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Epi wasđ...I don't have mood for a review also. but started writing so..both leads taken out of character today..by a huge degree.
Only Saanvi seemed sensible today.
ARU DARLING..RIGHTS CANNOT BE DEMANDED..THEY CAN BE ASSERTED ONLY IF THE THE PARTNER IS WILLING IN THE RELATIONSHIP. AND INSTEAD OF POUTING , YOU COULD HAVE USED YOUR HUSBANDS MELLOWNESS TO INITIATE AN ACTUAL CONVERSATION, WHERE YOU GET TO KNOW MORE ABOUT SAANVI.
MUKHIJI, DERIDING YOUR WIFE'S IMPORTANCE IN PUBLIC DOES NOT HELP YOU IN ANY WAY. AND YOUR FRIENDSHIP TO YOUR CHILDHOOD BFF WOULD NOT HAVE VANISHED IN THIN AIR IF YOU FED YOUR WIFE THE FIRST PIECE OF THE CAKE SHE MADE .THIS IS WHY THEY SAY, JUST GROWING UP IN YEARS DOES NOT GIVE MATURITY TO A PERSON.DUKHI MUKHI, YOU ARE ABSOLUTE IMMATURE AT PERSONAL RELATIONS.
I disliked Aru throwing that apple piece away..not matter how upset she was. Basic Manners lady...basic manners. And which woman goes yelling in a party that she did all the arrangements so she should get first piece of cake. Her questions were not wrong, she should not have asked them in public.
I would have loved it, if after getting over her shock and realizing he is feeing Saanvi first, she would have stopped him to say , " hum dono khilate hain"..let us feed Saanvi together. That would be a mature wife's behavior in that situation. Then in privacy with her husband she can vent her feelings, provided she is willing to listen to him too. They showed Aru in a very immature light today...she could have vented to him in private later. And even when he comes and tries to get her for dinner , she does not open the door , and fails to do the most important thing..communicate .
She does not communicate what is causing her pain. She could have come in, let him eat his dinner and while eating..ask questions about Saanvi and his past. She could have told him what the factory women told her..and told him that these doubts were troubling her. But she cannot maybe because he will say how does she care..she is going away. That here..she is her biggest enemy right now.
I liked her living in balcony..I was actually hoping for such a phase. đBut she should have given in after the tin dabba phone convo. He was heartfully apologizing and not eating without her. It was his bday afterall.
And Mukhi. The man who saw two drops of tears and stopped his marriage, convinced the girl and let her take lead, the man who saw Aru's back and tears and understood that she was ashamed of being seen naked after electrocution, the man who saw Aru's face after Laalji kidnaps her, and in one look senses how much she underwent, the man who couldn't go to sleep because Aru's hand got burnt..and he let her vent to make her sleep...that man Mukhi is acting so dumb right now.He was shown to be such a perceptive guy initially..what are they doing to him now. He is only seeing her immaturity and not her possessiveness or love for him. I am surprised , he being the man who read a diary and tried to please Aru with chat chana...and candles, that guy is not understanding that she was trying to please him. He also did not try to tell her why Saavni's friendship and feeding her first was so important to him. He just kept saying sorry without any explanation.
Liked Saanvi's impulse to tell off Mukhi to feed his wife first. I still didn't understand why Mukhi was feeding Saanvi and that haq...nowhere did they mention it was her birthday as well. Viewers are as clueless as Aru here...we don't know the backstory. I liked Saanvi Mukhi conversation also. She came out to be a good friend there. But would have liked if she didn't say " mein maang rahi hun aaj ke din, so go say sorry to her". By doing that, unknowingly she is placing herself with the couple...two is company , three is crowd. She should have told him , she is your wife..explain yourself to her..for your own sake. Simple.
Suddenly they are showing Saanvi to be Mukhi's friend forever and confidante...he came to Ahmedabad due to Mishri..married due to Mishri...now that Mishri is not there...they are giving him Saanvi to discuss things with. Even if Mukhi's wife was not Aru, it was Dharmi or any other woman, would this friendship of Mukhi Saanvi be accepted to easily.
One things I did feel bad for Aru...she does not have any friend here...nor confidante after Mishri's exit. Aru is all alone,with no one to talk to, no one to sound her opinions with. At least Mukhi has Saanvi. Thats why the saying " naye rishto ke liye purane rishte chodte nahi" does not gel with me.Marriage is a big thing...and old relations have to step back and make way for new relations.
Why is it that the girl has to leave everything, her parents, friends, job, work everything and come live with husband where is its okay if husband doesn't leave any of his relations..included BFFs.
Ladki ko kyon purane rishte chodne padte hain? Aru doesn't have any shoulder to lean on...she is just going by the flow. Wish she is given a friend in Amboli with whom she can vent things and sort her mind. Bring Mishri back, only she can knock sense into AruMu!!
Afterthought : Hope CVs bring a BFF from childhood for Aru, have her feed him chana chor garam made by Mukhi in front of him...and not let him know what the nature of the friendship is. Lets add to the mix that there was a talk of Aru getting married to the guy in childhood by both families .
Want to know how Dukhi Mukhi will take that. Wish to see!đ
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