , he can do all kinds of shit.! His family don't even say anything to him..! Even if you are dependent on him financially, that does not mean he can do any shit he wants!!

I really hate to see good actors like Barun forced to portray such things.

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: apoorvaarnav

Thats why I say for all women. its NOT okay to be insulted in any situation. Whether you are in love , or whether you are in debt or dependent on him, do not lose your dignity.

Exactly, I cringed when Nani said "Sautan"...as if it wasn't the guy's fault at all.

Advay is parading his fiance in front of his wife - it's unethical and illegal.

I really hope Chandni grows and spine, stops her "bechari-nari" bakwaas, and walks away.

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jiora

@jiora

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Posted: 9 years ago

I really hate to see good actors like Barun forced to portray such things.

Thanks for these words
i too feel bad for him to be forced to portray such things

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Posted: 9 years ago

One thing I would like to emphasize. Whenever the man has another woman in his life, his wife and their families would always blame the woman for stealing him. First of all, the other woman has no relation to you but the man is YOUR husband, YOUR son, YOUR brother etc. He has betrayed you far far more than any random woman involved with him has so why are you not focusing your anger on him.

Also, the man is not a doodh peeta baccha that a woman came and stole him. He is a willing party who knew exactly what he was doing.

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@Ayuzawa

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -MeMyselfI
One thing I would like to emphasize. Whenever the man has another woman in his life, his wife and their families would always blame the woman for stealing him. First of all, the other woman has no relation to you but the man is YOUR husband, YOUR son, YOUR brother etc. He has betrayed you far far more than any random woman involved with him has so why are you not focusing your anger on him.
Also, the man is not a doodh peeta baccha that a woman came and stole him. He is a willing party who knew exactly what he was doing.

Exactly. this is what irks me a lot and that is why I did not want this track here. I don't want everybody blaming Sasha and planning traps and tricks on her while Advay just gets a few words of reprimand.

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@sherlockthor

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Ayuzawa

Exactly. this is what irks me a lot and that is why I did not want this track here. I don't want everybody blaming Sasha and planning traps and tricks on her while Advay just gets a few words of reprimand.

Exactly!!

This is happening in almost every serial I know and maybe in real life as well. There is Marathi serial on this very concept . Man gets NO blame at all.

All the women involved get all the hate!

Like W*F

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2filmy

@2filmy

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: apoorvaarnav

Exactly!!
This is happening in almost every serial I know and maybe in real life as well. There is Marathi serial on this very concept . Man gets NO blame at all.
All the women involved get all the hate!
Like W*F

This happens even in real life
I have heard of such incidents
This is the mentality and will take long to change

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2filmy

@2filmy

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Posted: 9 years ago

I think we will see Chandni fight for him with Sasha

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2filmy

@2filmy

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Posted: 9 years ago

But in this case as we know the girl is a proper vamp
So there will not be much sympathy for her

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-MeMyselfI

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Ayuzawa

Exactly. this is what irks me a lot and that is why I did not want this track here. I don't want everybody blaming Sasha and planning traps and tricks on her while Advay just gets a few words of reprimand.

yup, it should be operation kick Advay's ass... it is all his and his fault only, not Sasha's... sure she sucks for having no problem with his fiance doing a one night wedding but this was his plan and his actions...

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