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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: ndivyateja
@Rabia @Chasa
I have a weird perspective on this "respect" discussion..Here it is..
For Suraj, chakor is always a kid..the way he treats her is an outcome of his 'Jagathpita love' for her..In the same way For chakor, suraj is always a kid..the way she treats him is also an outcome of her 'Jagatmata love'..
Her 'Jagatmata love' turned him into a kid who is very dependent on her, who cannot let go off her, who takes decisions from heart..There are few things in him which she was unable to change, obviously his anger and taking decisions in haste..These unchanged qualities blocks his thinking capabilities thereby he ends up hurting someone..So chakor always fears that he might worsen the situations, this made her think she is wiser..
His 'Jagatpita love' for her is very possessive and over protective..that's why he lets her win, goes to any extent to get her..Her happiness is his happiness..her pain is his pain..That's exactly why, chakor's self respect turned out as his pride..
In a nut shell, both have turned into kids ..only difference is Chakor's love changed Suraj into a good kid wheras Suraj's love turned chakor into a ziddi, immature and insecure kid..There is no room for "respect" in their relationship, everything is wrapped under the name of "love"..
Hope I made sense..😃

Wow,that was an amazing explanation👏

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Chasa

@Chasa

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: ndivyateja
@Rabia @Chasa
I have a weird perspective on this "respect" discussion..Here it is..
For Suraj, chakor is always a kid..the way he treats her is an outcome of his 'Jagathpita love' for her..In the same way For chakor, suraj is always a kid..the way she treats him is also an outcome of her 'Jagatmata love'..
Her 'Jagatmata love' turned him into a kid who is very dependent on her, who cannot let go off her, who takes decisions from heart..There are few things in him which she was unable to change, obviously his anger and taking decisions in haste..These unchanged qualities blocks his thinking capabilities thereby he ends up hurting someone..So chakor always fears that he might worsen the situations, this made her think she is wiser..
His 'Jagatpita love' for her is very possessive and over protective..that's why he lets her win, goes to any extent to get her..Her happiness is his happiness..her pain is his pain..That's exactly why, chakor's self respect turned out as his pride..
In a nut shell, both have turned into kids ..only difference is Chakor's love changed Suraj into a good kid wheras Suraj's love turned chakor into a ziddi, immature and insecure kid..There is no room for "respect" in their relationship, everything is wrapped under the name of "love"..
Hope I made sense..😃

I think both are insecure...in the case of suraj,its chakor's present which bothers him...during their interrogation at the haveli when suraj asked chakor does she actually like ajay..it shows that he is scared ..as he knows ajay fits the ideal man of chakor's perspective..although in the back of his mind he believes chakor loves him and ajay cant handle her..

In the case of chakor,its suraj's past which bothers her. ..her saying to suraj during the car convo that no girl will marry him and always ridiculing him..it kind of suggests that chakor still believes he hasnt changed...although sometimes she speaks he has changed at the revelation of truth...

The biggest problem is the inconsistent storyline..what sukor seemed to be saying at one moment completely transverses into something else..or maybe it can be their confused emotions...what they now need is trust i feel,which seems to be lacking on both sides..

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#83

@chasa

Which car convo are you talking about when Chakor said that no girl will marry him???

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Chasa

@Chasa

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: KUTUR
@chasa
Which car convo are you talking about when Chakor said that no girl will marry him???

The one after the death drama ...she said something like "hum dekthe hai ki kis ladki tumse shadi karegi"

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RINKA

@R_Ritz

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+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#85

How to spoil a lead character, one should learn from the cvs.. I was also angry last day why did she send Suraj alone to convince ajay.. she should have herself gone to explain the inspector.. Suraj's bad record in front of the police won't convince ajay to believe him.. but ajay would have believed Chakor.. she doesn't even want to hurt ajay but she has to choose one side.. she can't keep two men waiting for her.

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Vgn1

@Vgn1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#86

Happy to have quit watching Udaan when I did. Doesn't find anything of even remote interest from the updates and OLVs. Seem like CVs as usual have put their brains back to the freezer if they ever took it back. If the TRPs go down again maybe they'll get back their senses? Or will that be expecting too much?

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infinity101

@infinity101

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+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: FlowerHater
What I didn't like in the epi was her dialogue in precap to KN that" Mat bhulo tumhara ikka abhi BHI humara mutthi mein hai air Woh humaare Bina Nahi reh sakta", something on similar lines.
It made me feel that she don't love Suraj but is only using him against KN for her fight though we all know she actually loves him.

Go die writers

I don't exactly remember her lines but if she said that ikka hamari mutthi me hai toh it does sound like as if she is his controller or something 🤢..she has all the time in the world to challenge kn n give gyaan to imli about how to lead a happy married life with her hubby but has no time to clear out things with Ajay about her feelings for Suraj..utterly disappointed with her 👎🏼

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infinity101

@infinity101

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+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: Aslesha99
One more Suraj-Imli scene, why the hell can't the cv's keep both of they away from each other? People with their past and history should not be around each other forget the over the top friendship they share. Why can't that bitch just stick to her husband? and Suraj maintain a distance from her?

My heart hurt today after witnessing the extreme butchering of Chakor now I hear of more Imraj scenes coming up all this is just unbearable.

I know it doesn't always happen..but I think exes can be friends..pretty good friends..it's true that Suraj n imli had a past..but I don't see any wrong in them being friends,if their respective spouses are ok with it.

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BeeSandy

@BeeSandy

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: Richa.pokeship
I know it doesn't always happen..but I think exes can be friends..pretty good friends..it's true that Suraj n imli had a past..but I don't see any wrong in them being friends,if their respective spouses are ok with it.

Yeah, they can be friends. But they need to know where to draw the line, which these two have no idea about.