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Posted: 8 years ago
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The sinner does not have the liberty to pick and choose a punishment of his liking unless justice delivery is a farce !!
Granted that suraj may not have committed adultery but he is just not absolved of his other wrong-doings that he is perpetrating on chakor since his grand confession. Inflicting lethal blows to her esteem, dignity & self-worth every day



Its just not a fragile moment decision that i am against. Of all the available options he chose the most gross one. No problem. But since that fragile moment, he is making conscious decisions all along -- of hurting his so-called love of life. And as someone pointed out in forum, he is unable to differentiate the khushi ke aansoo from taqlif ke aansoo of chakor.

As for his own pain, all i have to say is you just cannot cut your finger knowingly and claim parity with victims of bloodbath in the street. His pain is not equivalent to that of chakor


And his relation with imli is being questioned time and again because 1. he never gave us a closure to his epic first love
2. his intense emotions/concern for imli and their physical proximity give an otherwise signal.


And yes the brave must not backtrack. & an attitude-less Suraj is so unSuraj. i am wishing against all odds of tellyland, that he stays with imli n his bachua forever !! that he must not backtrack from his responsibility towards imli. His responsibility towards chakor as a husband can go to hell, (which ofcourse he is doing right now)
Edited by gibbu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I also noticed n ydays episode wen chakor out gun on h he s like khadam kardo tang aa chupke hai
Ek taraf t Hume chodke ja ra ho and doosara tarah imli.ko ... I don't know wat je was supposed to say , imli ko badnaam kar ra hai . See so he s NOT at all worrying about chakors feelings here also . His pain I'd chalor leave hi. And imli.ka pain.
BAS .
Suraj s still all himself himself not changed a bit . And imli . He s still the same old suraj . He s not even considering wat chakor just be going thru , boy even remembering wat all je promised her , and most irritatingly giving the LAMEST reason tha he s doing all this for chakor
Well his actions and dialogue proved otherwise
And i really don't want to see chakor apologising and uniting with suraj without any proper closure on imraaj
But CBs will give thay only ;@ ;(
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly, I have never seen such a male lead as Suraj. He is definitely one of a kind. We have to give him at least this!

So, he pins her on the fridge and shows aggression toward her and Chakor should fall at his feet! And she should also be very much impressed by the intensity in his eyes because this can make up for the fact that he just informed her that he shared his body again with her sister in the heat of the moment!!! They were alone in the jungle, what else they were supposed to do? They had to fill their time with something, didn't they? Chakor should understand! It meant nothing, simply a satisfaction of some basic needs, like sleeping for example. You can't live without it, you just have to perform it, either you like it or not!

And this damn girl, Chakor, she just doesn't want to read his mind. I mean, how can she do this to Suraj? Shameless wife, she refuses to scan his mind and see how much he is lying!!! You know, Chakor has taken some Jedi lessons and she knows how to read what people are thinking, but she doesn't want to use her power on commoners as Suraj and Imli.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

Honestly, I have never seen such a male lead as Suraj. He is definitely one of a kind. We have to give him at least this!

So, he pins her on the fridge and shows aggression toward her and Chakor should fall at his feet! And she should also be very much impressed by the intensity in his eyes because this can make up for the fact that he just informed her that he shared his body again with her sister in the heat of the moment!!! They were alone in the jungle, what else they were supposed to do? They had to fill their time with something, didn't they? Chakor should understand! It meant nothing, simply a satisfaction of some basic needs, like sleeping for example. You can't live without it, you just have to perform it, either you like it or not!

And this damn girl, Chakor, she just doesn't want to read his mind. I mean, how can she do this to Suraj? Shameless wife, she refuses to scan his mind and see how much he is lying!!! You know, Chakor has taken some Jedi lessons and she knows how to read what people are thinking, but she doesn't want to use her power on commoners as Suraj and Imli.


savage Claudia😆.

watched yesterday's episode. and planning to watch the serial again. i love it when good mahaan all forgiving female leads finally 'women' up and gives back the shiz that are dealt with.

ofcourse going by the promo it is AGAIN up to Chakor to be the hero and clear up the mess that others piled up.
maybe she will forgive and even ask forgiveness from her loving, trusting and perfect husband.

but till that moment i am SO going to enjoy this Chakor who is being you know... normal self respecting wife and woman.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

Sailu - there are 2 sets of people in the forum...one group who value self respect and self esteem over everything and will not stand for their husband putting another woman above them, or lying to them for whatever reason...especially when he claims to love them. There is another group of folks who believe when they love someone and their husband betrays them physically with another woman and puts that other woman above them at all times - they will still believe in the strength of their love and not walk away from their husband because he says he loves them. They have a great deal of love and tolerance.

Self esteem and self respect vs love - both great emotions.

Some of us value self-respect & esteem others love...I feel one cannot argue and bring the other side to your way of thinking.
We just have to agree to disagree. Difference in opinion is what makes this forum a great place.

I like how people here engage in healthy discussions n debates instead of bashing each other,unlike many websites.that's why I like this forum n I hope it remains this way only,because at the end,it's just a serial and everyone can have different perspectives 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gibbu

The sinner does not have the liberty to pick and choose a punishment of his liking unless justice delivery is a farce !!

Granted that suraj may not have committed adultery but he is just not absolved of his other wrong-doings that he is perpetrating on chakor since his grand confession. Inflicting lethal blows to her esteem, dignity & self-worth every day



Its just not a fragile moment decision that i am against. Of all the available options he chose the most gross one. No problem. But since that fragile moment, he is making conscious decisions all along -- of hurting his so-called love of life. And as someone pointed out in forum, he is unable to differentiate the khushi ke aansoo from taqlif ke aansoo of chakor.

As for his own pain, all i have to say is you just cannot cut your finger knowingly and claim parity with victims of bloodbath in the street. His pain is not equivalent to that of chakor


And his relation with imli is being questioned time and again because 1. he never gave us a closure to his epic first love
2. his intense emotions/concern for imli and their physical proximity give an otherwise signal.


And yes the brave must not backtrack. & an attitude-less Suraj is so unSuraj. i am wishing against all odds of tellyland, that he stays with imli n his bachua forever !! that he must not backtrack from his responsibility towards imli. His responsibility towards chakor as a husband can go to hell, (which ofcourse he is doing right now)

I disagree with a point here.we can't judge someone's pain to be more or less than another's..I know chakor is in a lot of pain..but so are Suraj n imli..yes he has made a very wrong decision..but that doesn't mean that his pain is less than that of chakor's..his loved ones are all against him right now..I agree that's due to his own stupidity..I see it as a responsibility he isn't willing to let go of..in which he has put his marriage at stake..but I feel he does realise chakor's pain too..I don't know why he is not telling her the truth..and in the process putting her in soo much pain..but I can't really say that his pain is less than that of hers..he too is going through so much ryt now..each n every pain is different n can't be compared with one another..P.S no offense to you dear..it's just my opinion :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: KUTUR


Suraj is not at all keeping double love Sailu...

Why are you always referring Imli as his ex flame,why not his childhood buddy or any traumatized pregnant lady...
I agree,that he took the most stupid decision in a weak and vulnerable moment,coz he was unable to see Chakor,crying,...it's love in its most innocent manner,in order to lessen her pain at that fragile moment, he ended up inflicting on her, the biggest pain...that's it.
By the time, he realized it he had already done the damage, and after taking the responsibility, retracing steps back, where is the bravery in it...I am glad that he owned his words

how can we refer her ? anything name have 😆
@bold red we couldn't accept stupid reason rabia.. did u noted yesterday chakor is very cleraly told that imli is not a small kid.. she can stay anywhere ..and she can manager herself so chakor tells him that indirectly he is leaving imli easily her own life.. but you are telling that suraj was unable to
see chakor's pain ..but yesterday chakor proved that she doesn't mind imli more than her husband and life after all this how can suraj tell he is doing chakor' shake..this is not possible .. this is cheap reason is telling .. i think however he want to save imli so .. he is using chakor's name.. 😡😡😡


i accept some of your blindly loving with suraj character.. so you are giving so much reason to suraj is doing right with imli than suraj..😆 i can understand you are die heart fan of suraj..but i also like suraj character but iam looking him justification way about suraj character .. i know you are some of people are disagreeing suraj mistakes.. but suraj is cheating chakor in name of love.. i can't agrre that suraj's love is a primary love with chakor .. you should think ur position.. just tells example .. what decision will take you/ if you are chakor's position in ur real life? (sorry it;s not for hurt u) . .. which wife will tolerate all crap this.. husband is choosing her sister more than her .. which wife will be quite rabia?/ i agree that vj is really good actor.. but cv totally killed his character 😭🤢
Edited by sailuja - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Richa1994, i have just zero regard for suraj's self-inflicted pain wherein he chose to suffer deliberately. There were numerous instances where he could have remedied it but he chose not to. Thumbs down to his sheer stupidity.

What to speak of Imli's pain. She chose to give in to surajs lame reasoning & accepted being an adulterous woman even when she knows vivaans truth; rather she should be trying to uncover it in front of all.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

Sailu - there are 2 sets of people in the forum...one group who value self respect and self esteem over everything and will not stand for their husband putting another woman above them, or lying to them for whatever reason...especially when he claims to love them. There is another group of folks who believe when they love someone and their husband betrays them physically with another woman and puts that other woman above them at all times - they will still believe in the strength of their love and not walk away from their husband because he says he loves them. They have a great deal of love and tolerance.

Self esteem and self respect vs love - both great emotions.

Some of us value self-respect & esteem others love...I feel one cannot argue and bring the other side to your way of thinking.
We just have to agree to disagree. Difference in opinion is what makes this forum a great place.

I agree that priya it's just a serial and everybody can have different angles .people here involve in strong discussions n debates instead of criticizing each other.. but iam the self respect and self esteem group.. i couldn't see this crap serial or own life. really disgusting how some people are believing husband like this ..iam really surprised that .. so some of mans are pushing down them so called name of love in the world .. 😡 really pathetic love .. hope chakor is a self esteem and self woman.. future even also she will not mistress her life ..😛

Edited by sailuja - 8 years ago

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