A Childs Dream Vs. A Parents Hope

Okie, so the epis are downright 🥱 at the moment but something interesting came up today; suprisingly, me and my dad were also talking about it this morning😊....

Sandeep always had a passion for painting and wanted to take it to a professional level....Shivaji however wanted his son to be a Lawyer - after all Shivaji himself was successful judge!

The result -- Sandeep is unhappy, a failure, and the family doesn't get on very well.....

But whose fault is it?🤔....Sandeep for being incompetent or Shivaji for thrusting his hopes on to Sandeep who had to leave his dreams behind?😕

Just something I'd like to know your views on.😛

I think it's mainly Shivaji's fault. He shouldn't have forced his son to follow the same pathway as him. As a parent it would have been better if he had tried to understand and encourage Sandeep's talent. nibbles, this makes me remember Taare Zameen Par. I don't know if you watched the movie, but it's basically the same thing: the parent not understanding the child...👎🏼
And what has been the result? Poor Sandeep is not even happy in this career.
Sandeep's only fault is that he could find no way to continue his passion even a little.

totally agree wit u shali.....parents think they noe wuts in the best interest for their kids but taht doesnt mean that they will have similar thinking for wut to become in the future

every person has different characteristics and u develop those charcteresitcs further by taking on a job that requires those characterisics

for example me, im very argumentaive, and persuasive (believe it or not😆) thats y im aspiring to become a lawyer.......and trust me when i argue and the person noes that there wrong and keep proving me wrong......O-M-G i just get really pissed! but tahts not gunna work in the court house

enough wit my bhak bhak ...back to sandeep

as for sandeep im acutally surprised that he didnt go against his father....he did a good thing by listeing to his father ....but did a bad thing by doing something didnt want him to do

thats y they always say listen to ur heart and not ur mind.........ur mind will just take u places whre u dun wanna go but ur heart noes where u wanna go😳